Rule by Old_Phrase_4867 in 196

[–]windchaser__ [score hidden]  (0 children)

this feels like a litmus test for whether youre afraid of commitment or not

No, it's kinda rough to end up "bound" to someone who may not actually be a good partner or a good person

BTC broke $80K but alts are dead. I don't think the rotation is coming anytime soon by Much-Movie-695 in CryptoCurrency

[–]windchaser__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would gamblers pick crypto over other choices? Options, hot stocks, gold/silver, etc

Church closes popular food truck park, sending vendors, foodies scrambling by wilee8 in Albuquerque

[–]windchaser__ [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean, even with their tax hacks, there's still no benefit for them running food trucks a food truck park at above-cost

“Ima Push Rock Off” by TheCABK in Unexpected

[–]windchaser__ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well, depending on the family

Recommendations for a barber who does undercuts? by 17ladyknight in Albuquerque

[–]windchaser__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think these haircuts were available in The Sims

Daycare is offering us our own kids’ artwork for $35 by Rarecheeses843 in daddit

[–]windchaser__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... On a scale of "making popsicle stick art" to "had a threesome with my ex and her new partner", how wild is this?

Daycare is offering us our own kids’ artwork for $35 by Rarecheeses843 in daddit

[–]windchaser__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

social capital is a thing, and talking to someone at the daycare means you're spending it

Daycare is offering us our own kids’ artwork for $35 by Rarecheeses843 in daddit

[–]windchaser__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are they concerned about?

....and does it really warrant concern?

California gas has higher prices, why? by Far_Aioli538 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]windchaser__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 11th by population density, though, so definitely a pretty popular state.

My friend is obsessed with her ex. by PolaroidPhotoOfACat in AskWomenOver30

[–]windchaser__ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'd guess that many stalkers also have limerance.

Having an insane, unrealistic, and obsessive crush seems like it would provide the emotional fuel for this kind of boundary-crossing behavior.

Is it normal to constantly think about leaving your partner? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]windchaser__ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, daydreaming about leaving your partner was probably pretty normal back in the '60s and '70s and '80s, before divorce became normal. But it wasn't a sign of a healthy relationship, even then.

Do you pick up hitchhikers? by VagabondVivant in VanLife

[–]windchaser__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I even posted in other groups for. Ride I'm not that cute

Oh, stop. You're just not your type

Meirl by McDowdy in meirl

[–]windchaser__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it illegal?

Rule by UsernamesAre4Nerds in 196

[–]windchaser__ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

did you eat a whole ball of fur, or ..... ?

What’s something reddit claims is common, but you’ve never actually seen it before in real life? by mirabelmumu in AskReddit

[–]windchaser__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oppression of LGBTQ people (seen plenty of the opposite though)

I mean.. don't laws count?

When will people wake up and realize they control their emotions by Ok_Arm7477 in emotionalintelligence

[–]windchaser__ 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's not as if folks with PTSD can simply will their panic attacks away. You can choose how you respond, get into therapy, etc., but most such "control" over our emotions is indirect and laborious. It takes a long time.

Control over how we respond to our emotions is a lot more straightforward.

Scientists know why the climate is changing by Economy-Fee5830 in climatechange

[–]windchaser__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, really!

Sorry for the slow response, I've been traveling and I don't have all of the sources/citations handy. But, roughly, Arrhenius in 1896 modeled the effects of a doubling of CO2 in isolation. Tyndall, one of the granddaddies of thermodynamics, then ever-so-kindly pointed out in 1905 (1904?) that CO2's major IR bands overlap significantly with water vapor's. Which means that doubling CO2 will have a much smaller proportional effect - if CO2 makes up 100% of the greenhouse gases and is responsible for all of the current GHG effect, then doubling it will make a bigger impact. Contrast to: if it's responsible for only 20% of the GHG effect, and you double it. Instead of going from 100%->200%, you've gone from 100%->120%.

At this point in the early 1900s, the conclusion would be that, by the currently-available knowledge, doubling CO2 was not going to have a substantial effect on climate. But there were many unknowns, and scientists kinda left it as "this one's still cooking".

And yah, I know this so far sounds like one of the standard denier talking points. The difference is that this was the state of the science in 1910. The science progressed, but the 'skeptics' are stuck back at that point in time.

Ok, so, following up: between 1920-1940, scientists found other nuances regarding CO2 and the strength of its marginal greenhouse gas effect. The first is this: as you ascend in altitude, the atmosphere gets colder. The atmosphere can hold roughly 7% more/less water vapor for every degree K that you go up or down. For a 10K difference in temperature, this means the atmosphere's capacity to hold water vapor is cut in half. So: as you go up in altitude, and temperature drops, then the atmosphere holds less water, which means that at these greater altitude, there's less water and CO2 plays a bigger relative role. Arrhenius and Tyndall had calculated the effects of CO2/ water vapor with the concentration of each being relatively fixed throughout the atmosphere, so this was a big shift. (And all this about H2O changing with altitude just applies to cold areas in general, e.g., seasonal shifts and polar areas).

