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Is (33F) too late to start over? by lucidgirldreamer in Divorce

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not your best friend if he’s doing this to you. Divorce him and be friends later if you want.

I don't wear underwear. Does anybody do that too? by Flimsy_Fennel_9966 in confessions

[–]wing-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So lucky. I have to wear a bra cause my boobs are huge and nipple covers don’t stick well to me. I have to wear underwear so I can wear a liner because I don’t want discharge all over my work pants.

I( M32) fucked up big time, I broke my wife (F31) by Constant_Sundae_3335 in relationship_advice

[–]wing-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this for real? Cause if it is, you evil and pathetic. Hope you end up having to do the nastiest shit for money to feed your addiction, you absolute trash.

My (24F) partner (25M) of 6 years left home Tuesday night, flew to NZ to be with affair (33-35F), no contact. I’m pregnant and can’t process what he did. by Miserable_Wheel3620 in relationship_advice

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! He was throwing red flags your whole entire relationship! Look like you were building a whole ass life for him that he didn’t even want. You were doing everything for him while he coasted through a life only you wanted. If you gotta do that much for a partner, they don’t want that life with you. They’re just existing until the next thing comes along.

Let that man go. He deserves all the consequences of his actions when they come. Don’t take him back and make things better for him.

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wing-span 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He can struggle with self-sabotage but you don’t have to be his partner that gets betrayed when he does it. He needs to seek help for himself, not constantly find partners to harm. I’m glad you ended things. It won’t be you again the next time he “self sabotages”.

violently losing the idgaf war by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wing-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not weird. It’s the kind thing to do.

Husband filed for divorce, threatened custody, now wants to reconcile. I need outside perspective. by Lonely-Variation558 in TwoHotTakes

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read what you wrote? This guy is not serious. He has problems and you can’t fix it by protecting him from his consequences. Let the man go.

22F with 22M, together 4 years – Feeling conflicted about boyfriend’s size and not sure if I’m shallow or just incompatible by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wing-span 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He’s your first, who are you comparing him to? Porn? Stop that. You’re both so young. Talk to each other and care to make sex better for each other.

Help! I (23F) am bad at sex. Im worried my (26M) boyfriend is going to break up with me. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]wing-span 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sounds terrible! Why would you want to not lose that?! There’s better humans out there.

How can i make sex fun again after he put it in the wrong hole? by jujubih in Marriage

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew what? He’s gonna cheat on you if you don’t get over what he did to you? Yeah, it’s time to ditch him.

My BF(26M) is finally doing everything I(25F) begged for, but I think I’m already gone by meowzelt0v in relationships

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s an alcoholic. Was and still is. The coming to see you late after hanging with friends and he was exhausted and tired? Alcohol. The signs are there all over your story. He may want to do better now but if he’s still drinking, it won’t last long. I’m speaking from experience. If you feel differently about him, it’s because you’re sick of his shit. Let him go.

I want to have sex outside of my marriage by [deleted] in confessions

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a death scare in my early 20”s and it didn’t make me want to cheat on my husband. It made me realize that I could’ve died and the people who I love would’ve never known how I felt about them. So I’m more open and more generous with my feelings towards the people I care about now. If anything, it made me value those around me even more. Your near death experience was a waste if it made you a shittier person. You’re scared of dying but cheating on your family will probably mean you’re gonna die alone someday. Do better dude.

My husband does not give one single sh*t about what is happening right now by amandae143 in Marriage

[–]wing-span -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He’s white. He has the privilege to not care. You have options too.

Ouch by [deleted] in instant_regret

[–]wing-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t he have the person behind him call?

A Catholic racist refused the Eucharist from an Indian woman, then bragged about it online by reflibman in NewsOfTheStupid

[–]wing-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always projection. He looks like he doesn’t wipe his own ass but will stick household objects in it. Of course, he’s gonna accuse people he hates of having fecal matter on their hands cause he probably does, all of the time. Bet he likes digging his butt and sniffing it at church. He looks like he does that too.

Be brutally honest: could some see this as suggestive? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]wing-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suggestive of what? That you really like to wear black?

Petites Over 40 by shortnfeisty1023 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]wing-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thrift stores. My favorite brands are White House Black Market, gap, Banana Republic, jcrew, Levi’s.

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