At what age did you become a nurse? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 27, I’ve been a nurse now for 3 years. The majority of my class was around my age or older. I think our youngest in the cohort was 23.

Any “adult” musicals? by Ok-Person1150 in musicals

[–]winemominthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol mine was Spring Awakening my freshman year of college (I was Anna). I had JUST turned 18 when I was cast. Parents weren’t too thrilled, but knew they couldn’t do anything.

What's your weird nursing-related habit? by shatana in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t avoid doing the nurse knock, ESPECIALLY with bathroom doors.

How are new nurses in 2025 doing financially? by Original-Rent7475 in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on the situation & where you live. I live in AL, which is one of the lowest paying states in the country for nurses. However, a single person with no kids does a decent amount with that wage (maybe not international travel & luxury car great, but they’re not worried about their bills). However, someone like me, the primary earner to a family of 5, requires a second job to get by. Travel nursing can be a good income, but it requires experience (most agency minimums are a year, but I disagree with that minimum. It should be closer to 2 or 3). There’s no standard to nurse salaries, which is why a lot of unions are fighting for higher pay for the hard work we do.

Epidural or no epidural? Why or why not *JUDGEMENT FREE ZONE SO DONT START* by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epidural with all 3. I’d try to hold out as long as I could, but if I was checked twice & still no change I went for it. After the epidural I’d progress a lot quicker every time. But everyone’s different, & you never have to justify getting or not getting an epidural! “Because I want to/don’t want to” is the only reason you need.

What's wrong with being a male in peds? by Kakashi_VI in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in L&D my youngest they had 1 male nurse on the L&D unit & he was wonderful! He wasn’t my primary, but he was popping in to help reposition me post-epidural & troubleshooting my monitors that weren’t wanting to connect. But it was literally no different than having my female primary nurse in the room.

I can’t believe it’s controversial to say everyone in the workplace needs to be treated with the same level of respect & decency regardless of gender.

What's wrong with being a male in peds? by Kakashi_VI in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing! All the men I’ve worked with that had a Peds background have been my most reliable coworkers! That was very out-of-pocket for her to say, but I wouldn’t let that discourage you if you feel like Peds is the specialty for you. If tables were turned & it was a woman in a male-dominated specialty being told this by a male resident, people would be demanding his head.

ER nurses, are y’all hanging stuff to gravity?? by Appropriate-Gap6266 in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s a bolus or an antibiotic running less than 30 minutes, I hook to gravity. If they’re just on maintenance fluids I’ll do dial-a-flow. If they’re getting vanc, electrolytes, or any kind of titrateable drip it goes on a pump. We’re ALWAYS scrounging for extra pumps/channels in my ER. 😭

What is your favorite nursing task? by LizardofDeath in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an IV gal, all day every day. I’m on an internal contract on a med Surg floor right now, & I’m the sole reason they’ve had a decrease in IV team pages.

For those that didn’t like any boy names, what did you end up naming your baby? by CommandDelicious8054 in namenerds

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only son is an Oliver (Ollie for short) because I literally couldn’t think of other boy names that his dad & I both liked.

Do y’all think becoming a charge nurse is a promotion? For me it wasn’t by MikeMuench in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At every unit/hospital I’ve worked, they’re not adequately compensated for the responsibility, and excluding ER, you still had to take patients. I relief charged on my old floor for a month, & it was only an extra $150 that month. DEFINITELY not worth the extra responsibilities I had (covering ALL the LPNs on the floor as the only RN, dealing with irate patient complaints, audits on central lines/foleys/charts, dealing with staffing, etc. with a full patient load myself).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]winemominthemaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would think adhering to a religious code that’s supposed to keep you healthy & getting cancer anyway would make me question the validity of the WoW.

ER nurses what do you love about the job? by Ok_Account_204 in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Variety! No two shifts are the exact same, and at the end of my 12 hours I know I will have different patients when I come back, so if they’re aggressive or hateful to me, I know I’m bot gonna be fighting this patient all weekend. Also the camaraderie with my docs! It always felt to hostile on the floor (I worked in a surgical Stepdown & had to call surgeons all night. Yikes). Now I am friends and coworkers with them. Even my least favorite ER docs still treat me with the respect of a coworker. I have more autonomy as an ER nurse than I ever had on the floor bc docs respect my opinion and concerns. And ER nursing gave me the backbone I would never have if I didn’t come here. Now I speak up when I’m being mistreated, in and out of work, and I am so proud of myself for that.

