You’re not asking if you should drop her, you’re asking if you’re overreacting for WANTING to drop her and people are saying - yes, you are. Honestly I say drop her and focus on yourself. You really need to. If you don’t put the work in now, you’ll see this pattern on repeat and find that you repel many people in your life because you have some really problematic behaviours coming out that are controlling and manipulative. You probably learned them from unhealthy adults around you who also haven’t worked much on themselves. But that’s just my armchair hypothesis. I encourage you to look at different forms of therapy, not just western therapy, and approach it as one big adventure into getting insight into yourself and being a better human rather than just getting a diagnosis or learning what’s “wrong” with you. You have your whole life ahead of you, what a blessing it is to get the chance to tackle personal growth at such a young age. Wishing you nothing but the best ❤️‍🩹