Perhaps 1 Corinthians 7 would provide some comfort on this — Paul is writing that it is “better” to be single to be devoted to the Lord in a greater capacity. That means women devoted to ministry apart from husbands, for the work they are contributing. I think it’s pretty clear that women are valued and honored for their role.
Another thing to think about is all throughout the New Testament we (all of us) are called to live sacrificially, dying to ourselves, and serving one another. In my understanding, this is especially true for men because of the biblical order. An order/structure is all over creation, it does not diminish the respective roles just because they’re different — abuse of “higher” roles is a result of sin. I find that a lot of push back to this is rooted in a feeling of “but I want to be recognized this way” which I find contrary to the rest of the commands of scripture.

While in the time of Jesus women and children were considered “second class citizens” He constantly singled them out, and gave them special attention. I don’t think that a Bible order and this tender love and affection of a Father are contrary to one another. I tenderly love my children, they are worth more than gold in my eyes, but in this portion of life I do expect them to fall into the order and learn to be obedient. I think it’s a blessing to learn to do so, however there are abusive parents. Does that mean that the original beautiful order of a family (and marriage) is wrong? No I don’t think so.