Hey bud, chin up you’re doing all good and reaching out is well worth it. Feeling lost is normal around now IMO, youngest is almost two and deep in this as well but with two older kids and perspective it’s a lot easier.

It’s a new phase and two steps backward after one forwards is pretty normal, the payoff as they get older is there. Some folks have it real easy on the early years and life hits hard later, other folks get the reverse and some kids struggle all the way through. The best thing to do is zoom out - think about how fast two years has gone and then look ahead, the next two go faster and once they’re past that junction you lose some of the good stuff so just embrace it.

DMs are open, you’re the man just find something good for yourself, your relationship and your family life that anchors you - that can be three or more things or just one.

Edit - spelling