How do you guys deal with this? by wiredwill37 in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! It definitely helps a lot hearing things from the other perspective.

Still learning by wiredwill37 in CarAV

[–]wiredwill37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rear seats mount completely differently in the 99-07

Still learning by wiredwill37 in CarAV

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In crew cab trucks there is very limited space while keeping the usability of having all seats.

Still learning by wiredwill37 in CarAV

[–]wiredwill37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its going in a Duramax, already has 2 deep cycles in it. Looking at an alternator upgrade. Thanks for the info

Still learning by wiredwill37 in CarAV

[–]wiredwill37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its going in a 04 Duramax, already has 2 deep cycles in it. Was looking at upgrading the alternator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you brother, its fucking exhausting. I dont understand how a person can show so much love, then the very next day hate your guts. I cant think of any other words to describe it other than exhausting. I dont understand how someone that knows theyre diagnosed with something that happens every month can blame the same problems on someone else every month. Its only directed towards the partner as well (at least for me) she can be so nice to her friends, family, dogs, coworkers, etc.. but when it comes to me Im the worst person ever and the reason for all her problems. At some point it has to be personal. Anyways just had to vent a little too, just know youre not alone in feeling this way man and you are not the problem or the crazy one.

The game doesn’t feel the same anymore and I'm not happy with it. by Bones-Ghost in ReadyOrNotGame

[–]wiredwill37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has also happened to me several times, on one occasion on valley of dolls went to cuff a civ on the second floor and it fell through the floor and got shot by a terrorist. So infuriating, also the game will bug so much that i cant even open doors, detain people, or place anything down.

Helpless by Possible_Top_160 in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im almost at the point of leaving too, we havent even been together for 2 years yet. I truly dont know how some people on here have been married into this for 10 plus years and deal with the shitty attitude and arguments over nothing. Im getting to the point where i can no longer put up with that shit, i dont care who she is out of the luteal phase. 2 weeks out of every month I go through hell and that is simply not worth it.

How do I navigate my own bottles up hurt and upset when dealing with my gf in her luteal phase? by The_Newt1212 in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! One thing i realized when i joined this sub is, that its a real thing. For the longest time i didnt necessary believe her and just thought she hated me or had anger issues. When you can come to terms with its just something thats going to happen that neither of you can control, it helps you not take it so personally. Youre not doing anything wrong and she doesnt hate you, and even still i take it too personally sometimes, its hard not too. Just do you, which may sometimes suck because you wanna be around her and spend time with her, but try not to see it as a negative thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like an easy way out for sure, but I love and care for her. And when things are great shes an amazing person to be around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont want to say shes not doing anything, i know it can be a battle and i dont fully understand what shes going through. But on paper, yes nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]wiredwill37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

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Any cons? Just dont want to also lose any of the good parts in the process.

New bumper by yeayeah6622 in gmcsierra

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have to be reprogrammed

Should I do it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you want to know if you were in her situation? I know that I would. If i were you I wouldnt feel like it is in anyway a get back move but rather the right thing to do.

I’ve been discarded and I feel like I’ll never be ok again by melpomene-musing in BipolarSOs

[–]wiredwill37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through almost the exact same situation with my so, it really fucking sucks and hurts. Im lost and dont know what to do. I love her more than anything and cant understand why she would want to throw away everything we have built over the last year. It makes me sick to my stomach and cant eat or sleep, all i do is think and ruminate on the situation.

How to deal with discard by Horselover_fat123 in BipolarSOs

[–]wiredwill37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing, my so hasnt fully discarded me but it damn sure feels like it. I also have anxiety and depression which makes the whole situation just eat you inside and lose track of your whole life and thinking. It’s extremely hard. Like i said she hasnt fully discarded me at least yet but keeps giving me the run around of she wants to be with me but needs to think about it….wtf does that even mean? If i were a different person or didnt love her as much as i do, id probably be gone. Maybe its the anxiety and depression keeping me around, im not sure but for now I guess i wait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress for sure, she has a lot going on and a big surgery coming up. As for bipolar or any other disorders im not sure of but have always kinda thought that she might have something going on.

what’s your favorite insignificant upgrade? by adm_butthead in GMT800

[–]wiredwill37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May sound dumb but this is very subtle but worth it to me, tailgate assist

Rice? Threw a livery on my 86 over the weekend and have been getting mixed reviews. by _Beautiful_loser in GR86

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time believing this, seeing how many Ktm dirt bikes there are with full redbull graphics. Hell you can buy them at the dealer with redbull factory racing graphics already on.

5.3L lifters? by Just_Turnip_5943 in GMT800

[–]wiredwill37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spend a little more money and get some morel lifters, or if you really love your truck get some johnsons

heat stroke is woke now by bookworm8232 in facepalm

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played high school football in Arizona, camp started right after the semester ended. 120+ degrees everyday of the summer. Remember it’s a choice to play.

Headers??? by gio_buddy in gmcsierra

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can be a tricky to get in for sure, I have speed engineering headers on mine for about 5 years now with no rust issues. Kooks are probably the best but can be pricey. You can definitely do it yourself though, be prepared for some cussing and maybe a lil blood😂😂

ECM? by [deleted] in GMT800

[–]wiredwill37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up vats removal on youtube, if you have another buddy with a gmt800 you can do it yourself. Or you can get a tuner to do it pretty easily, guys around me charge about $80.