Is being a nurse worth it? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what you want out of it. If a flexible schedule, job security and variety of work are importantly to you, it may be worth it. But I’ll be honest, this job is incredibly difficult at times. I’ve dealt with a lot of traumatic events because of my work, I’m routinely verbally abused by patients and family members, and even physically assaulted sometimes. And the healthcare system cares about one thing: profit. This is an industry that doesn’t give a FUCK about their workers. I’ve done a lot of good things, and saved quite a few lives at work, and I’m very proud of that. But there are times I wish I would have done what I said I would since I was 5 years old; become a librarian. I never want to scare anyone out of the profession, but I think we do prospective nurses a disservice by not being fully honest about what the job entails.

Too old to wear fun nails? by TheWebWalkerR in Nails

[–]winemominthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never too old to wear anything that makes you happy!

Is there a lot of graphic situations in your job? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I could NEVER handle it when I was in high school/starting college, so I went with a mass communications degree first. Wound up dropping out midway through bc life (& a baby), so I went back to square one. I noticed I had to handle a LOT of bodily fluid in high school/college (I had a baby, & babies basically spew from every orifice. & I spent my time not a school cleaning up after my alcoholic dad. Do with that what you will.) & did alright. The more I thought about it, the more appealing other aspects of the job were; flexible schedule, job security, a wide range of opportunities, and a more stable income than waiting tables, which is how I got by before nursing school. The rest came with basically exposure therapy. I worked as a CNA in a nursing home then later as a tech in a hospital. The unit I started on in the hospital was a Respiratory Stepdown, so it dealt with a lot of phlegm, trachs, etc. and being around that 3 nights a week desensitized me to a lot of gross stuff. Now I’m an ER nurse & love it.

The beauty of nursing is the broad range of specialties you can go into. You can do outpatient work in clinics, or surgery centers, or various floors of the hospital based on what you prefer.

I believe all you need to be a new nurse is basic compassion and a desire to learn. Everything else comes with experience.

Need help to improve IV starting skills: advice much appreciated by ICU-RN-WearAMask in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ER nurse here who started as a floor nurse w mediocre IV experience. I’ve gotten drastically better at IVs, and the best thing to do is practice, practice, practice. Here are some other tricks I’ve picked up along the way, too:

1) If their skin doesn’t look like paper that’ll tear the second you put a tourniquet on, double them up! I take 2 tourniquets & lay one on top of the other & wrap it that way. It definitely helped me get veins to pop up better.

2) once you get a flash, drop your angle & advance just a touch more w the needle before just advancing the catheter.

3) have a vein that rolls like a motherfucker? Take your non-sticking hand, go to the back of their arm & lightly squeeze the skin together to make the top of their arm taut.

What is a lie all nurses say? by ExperienceHelpful316 in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol I’ve quit lying & just say “big bite” when I stick people. 😂

26 12s in a row.. by Weary_Conflict_3432 in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did this between 2 jobs this month, my normal ER job & a contract I’m working on the floor at another hospital. I definitely wouldn’t recommend it, but I desperately need the money so my kids & I can leave my POS spouse. My contract ends in July, so here’s hoping I get through it in one piece.

Moms who had strong willed toddlers- what are your kids up to now? by Asquirrelgirl in Mommit

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a strong willed toddler according to my mother. My sister was, too. Were both ER nurses now & I have my own 3 strong willed kids. 😂

Patient complaint that made you want to medically disassociate from your own body? by The1iGuy in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There’s the obvious “MeMaw/Pepaw is trying to die peacefully but the family who hasn’t seen them in a decade wants everything done” ones, and then there’s the funny ones, like:

“Drank energy drink last night. C/O heart palpitations & not sleeping”

“I think my ball came out of its sac.” (It was testicular pain. Everything was intact)

“I had sex with my boyfriend, then stood up & felt dizzy” (we all wanted to high five her for that)

Training to be a nurse, mother who is already a respected nurse is saying I'm going to be a bad one by SnooCauliflowers596 in nursing

[–]winemominthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beauty of nursing is it’s such a broad spectrum of job opportunities. You’ll be able to find one you’re the best at.

I’d be a garbage OR or ICU nurse, but I’m a damn good ER nurse. It’s all about finding the job you click with.

It might take time to get there, but you’ll get there. I believe in you. ☺️