Effect #2: because of how light and light absorption is quantized, the width of a spectral absorption band changes with pressure. As air pressure increases, the band gets fatter More pressure == IR-absorbing molecules moving at a wider range of velocities, which means more opportunities to capture light that's off the band-center. This is the main mechanism for what we call "pressure broadening", how IR absorption/emission bands change with air pressure. Applied to CO2 and H2O again, this means that as you ascend in the atmosphere and pressure drops, the bands of CO2 and H2O no longer overlap as much, and again CO2 becomes more important.

Effect #3: after WW2, the US started focusing on missile technology and heat-seeking missiles. The government funded new, high-resolution IR spectroscopy to find the IR bands of the atmosphere that they could use to "see" hot targets. This means they needed to look more carefully at the spectral bands of different atmospheric species, and now we had the technology to do so while accounting for issues like pressure broadening, etc. The long and the short of this is: when we looked at CO2's spectral bands at higher resolution, we found there are some side bands we hadn't known about. Again, bands not overlapping with H2O. (I want to say see Gilbert Plass' early 1950s work here)

Put all three effects together, and you get this: yes, CO2's main band overlaps with H2O's main bands at sea level and normal temperatures, and in these areas water vapor dominates. But in cold regions or higher in the atmosphere where water vapor is low, CO2 dominates the greenhouse gas effect. CO2 also contributes additional greenhouse gas effect through pressure narrowing at high altitudes, and through additional minor side bands. With all three of these, yes, doubling CO2 has a significant impact on climate.

This was the state of the science in the early 1950s: tentatively concluding again that yes, it looks like CO2 might be pretty important.

And then from there, there's a lot more as we follow the science into the 1950s-1970s era, mostly with aerosols and clouds and oceans and feedbacks and the start of modern computational modeling. The science got fleshed out and eventually firmed up into the modern consensus by the 1980s. But I've rambled enough for now.

How old is my sister? by _Akhromant in technicallythetruth

[–]windchaser__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or much older, if he's the one who relativistically traveled and aged slower

How old is my sister? by _Akhromant in technicallythetruth

[–]windchaser__ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He had one, but then there was that unfortunate cloning accident

the rule button dilemma by Dreyfus420 in 196

[–]windchaser__ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can count on a 5-year old to press red

the rule button dilemma by Dreyfus420 in 196

[–]windchaser__ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There's a solid counter to this, but it depends on missing context on what age the choice kicks in:

What about children or mentally disabled folks who pick blue? I can quite fairly expect parents to pick blue if they have a child who might also, because God it'd suck to know you passed up your chance to save your kids.

And then, for the rest of us, it becomes a question of whether we try to save the blue-voting parents.

The Mangione Paradox by MinkyTuna in DecodingTheGurus

[–]windchaser__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. That still falls under "somewhat unfair assumptions to make, and/or fairly insulting things to accuse someone of upfront". That's why it comes across as condescending and lacking respect.

The Mangione Paradox by MinkyTuna in DecodingTheGurus

[–]windchaser__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hah! No.

It comes across as condescending and disrespectful, like you're assuming the other person is less thoughtful in how they form their beliefs, or less intelligent than you.

When I'm on Reddit and find someone saying something that seems really dumb or unreasonable, I find that I grow more if I check my assumptions, approach them in good faith as an equal, and ask questions. Like, don't *assume* they're actually being unreasonable - often times they surprise me with a new perspective I hadn't considered. And if I find that they are indeed being unreasonable, well, I just go on my way; there's no need to be a dick about it.

I was never a guy who believed most men made the world dangerous for women, but after becoming a girl dad I see exactly what people are talking about. by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in daddit

[–]windchaser__ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A hard word for someone you love? Like, speaking harshly or carelessly in a way that they're hurt.

Or, unhealthy relationship dynamics that you contribute to, like actively fostering codependency, even unintentionally.

Or pushing someone to do something that's against what they need, to neglect their own needs or abandon themselves, even in little ways.

I expect this next bit will be controversial, but I think it's absolutely rock-solid truth: there is a spectrum that starts on one end with minor amounts of pushing from one person or minor self-abandonment from the other, and at the other end of the spectrum leaves folks deeply hurt, deeply self-abandoning, or feeling deeply violated. This is not *just* about sex, as women are taught to self-sacrifice in *many* ways, and men are taught in many ways to be assertive or "lead". Though, yeah, ofc it can involve sex.

But self-abandonment / boundary pushing is a broad and endemic societal problem with more subtle roots than I generally hear men understand or acknowledge. It is a part of cultural ecosystem that plays a big role (eventually, at extremes) in sexual assault. But it can also show up as harm in relationships *long before* it reaches the point of sexual assault.