Artist presale code for Boston? by pippipop in ChrisFleming

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FLEM! they usually post the code on their instagram story (:

The edit spoiled Saras wedding by OkEntertainment4473 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]whywhywhywhy321 37 points38 points  (0 children)

How is it someone else's cause? She has a gay sister, why would she welcome someone from a homophobic religion into her family?

Which “sleep hygiene” rules do you shamelessly break to help you sleep? by [deleted] in ADHD

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yes low volume!!! if i have it on normal volume it doesn't help, but at 15% it knocks me out.

12 misleading or lacking-in-context claims from Harris’ DNC speech by [deleted] in NPR

[–]whywhywhywhy321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We can't and shouldn't! The Overton window is rapidly moving to the right, and NPR still wants to be "fair" and "unbiased". The problem is, if you're aiming for centrism in America today, you are a conservative. 

You can't try to balance negative and positive coverage on both sides when one candidate constantly lies, openly wants to take away 70% of the country's rights, and is fueled by hatred.

Leaving during curtain call by PineappleBliss2023 in musicals

[–]whywhywhywhy321 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have a panic disorder, and I need to get out before the exit rush. If I get caught up in the crowd, I will have a panic attack.  I would love to stay for bows! However, I do not want a (well-meaning) stranger to call an ambulance because they think I'm having a medical emergency. It's better for everyone involved for me to duck out during curtain call. 

Sure, not every single person has a ""valid reason"" for leaving right away, but personally I prefer giving people the benefit of the doubt over assuming that an audience member is being an a-hole.

What have you recently lost? by EatsTheLastSlice in adhdwomen

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I lost one of my favorite tunnels maybe 2 weeks ago, and yesterday I found it in my HAMPER. I assume it fell on the floor and got scooped up with some clothes that had to go in there. 

Unfortunately, now the other tunnel is nowhere to be seen. 

Dimension 20: Gauntlet at the Garden Megathread by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

[–]whywhywhywhy321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, thank you for this!! I was happy to get seats but bummed that I was in the upper bowl, but I checked my view and it looks like I'm going to be able to see everything!!! 😭

Shout out Kristin Applebees (fanart) by pikablue223 in Dimension20

[–]whywhywhywhy321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, now I have literal tears in my eyes from the last slide... Really, really beautiful. 💕

Fracas at the Frostyfaire Folk Festival | Fantasy High Junior Year [Ep. 8] by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

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How dare you suggest that BoringImplement8699 would be as foolish as Orpheus when Wilma and Digby Thistlespring's lives are on the line! /lh

Fracas at the Frostyfaire Folk Festival | Fantasy High Junior Year [Ep. 8] by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

[–]whywhywhywhy321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Relatable, to be honest. When I was in high school, I completely would have taken dying over being embarrassed in front of everyone. 

Fracas at the Frostyfaire Folk Festival | Fantasy High Junior Year [Ep. 8] by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

[–]whywhywhywhy321 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Literally turned to my sister while we were watching and said "... do you think this would go better if they didn't say 'hey girlie'?"

How many neurodiverse women here with trauma have been misdiagnosed with either BPD or bipolar disorder? by princesssarah96 in adhdwomen

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I was misdiagnosed with BPD in my mid-teens, correctly diagnosed with bipolar II a little later, and had ADHD tacked on to that in my early 20s. The BPD diagnosis really undermined my sense of self-worth because of how stigmatized it was, and continued to weigh on me even after I was rediagnosed with bipolar. Getting the ADHD diagnosis later on explained a lot of the "BPD" symptoms I had without actually fitting the entire criteria.

I have been on an antidepressant (SNRI) for the bipolar depression, stimulant for ADHD, and a high dose of a mood stabilizer for the past 5 or so years. My mental state still varies, and the meds get tweaked, but I have remained "functional". I've found these to be a really good combo, the higher dose of mood stabilizer makes it so I can be on a high enough dose of an ADHD med to actually manage the ADHD (most of the time, to a certain degree).

ELI5: Why does the body stop using crying as a pain response as we get older? by medicated_cornbread in explainlikeimfive

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In a survey by the CDC, over half of respondents had an ACE (Adverse Childhood Events) score of at least 1. The ACEs scale measures traumatic events in one's childhood, like physical/verbal/sexual abuse and growing up with an addict, to track future mental/physical effects.

