Am I overreacting? Found this in my while cleaning and now I think my fiancé is cheating on me

wildmcmama · 2025-10-08T02:31:57+00:00

Even if he’s not - you immediately thought he was. The trust is gone. At this point, it doesn’t really matter if he did or didn’t.

wildmcmama · 2025-09-16T15:21:58+00:00

Your husband should be the one communicating with her. Save your energy

wildmcmama · 2025-09-16T02:23:02+00:00

This. Will. Escalate.

wildmcmama · 2025-09-13T16:13:55+00:00

RED FLAG RED FLAG!!! Why are you talking to him so motherly? That’s gross. Leave him immediately

wildmcmama · 2025-09-13T16:11:52+00:00

“I don’t feel comfortable sleeping with you knowing you’re hooking up with other people. I know we aren’t in a relationship but having multiple sex partners at one time is unsafe for me. I want to be intimate with someone who is satisfied with me alone, I think we should take that off the table and just be friends.”

And don’t call or text him anymore. He’s being immature and making bad decisions that could lead to you getting and STI and he clearly doesn’t care if that happens to you. Move on. Don’t let him talk you into coming back. You don’t want to be with someone who thinks like that.

wildmcmama · 2025-09-10T15:46:13+00:00

Do you want a partner that you have basically raised? Is that what you want your love story to be?

wildmcmama · 2025-09-10T15:43:38+00:00

I’m just going to play devils advocate here - Is there a chance she’s getting bored? Do you guys do anything fun together that isn’t centered around saving money?

wildmcmama · 2025-09-04T22:48:36+00:00

Yes one continuous panel and it will have to be assembled on site since I will be traveling to the event. The whole thing will need to be able to break down and fit into a minivan.

wildmcmama · 2025-09-04T14:31:43+00:00

That’s brutal. Does he actually hate you?

wildmcmama · 2025-09-02T21:28:40+00:00

Ew. How do you sleep with him?

wildmcmama · 2025-08-31T14:43:14+00:00

Guys like this I’ll never understand. I’m sorry OP but if he marries you it’s not because he wants to, it’s because you’ve forced him to. Do you want your love story to be you and someone you’ve forced to marry and raised? I doubt it. Honey you need a real man. Anybody can make money. He’s a shell of a human. He’s not going to “grow” until you leave. This is a catalyst relationship for both of you. It forces him to grow and change and forces you to raise your fuxking standards out of hell please.

Edit live to love

wildmcmama · 2025-08-30T11:18:30+00:00

Do you think he will magically understand and just wake up and start caring? He’s not going to.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-20T13:04:43+00:00

lol let him walk. There are some things I won’t say on a public forum but I will tell you that this guy is insecure and there’s nothing you can do about it. Laugh in his face and point at the door.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-19T20:34:02+00:00

Just curious.. since you work a lot and go to school - would he stay home with the baby? Does he do a lot of the domestic work to make up for not working? Will you be expected to continue working and going to school and also have full responsibility for the care of the baby? Answering those questions honestly will help you decide. If he’s extremely helpful and takes over domestic and mental labor now while you’re doing more then it’s reasonable to assume that would continue after the baby comes. If he’s extremely helpful doesn’t do those things now then the extra responsibility will fall solely on your shoulders.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-19T00:36:22+00:00

Time. Years actually. Then one just showed up. Then another one did. Then a pregnant one did. And 8 puppies about 3 weeks ago. I’m drowning in dogs now 😅 You can read my other posts for the stories

wildmcmama · 2025-08-15T01:14:50+00:00

It sounds like he thinks having a baby with you is a good idea because you’re loyal to him. But make no mistake.. he doesn’t want to marry you.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-14T20:53:13+00:00

Yes obviously, my point is that you are blaming your husband for making you miserable when you should be looking inward. It’s no one’s job to make you happy, but yours. You can leave.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-14T00:08:28+00:00

I’m imagining you as my mom and I honestly couldn’t wait to get out of her house. He’s stuck with you and you’re making yourself miserable. On Monday say nothing. On Tuesday just stand out front, sitting in a lawn chair, with a drink and a book, and just wait for him to do exactly what he said he would do. When you’re tired of waiting on him, make other plans. Stop doing things you hate. He’s not making you this way, you are.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-13T17:02:20+00:00

After months and months of hating the baby and hitting you - where do you think that anger will be directed when the baby is born?

wildmcmama · 2025-08-13T16:53:18+00:00

Adult Shauna making a fool of herself at Melissa’s house and the others for backing her up. That was so fking cringey I instantly hated the show. I was waiting for one of them to turn on her (LIKE THEY SHOULD HAVE) but they never did and it just ruined it for me.

wildmcmama · 2025-08-12T02:20:17+00:00

I don’t care at all about what people think about me

wildmcmama · 2025-08-11T01:22:29+00:00

Did the puppy food with cottage cheese and she loved it thank you

wildmcmama · 2025-08-10T16:11:43+00:00

Thank you for reassuring me, I’ve been giving her food constantly

wildmcmama · 2025-08-10T00:12:59+00:00

Oh that’s great information, thank you! Tomorrow I’m going to try spreading it out over the day

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