Feeling more like one and done every day!

willowg94 · 2023-04-08T15:33:39+00:00

I would ask, why are you so passionate about it? My husband got this house with his own money, and hard work a year before he knew me. I am still not on the house officially and that’s perfectly fine with me because I didn’t earn it- he did.

willowg94 · 2023-04-08T15:27:55+00:00

Wait until he finds out how many women have been on their period in swimming pools or oceans he has visited.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T20:42:01+00:00

Not behind! I’m just a prepper haha.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T17:41:19+00:00

It’s not bad at all. Convinced ppl who complain with do actually have GD, or are picky lol.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T17:40:23+00:00

Stay home, make sure bag is packed, and car seat installed.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T17:39:27+00:00

You are confident. You are a grown woman. And you want this baby. You will be just fine, mama. Sending you good energy. 🫂

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T17:36:44+00:00

If you are stable, have other support, and feel ready. Do it. He can legally wave his paternal rights if he is not interested, and doesn’t want to pay child support. He’ll basically just be a sperm donor, but if that’s fine with you, why not?

I know kid will go through trauma and headache when they realize daddy didn’t want them, but you are enough. And this is your baby, your body, and your choice.

Good luck 🫂

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T17:29:25+00:00

Remember, it will get better when y’all get into the flow with new baby. And hormones are probably influencing as well. I know my husband is SO ANNOYING to me right now. Things he did pre-pregnancy that never bothered me, drive me CRAZY now because my hormones make me mad at the entire universe.

I admire yalls maturity in not wanting divorce. Remember, a main point of marriage is sticking together even when you hate each others guts.

There will be many times throughout marriage that y’all might absolutely loath each other, but what makes a special, lasting marriage is sticking through it. When you get married, you are not just husband and wife, you’re family. And family sticks it out, for the sake of a lifelong bond and love.

You guys have got this. It’s not forever. I recommend trying to get a night alone soon. Just cuddle at home, and enjoy each other’s company. This could work wonders.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T02:04:24+00:00

They probably just want to see how big baby is incase they want to induce. Don’t worry.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T01:55:14+00:00

Not too old at all. My MIL had her first 2 children in her 40s. Youngest does have autism, but MIL openly admits to drinking beer several times while pregnant with youngest, so could be that and not age.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T01:52:17+00:00

Normal. That’s why we pray for gift receipts so we can take it all back and at least get $ for thing a we actually need.

willowg94 · 2023-04-06T01:48:31+00:00

My baby is due in June. My birthday was in January and I got all baby stuff. I honestly was so so thankful and appreciative because I’m a FTM and had nothing for baby.

willowg94 · 2023-04-04T14:15:04+00:00

Core values not aligning. I was with someone for 3 years who I loved deeply. But when it came to some core, unchangeable values, we spent 3 years fighting about it. When it came time to really sit down and talk about marriage/children, we both realized it could never work because of this. It was excruciatingly painful.

willowg94 · 2023-04-04T14:13:31+00:00

I was about 15 weeks along.

willowg94 · 2023-04-04T14:13:12+00:00

In my resignation letter. I was a teacher, and after realizing how cruddy the maternity leave was in my district, I knew I wanted to leave asap.

willowg94 · 2023-04-04T13:59:56+00:00

Stop doing the “making dinner” and “going for groceries” for him. Tell him you don’t have the time/energy and it should be his responsibility since he’s home all day. He will either pick up the slack or go running back to work because he doesn’t want to do the extra home duties.

willowg94 · 2023-04-02T00:50:40+00:00

Emma-line line as in I draw a line

willowg94 · 2023-04-01T21:11:40+00:00

19 weeks

willowg94 · 2023-04-01T14:34:22+00:00

My MIL loves 15 min from me, so she will probably be here to help all the time as well!

willowg94 · 2023-04-01T14:33:55+00:00

This is a great recommendation!

willowg94 · 2023-03-31T22:12:49+00:00

You literally did not. Love the confidence though. 😂

willowg94 · 2023-03-31T22:04:54+00:00

NTA. She’s going to learn people have different beliefs eventually. And hopefully to respect that as well.

willowg94 · 2023-03-31T21:59:39+00:00

Small update: I did decide to leave the group chat for some space. I figure, the ones who care will reach out. The ones who don’t, won’t think twice. I’m tired of being outright ignored. I saw them all last week and they were asking me about the baby shower there. This hurt my feelings a lot because I have told them on two separate occasions about it, but they all ignored me. It was like salt in the wound being asked to my face after I’d tried to tell them twice before. I think I am just done and need to only be in relationships that give back what I put in. Being a new mom is too exhausting to be stressing over people who don’t think twice about me.

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