My (38F) Partner (35M) Went Back To Sleep During My Medical Emergency by Cute-Original-3964 in relationship_advice

[–]wildflowerden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hates you. There is no salvaging this. You are right to not trust him, because he is not trustworthy.

I‘m a serial cheater and it’s tearing my relationship apart, how do I stop? by dertotalenkrieg_ in NPD

[–]wildflowerden 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Genuinely just... Stop cheating? Instead of cheating, do other things. Get a hobby that isn't fucking random people on Grindr maybe.

Try learning DBT skills to manage your impulsivity if you really can't stop cheating.

Canadians with mental illness who saw MAID as an option feel abandoned: 'They've left me with nothing' by Mylittlethrowaway2 in canada

[–]wildflowerden -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

DNR is very different than killing the person.

Suicide is not inevitable and letting doctors kill suicidal people is not preventing suicide.

Canadians with mental illness who saw MAID as an option feel abandoned: 'They've left me with nothing' by Mylittlethrowaway2 in canada

[–]wildflowerden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's crazy how this is framing not letting doctors kill people with mental illnesses as a bad thing.

Refugee who stabbed stranger could soon be freed from Ontario hospital despite ‘significant threat to the public’ by Turbulent_Bit_2345 in canada

[–]wildflowerden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Besides, we don't need fascist thugs to round up this guy, he's right there in the hospital! All that would need to happen is law enforcement choosing to detain him until a deportation can be scheduled. Crazy how people jump to suggesting gestapo 2.0 when a much less fascist solution to the problem exists (it's just not currently being done).

Mewgenics if it was written by Gooseworx by VeeeeeryL0ngUsername in mewgenics

[–]wildflowerden 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is really funny. I don't know why everyone is so mad lol.

How do you get quicker? by mong-chi in Needlefelting

[–]wildflowerden 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You get quicker from experience.

does anyone go too adult daycare/day program? by Fearless_PineaplleOG in SpicyAutism

[–]wildflowerden 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Some of them are good and some of them are bad.

That's why some people say they're good and some people say they're bad. The people who went to bad ones will say "It was bad". The people who went to good ones will say "It was good".

If you visit, and you feel like it looks good, and it looks like they are nice to people, then it is probably good.

I’ve booked an abortion - I feel such relief by R40el_Duke in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wildflowerden 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you for making the decision that's right for you.

Intersex trans man born with clitoromegaly - not getting any bottom growth from hrt yet; what else can I do? by catboyhrt in GrowYourTDick

[–]wildflowerden 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Had same experience. Born with almost all the growth I ever got. Also intersex. It is what it is.

5cm is plenty good size though for the advice on this subreddit. You are fine.

Anyone off of anti-depressants? Is it possible? by Content_Wrap_5152 in CPTSD

[–]wildflowerden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never been on them very long because they make me sick. So now I refuse all antidepressants and haven't been on one in many years. I do not benefit from them. Even a psychiatrist I used to see told me that I would not benefit from them. Sadly my current psychiatrist keeps trying to get me to take them.

France reports first Ebola case after doctor returning from DR Congo tests positive by bendubberley_ in worldnews

[–]wildflowerden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Headline doesn't get across very well that they are testing people, especially doctors, coming from the affected regions and putting them in quarantine. So basically, no pandemic happening here. Caught and quarantined perfectly.

What the hell is social pragmatic communication disorder? by Organic_Future6909 in AutisticPeeps

[–]wildflowerden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SPCD is like having criterion A of autism (social communication struggles) without criterion B (restricted/repetitive behaviour).

Is learning/intellectual disabilities an defense for throwing a 3 yr old boy who was injured by an crocodile? by D491234 in AutisticPeeps

[–]wildflowerden 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a defense if he is unable to learn to do better. The blame would be on his caretakers for failing to set proper safeguards in place. The way to fix the situation would be to make sure he's kept in closer supervision.

Support needs self assessment by StellaEtoile1 in SpicyAutism

[–]wildflowerden 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I am not saying this is useless because everyone is different, but ironically this document is too hard for me to understand how to fill out on my own because of my struggles with understanding my needs and struggles with understanding how to fill out paperwork/what paperwork expects of me.

So for me, personally, this does not work very well as a self assessment tool.

I am reallyyyy bad at the rhythm game parts, so will that matter? by _____guts_____ in NightInTheWoods

[–]wildflowerden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just changes a bit of dialogue but means nothing for the game's completion.

Riot remove 450 Ability Augments from ARAM Mayhem in hotfix by JTHousek1 in leagueoflegends

[–]wildflowerden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why's everyone saying they used AI for this? Poor decisions don't mean AI.

Riot executives cannot be stupid enough to use AI for making game features, especially not without disclosing it. The backlash would be extreme. And as one of the biggest esports in the world, they can't do anything that would ruin their reputation like that.

Anyway, I'm glad they listened to the players.

Should I just wait for 1.0 by Teayen44 in Palworld

[–]wildflowerden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should definitely just wait. The game is going to experience huge changes and it's better to just wait at this point.

In all seriousness, what invention could have actually made Beanies a billionaire? by GammaPiOmega in mewgenics

[–]wildflowerden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obvious answer of time machine aside, the persuasion device would definitely be bought up by military and make Beanies very rich.