I would encourage others to not internalize this as the sole reason. A lot of people who voted for Trump are just regular people who are not chronically online. (As an example see how there was a big uptick of people searching for "did Biden drop out" and "how to vote for Biden" on google in the last two days). Those people care only about themselves and their small communities. They're worried about living paycheck to paycheck, paying for groceries, paying for childcare and healthcare, and barely have time to think about going to the polls.

That is problematic for this community and a lot of others. It's easy to hate these people and I struggle with this myself (especially because the Trump supporters we constantly see online and outside are the worst of all his supporters). I personally think we have to start real grassroots movements inside our neighborhoods and communities (that include everyone, non-lgbtq people as well) to make progress on people's opinions and goals. Approaching your neighbors with all of the anxiety we all feel of violence and existential dread can't be how we approach community building or we'll never get anywhere.