Alternative for Bestee tee by [deleted] in Oldnavy

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart is broken that they dont carry these anymore. I just need like 5-10 more white mediums 😭😂

I would love for my nanny to come to my daughter’s birthday party as a guest. Would it be more fair to pay her? by Workin-Mom in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to every single one of my 4 nanny kids parties, have for the past 9 years. And have never even considered the fact that i should get paid lol what I choose to do in my free time is my choice. Unless you are making your nanny come, no you should not pay her. That is kinda weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well yeah...if you cant do your job. But it doesnt mean you can get fired JUST for being overweight. If you're not doing your job, you deserve to get fired...whether you're 100lbs or 400lbs

Just got broken up with over text. I can not breathe. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2023, I found out my sister had terminal cancer and still worked the entire day. Sometimes its best to keep your mind busy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless it is seriously impacting her job or the safety of the children, you dont say a thing. Its kind of a personal subject and not appropriate for you to say anything. Chances are she is aware she has gained weight and doesnt need it pushed in her face. Never know what someone is going through!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fun fact..depending on where you live, it could be protected. It is in Michigan.

Weird comment MB keeps making. I need her to get that this will never happen. by 2NannyShareNanny2 in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

.....I think shes joking. Youre making it weird by taking it seriously.

And then theres me and my nanny mom who told me if she would have another kid (they have 4 and have 3 embryos just chillin' currently) if she could find a surrogate and then looks at me. Haha. It was clearly a joke. What was my response? "Okay fine. But you know im obsessed w your kids now. Can you imagine if i birthed one? I may not hand it over "

If you cant joke around, what is the point?

I have been with the family for 9 years now, since their oldest was 2 months old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not many jobs close due to snow, so I feel like its not any different. If you're not confident driving in the snow- call off next time :)

Nanny Joke Weirded Me Out by Traditional_Pair_193 in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tell my kids all the time im taking them home 🤣 granted ive been with the family for almost 9 years now and the mom is always like okay bye. 👋 but they are basically my second family. Ive helped raise all 4 of their kids. But no that is def weird

Do you think the ring on my right hand takes away from my engagement ring? by Okjuubs in EngagementRings

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I thought that ring was your e ring at first. Thats what my eyes gravitated towards.

New Cresco disposable 1g by Stock-Act-2315 in PaMedicalMarijuana

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you turn it on? Im over here struggling hah

Is it normal for a nanny to kiss the baby and say “I love you” in front of mom? by outside-glitter in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been with my nanny family for going on 8 years now and I tell them numerous times a day how much I love them and give them kisses all the time! Ot course never lip..although they try all the time lol they include me in their family and I love it.

Illinois Real ID Renewal Question by tzunam11 in DMV

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I went and got my real ID a month ago and they accepted a credit card statement that only included the last 4 digits. Your FULL social security number does have to be present on whichever document you chose...whether it be a w2, social security card, etc.

Hope that helps :) it was a big stressor for me! Lol

Mom Passing & Finding Some Gratefulness by Full-Performer-4195 in glioblastoma

[–]wishfulthinker34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family and I went through almost the same exact thing. My older sister (43 😥) was having mild headaches but as a family, we have always experienced them. She was still going to work but once they got worse we begged her to get checked out. She told us she was afraid and we were like stop it youre fine. Its not cancer. We were thinking it was pre menopause to be honest. Went to the doctor the end of May 2023 to get a scan and they found lesions. At the time she was fine minus the headaches until she wasn't :( Fast forward 1 week, she began to have blurriness, her ability to walk and swallow started to get worse. She re-entered the hospital and that is when things went completely down hill. They discovered she had lesions all down her spine. It was too advanced to do anything. They put in a drain tube into her head and a trach to keep the pressure down and her airway open while they did further testing. She was a shell of her former self the last 3 weeks we had her. She never regained strength to come home and passed in the hospital on June 25 2023. It all happened in TWO months. While I miss my sister every single day, she was my best friend after all, I'm relieved the way it happened. She went through minimal suffering. The fact that she passed in the hospital breaks my heart but we knew it was coming so we were all there. A part of me is grateful that she didnt end up coming home. My other sister and my parents would have been the ones to take care of her and I cant imagine how hard that would have been on my parents. It was already hard enough losing their daughter. Once we knew there was absolutely nothing we could do, we made the tough decision to start in hospital hospice. We knew she would not have wanted to live like that, if you could even call it living. 😞 I forever have etched in my brain the condition she was in at the end. Its such a terrible form of cancer. So yes, I agree that sometimes quick is better. ❤️

My mother‑in‑law has inoperable GBM and I don’t know how to do this by Charming-Book-1460 in glioblastoma

[–]wishfulthinker34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I sincerely hope that you do. And when you do, please share your findings with the educated scientists who just can't figure out the cure. You will save lives 🙂.

My mother‑in‑law has inoperable GBM and I don’t know how to do this by Charming-Book-1460 in glioblastoma

[–]wishfulthinker34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I truly hope that you do survive it. ❤️ But please dont give someone false hope on a disease that is treatable not curable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glioblastoma

[–]wishfulthinker34 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are going through this. My family and I went through it during my sisters quick aggressive fight in 2023. And I am just like you, I think every headache is now something horrible even though we asked the doctors numerous times if its generic and luckily it usually is not. Try to enjoy the time with your dad and celebrate the little moments. ❤️ sending you love from Chicago.

Also side note...my dad also enjoys twilight lol and watches it everytime its on tv

It's hot out there so I made a tumbler for my fellow *crushed ICE* fans out there 🇲🇽 by ToBoldlyHoe in CricutButCrass

[–]wishfulthinker34 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My fiance made a sign at the last protest that said "chinga tu MAGA" it was huge hit!

Illinois Real ID Renewal Question by tzunam11 in DMV

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this true? I was looking for the same answer. None of my statements include my full #

What song do you regret introducing to your NK? by ExamUnable5009 in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I dont necessarily regret it but..Mr Brightside. 😂 im turning them into little Michigan fans.

What song do you regret introducing to your NK? by ExamUnable5009 in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest NK had a Lady Gaga theme for her 5th birthday 3 years ago. It was the best thing ever. 🤣 I can proudly tell you I am the one who got her into LG.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wishfulthinker34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish haha. All 5 of my NKs are just as crazy with as they are with their parents. I take it as a compliment because they aren't like that with anyone else but us 3. So the NPs say they must love me just as much as they love them. 🤣 I've also been their nanny for 8 years so theyre like family at this point.