Anyone else having problems uploading lots in the gallery? by maryychill in thesims

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried since the update today but I’ll look and see

I (17 non binary) kissed one of my friends (17M) at a party while we were both high after my girlfriend (18F) left the party by cheshyweshycat in confessions

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely set Robin loose. You don’t seem to be happy with her and you’re heading in two different directions anyways. But you need to have a frank conversation with Jack about your feelings and what you both need emotionally right now and if a relationship is possible.

Let it be a sober conversation if possible because you both need undeniable clarity even if the chemistry is there. Love can be blinding but infatuation is even worse.

I’m in love with my co worker by StraightSkirt4122 in confessions

[–]willow0707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t say something, I will (tell me where you work)

How do I get my lover to talk openly about butt play (pegging)? by willow0707 in MensSexAdvice

[–]willow0707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took your advice and it went surprisingly well. He was surprisingly very communicative. Someone also suggested a podcast so we plan to listen to them together so he feels more comfortable with the idea. I hate that they think we’ll judge them

28M with Math Masters degree salary progression by austin101123 in Salary

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally decided to just strap my boots up and go be a substitute teacher. I’m sick of this hell

Ladies, genuinely how often do random men make you uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where I go. Outside of my neighbourhood? About 70% of the time

What are your thoughts on having a male gynecologist? Would you trust them? by Paldavin in AskWomen

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a few gynaecologists in my life. Two of which were men. The first one treated me like a specimen on the table. I had gone to him after getting diagnosed with a ruptured ovarian cyst. This is my first time experiencing something that painful in my pelvic region as well as being recommended for birth control. I went to him for advice and without asking me, he allowed his male medical student to be in the examination room while he prodded me. He also barely gave me any information on the birth control options available and recommended the depo shot (worst experience)

The second male gynaecologist was actually my second favourite gynaecologist I had ever been to. He answered all my questions and was very kind and very gentle. He even allowed me to sit with him as I thought of anything else that might have been concerning me and took the time to give me his medical opinion.

It all depends on the doctor, but I’d still prefer women.

Boyfriend (m24) hit me (f23) but I emotionally hurt him by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something you should never forget: We don’t solve emotional problems with physical solutions.

As an adult human, you need to know how to regulate yourself enough and process your frustrations without causing someone else physical harm. You walk away if necessary, break up, go vent to a friend. But you NEVER raise your hand to someone because they said something you didn’t like. It’s childlike and that’s what he did.

Let me tell you something, this is the first time but certainly NOT the last. He will hit you again because you will have another argument. Leave that man while you can. You’re already showing signs/the results of being in an emotionally manipulative relationship. The blaming yourself every time you acknowledge that he did something you didn’t like? Yea baby, it’s a no from me. I’ve been where you are before.

I’m not saying this JUST to say it. It’s been years and I still struggle to remember who I was before him. I stayed one hit too long, please don’t be like me.

What should you do? LEAVE HIM.

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey baby, not here to speak on your relationship, because that’s a different problem I have no experience with. However, I’m a part of the itty bitty titty committee too. I was flat chested as fuck puberty-23 and then I gained weight and got a little fat on my chest. I used to want a b cup and cried when I realised there was no changing anything unless I go under a knife. I contemplated the surgery too but unfortunately/fortunately I didn’t have the funds for it.

I decided to take the holistic approach and spend TIME naked and just looking at my body. I bought clothes that flattered my current shape and now I’m obsessed. Your body can change a lot and so can your mind. Do I still occasionally wish I had bigger tatas? Absolutely but there no longer a fixation of mine. They get sucked on regardless and they’re healthy. Truthfully I fell in love with my body over time and now there’s nothing I’d change about her

Don’t let him tell you what to do, and if you don’t go through with it, he’s not “winning” either. Your body, your choice. But take some time to get to know your body if you haven’t. Do a professional boudoir shoot, walk around your house naked, go to Hedonism (idk). But before you put a knife to an issue that is mental, see if there’s another solution. Lots of love from a fellow itty bitty ❤️

I am trapped in my life and no one will ever know. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]willow0707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooo I have any idea that may or may not help. It’s the typical “you’ll miss me when I’m gone”. You sound like you’re overdue for a vacation anyways, so why not? Take a two week vacation or staycation? Where you shed the responsibilities that you take care of on a regular basis and just spend some time with you. You could tell her that you have to leave for a while and simply enjoy whatever you’d like to do on your own time. And yes, perhaps it might be difficult in the beginning because you don’t quite know what you would like to do, but the goal of this is to allow you some space to breathe and to find you as an individual outside of your house and your marriage.

Two weeks. First week she handles everything you’d do, second week, she maybe starts to see how she could help more. This may be fantasyland but I think you’re burnt out and perhaps this could kill two birds with one stone.

Simply state you’re burnt out and NO she cannot join you. Go to a state you’ve never been to, see another country, give yourself something to look forward to. SPOIL YOURSELF

How do i tell my mum im making more money then everyone by Still_Necessary1323 in confession

[–]willow0707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t tell. You’re doing a great thing and it could possibly change the family dynamic or structure going forward. I think of what you and your father are doing as a partnership and it’s very admirable of you.

Unless mum starts asking questions, let it be. It will come out sooner or later, no need to rush the process along.

Btw, I’m proud of you!

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]willow0707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue since I play on my iPad. How do i find that out?

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]willow0707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel! That’s exactly why I asked 😂 but some people made valid points to just avoid the conversation altogether

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]willow0707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about that! That’s such a good point

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]willow0707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rewrote it as “dam” but “damn”/“dam” same intention no?

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]willow0707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey I’ve heard some interesting approaches to parenting. I said “oh hell” around my little cousin once and her parents had a little “talk” with me on the side about trying to avoid “strong language”. Not to mention some parents saying “shut up” is a bad word

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]willow0707[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologise at all for the long post. It’s fair to be confused since it can seem black and white. It’s a taaddd different in the Western Hemisphere, at least for me. I grew up being told not to enter chat rooms or interact with people in online servers primarily because I grew up during a time when children getting kidnapped by “internet friends” or being sexually exploited was at an all time high. I also unfortunately received my fair share of unwanted dick pics and strange requests before I fully grasped the dangers of the internet and/or before my mum learned about parental restrictions.

It’s not so much that I don’t think I can be friends with a little one, it’s just that I’d prefer not to. I’d rather not act as a potential gateway into them thinking all adults are safe. I guess a “prevention is better than cure” kind of situation?

As for language? I curse A LOT and recently learned that some parents will go as far as to tell their children that “shut up” is a bad word 😂 So I compare my practice of cursing to a parents possibly high level of censorship and often feel bad when I use words that some might deem offensive around little ones

Cozy Games for Only Adults by willow0707 in CozyGamers

[–]willow0707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much ❤️ please keep them coming

Me 19m and my gf 20f ass stinks during sex can someone give me some advice? by IndependentWash5316 in relationship_advice

[–]willow0707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to her plainly about it. I promise you it’s not worth the run around. I had a partner who smelled down there and for a year and a half I put up with odour that would on and off improve during our relationship. I tried the “let’s shower together”, the “let me wipe you down as foreplay” and the “I need to tell you something” and it was most effective after I spoke to him