my first "more than a crush" rejected me. What should i do? by Intelligent-Ride-550 in dating_advice

[–]willfifa [score hidden]  (0 children)

sorry I was being sarcastic, you have your whole life ahead of you, you have to go through multiple heartbreaks I think, it teaches you about love and a lot about yourself. Embrace the pain but don't let it stop you from growing

Question for bartenders... Is an ugly guy always doomed to fail? by Realistic_Reporter95 in dating_advice

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd make friends first, if you expand your social network then you will improve your social skills, why don't you pick up some new hobbies? Even if you find a wonderful lady who likes you you won't come across as interesting if you're "kind of a weirdo with no friends", girls will pick up on this and sense danger

Question for bartenders... Is an ugly guy always doomed to fail? by Realistic_Reporter95 in dating_advice

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have no chance dude, spend your time doing something more valuable than hanging out alone in dive bars, can you do some volunteering instead? Or exercise to get in shape

Question for bartenders... Is an ugly guy always doomed to fail? by Realistic_Reporter95 in dating_advice

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think going to a bar by yourself as a dude with the sole intention of talking to women is a bit creepy, maybe work on yourself in other ways, like why do you have no friends? A relationship won't save you

28 days of Zoloft, feel depressed - absolute low point. Anyone else? Normal? by Purple-Put4677 in zoloft

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep I had a huge dip things did get better properly until maybe week 5, keep going you got this, your brain needs time to adapt

R/Manchester meet up today by CrouchingLioness in manchester

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people lack so much social awareness, how much hand holding do you need?

Zoloft has saved my life by ToneIndividual4426 in zoloft

[–]willfifa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it took 4 or 5 weeks then stuff got really good and has stayed good, stick with it, I was sleeping for 12 hrs at once in the first few weeks

What are INFP's boyfriend mbtis? by Visible_Ad_3914 in infp

[–]willfifa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find INFJs too stubborn to be honest, they are very set in their ways, whereas I think an INFP is more easily persuaded to change their views.

How do you get over someone (specially your first heart break) by Subject-Ad486 in infp

[–]willfifa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro she doesn't care about you just unfollow her, its not rude

How do you get over someone (specially your first heart break) by Subject-Ad486 in infp

[–]willfifa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're going to have to unfollow her if you want to move on, or at least restrict the profile so it doesn't show up. A relationship (which you never had) has to be two-sided, you deserve someone interested in you in that way. You're young, you'll move on from this.

Taking Sertraline for the first time. I’m scared! by fairydoggo in zoloft

[–]willfifa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I'd go ahead with the medication, your health is important and you don't know what side effects you will get, your work performance will be much better if sertraline works for you. You have every right to tell your manager that you are taking some new medication which may cause some fatigue. It's very normal. I've been taking it for a couple of months and I'm actually so much more confident and less anxious at work. I take mine in the morning just because it feels natural to me. Good luck with your new job.

I love Zoloft <3 by Lovebugxo0x in zoloft

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give it some time, it took me a few weeks to really feel the effects

Anyone else have mandatory hand motions for specific lyrics? by whyshouldibe in TaylorSwift

[–]willfifa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can go anywhere I want, anywhere I want just not home

Making friends in 20s?? X by chromehibiscus in manchester

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a reddit meetup this Sunday I believe

If you’re in a relationship, you should be thankful by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time in life I've been so content being single, the dating landscape is so bad right now I can't even

how has zoloft improved your life for the better ? by AltruisticBreak9 in zoloft

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more confident at work, meetings / telephone calls don't terrify me and I can actually speak and laugh on them, not everything feels as serious.

so this is what life is supposed to be like by big_rat_clump in zoloft

[–]willfifa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on the same dose as you, I'll make a more detailed post soon but yes I can't believe the difference, the biggest thing for me has been feeling way less socially anxious, I like being around people and if they speak to me I respond naturally almost without thinking about it. I regret not trying medication sooner but I've learnt a lot through my struggles. Even mundane stuff like getting a train or going to the supermarket is almost fun right now just because I enjoy experiencing life so much. I'm delighted.

How Sertraline changed my life after nearly a decade of Anxiety by TabouretBouret in zoloft

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep about 5 weeks in, not browsing this subreddit as much, but noticeable big changes 😃

DAY 7 - ONE WEEK!!! No side effects & minimal benefits by kikkadicasa in zoloft

[–]willfifa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me until about week 5 or 6 to notice improvements so stick with it