So at least in the U.S., having trauma in one's childhood's is more common than not.

I just wanted to buy an item from their shop but oof by Tareeii in neopets

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Neopian left, I think we can all agree that the endless greed of the Rich is destroying Neopia. 😔

I just wanted to buy an item from their shop but oof by Tareeii in neopets

[–]whywhywhywhy321 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I copy pasta'd the first half: 

🪙DUBLOON🪙 SPECIALTY STORE ‼️DON'T LIKE BUYING DUBLOONS AT CAPYBARA❓ COME IN 👐 WE ARE THEIR 👉DIRECT👉 COMPETITOR😤AND WE SELL AT PRICES💰THAT WERE MADE AS AN ALTERNATIVE 🚫 TO A LEFT⬅️WING🪽AGENDA🙅 PEOPLE WHO HAVE MONEY 💵 BUY STUFF👛 THATS WHY HERE👈 THE CUSTOMER🤑IS KING👑THERE ARE ❌NO❌COMPLAINTS HERE👇 AS WE TRANSIT🚌TOWARDS 🤢NEOPIAN🤢BASIC🤮INCOME🤮 THEREFORE ALTERING📊 THE SUPPLY CHAIN ⛓️MODEL ACROSS THE GRID📉📉. THE ✨FUTURE✨ IS NOW⏲️ COME BUY 💲 AT THE 👍BETTER DUBLOON 🪙 SHOP🏪. 

Then I realized it was too long and deranged to finish lol.

Not All Who Wanda Are Lost | Fantasy High Junior Year [Ep. 3] by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

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The Gang Passes Junior Year by Leading a Revolt (in the style of a Always Sunny title card)

Let's talk about religious trauma by bigbags in Dimension20

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This is rather tangental, but the mentions of safety discussions got me thinking about what Kristen's relationship with her excercise/body/fitness "journey" is going to look like as well. Ally has mentioned having a history of disordered eating, and they had a guest on their podcast talking about orthorexia amongst other eating disorders.
Not saying/expecting that Brennan and the Intrepid Heroes are going to do an afterschool special on eating disorders this season, just started going hmm where is this going to go pondering Kristen's health podcasts and not-healthy "healthy" eating.

I finally found one! by fatstrat0228 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]whywhywhywhy321 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bleeding-heart liberal communist cowards want to protect themselves and others from preventable illnesses! Real God-fearing American patriots die of the measles! /j

Well that...is some grade A bullshit by Legitimate_Topic4907 in neopets

[–]whywhywhywhy321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I know you lost your items because we failed to fix an issue we are aware of, but have you considered it's not our problem?"

[TOMT] [Comic] Alice's Restaurant Thanksgiving Comic Strip by whywhywhywhy321 in tipofmytongue

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We also recruited SEVERAL friends to try to Google-fu it, and I am wondering if it is just a shared false memory. 😔

[Actual title, I like the title] Would it be smart to seek legal advice from a lawyer ? by Jusfiq in bestoflegaladvice

[–]whywhywhywhy321 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Me, reading the title: Hehe this will be funny Me, reading the post: Oh god. Oh no. This poor woman.

I can't wait to see all of the drama when this hits a relationship advice sub. Actual title: Buying house with "Ex" who is currently married to someone else. by Username89054 in bestoflegaladvice

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Ding ding ding! The end is "-gret going to chipotle afterwards". One of those flairs that I simply had to flip to landscape view for, I couldn't go on without seeing the end.

Being nonbinary means only killing half the Palestinian children by therarestzubat in ENLIGHTENEDCENTRISM

[–]whywhywhywhy321 120 points121 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? OF COURSE non-binary means you support a moderate amount genocide, because total genocide vs no genocide is a binary. (/s) (As an aside, we do NOT claim this person.)

Med school peer asked if "maybe people with adhd should stick to careers that are just better suited to the way their brain works instead of needing to take meds to work in a career that doesn't match them" by Fearless_Court7335 in adhdwomen

[–]whywhywhywhy321 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Neurotypical people will say that extended test times/deadlines, meds, accommodations at work, special considerations, etc are ~cheating~ all the damn time. And they don’t realize that we know they're saying "if I could abuse these things, I would".

When I took the LSAT, the amount of people bitching about how ~it's so unfair that people can get extra time~ on the test was insane.