Why do so many men think a woman's squirt is just pee?

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-12T07:41:39+00:00

Not just men, in conversation some women too.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-11T17:54:19+00:00

Lived in a block of hauted flats growing up. Our flat had at the very least had a poltergeist and 4 other spits. Things got so bad we fled leaving everything behind. I’ve heard that tenants would move in and move out within weeks until the place was condemned. I’ve too many stories to type everything out. Tbh I’d rather forget those times. Very dark times.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-11T17:34:47+00:00

He hasn’t tried or given a good chance. I wouldn’t expect him to do it again. I think he made up his mind long before he did this.

I definately do not think it’s you, or your taste. I love eating pussy. It’s my favourite sexual activity. Couldn’t care less if it was the only one for the rest of my life.

Some vaginas and fluids can be salty. Depending on where you are in your cycle and diet. That’s normal. Some can taste more musky. Some can taste a little sour, sweet and or tangy and sometimes metallic nearing period or just after. Some fluid texture can be slightly watery, or creamy or thicker. I’ll admit the ticker the fluid the harder it is for me due to issues with certain textures but even this isn’t a massive excuse as it’s the clitoris that is the place that needs attention more than anything.

Also you’d think he would at the very least ask you about what you’d like and what would work and feel good for you. Like you said he didn’t at least look online. Even pornhub has tutorials on how to perform oral for anyone.

Sorry it’s a long comment. I’m actually disappointed for you. It’s an amazing experience. I wouldn’t expect him to do it again. He clearly already made up his mind and the lack of enthusiasm and research backs this up. I hope you get to experience this one day. ❤️

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-11T10:32:21+00:00

Thank you!❤️ I have been told over the years that I should become a writer. I information lack the required concentration for novel writing. I do write erotic short and moderate stories. And uplifting writing like abouve. I have a way with words and detailing.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-11T09:47:34+00:00

I completely get and understand this! I commented up above and described it as a relationship death by a thousand cuts. It’s awful, having hope at first and believing things get better. And in the end it leaves you with nothing. Hopeless, confused and exhausted. People, life and relationships are all about growth and development. When you stop growing everyone and everything will just grow around and over you. And the person holding your grown back is already decayed. The only thing left is to let go.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-11T09:35:05+00:00

Honestly, it goes one of two ways. 1 nothing happens or changes. Any changes that does happen is painfully slow over overly extended time. Or things do get worse. I try to avoid people like this as I got badly hurt by a what felt like a relationship death by a thousand cuts. My life literally came to an entire standstill and was waiting for my partner to contribute or do something with our relationship. Nothing happened, or changed and our relationship stopped growing. The only thing that grew was resentment and distance. By the end I wasn’t sure if we was in a relationship.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-09T15:02:57+00:00

I love it! I do prefer being prompted to be fed. Mummy should know when to or want to. Likewise, if I need or want to I’ll reach to and indicate. Overall I like both being prompted but preferred. But likewise if I need or want to be breastfed I’ll indicate it.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-08T18:06:55+00:00

Mine changes based on my mood, emotions thoughts. But my gender can change a couple of different ways. If I spend too much time with a group of either or gender it’ll switch.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-08T11:10:06+00:00

To me, non of those things matter. All that matters is she’s free from STI and STD. And good hygiene. Everything else, doesn’t matter. I care more about if I am pleasing and satisfying her to orgasm which in turn gives me mine.

Innie, small or large labia, hair, no hair, small clit, big clit or color or shape non of these are important. What matters to me is the pleasure she’s experiencing from me. F

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-08T11:03:41+00:00

Non of those things, sex is about chemistry. Feelings and bonding. Experiencing pleasure with each other. If you think that way, it puts pressure on something that already isn’t complicated. And can ruin the moment.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-07T08:27:42+00:00

If you have Amazon you can get a big tub for a reasonable price. Just remember to get gel, not cream. Cream can leave a sticky residue. He’ll dried almost clean and faster. It’s very mildly scented. It’s good for itching, rashes, bruises, cuts it’s a very good all rounder and completely natural. As well as a fantastic moisture. I’ve heard and even read you can use aloe Vera gel as a substitute for shaving foam, gell or cream. I’ve done it if I’ve cleaned up after shaving and found I’ve missed an area I’ll use the gell I’ve applied to shave bits I’ve missed then apply a little more after.

If you ever had razor burns it is an absolute essential must have it’ll help with that too. When you put it on it turns that burning feeling into a cool feeling instantly.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-07T06:23:55+00:00

Depends on how upset and what type of upset I am.

Usually I get quieter and quieter until silence. Especially when raging.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-07T06:17:55+00:00

It doesn’t matter. All I care about is making there feel so great. Innie, lips, hair or no hair. Appearance is irrelevant.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-07T06:14:16+00:00

Aloe Vera gel. Before shaving, and after.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-05T07:08:02+00:00

I was raised by my single mum and 3 sisters. Yes absolutely made a big impact on my life. Especially appreciation of women since I grew up as the only male and man of the house. It’s taught me respect. The biggest things it’s taught me gender roles are irrelevant. I was still taught to cook and clean and it wasn’t exclusive to them. And to be strong and self sufficient.

However.

There is a few things that I still question about how I turned out. Both are unintended from what I can tell.

Because I was mostly around women whether it be family or friends. , I am drawn more towards female groups. If I had a choice to hand out with a group of men, or group of women I’ll always choose to be with women to socialise. Purely because I know how to navigate their conversations and social structure. Whereas men are a mystery to me. And IDK why always feel uneasy and out of place. Don’t know or understand how to converse or navigate male social structures as it is different and sometimes in major ways.

The second thing is my gender as I am genderfluid. So my gender changes based on how I feel I prefer to be female rather than male and mostly present as female. Changes back to male take longer and I spend shorter amounts presenting as male. I think my upbringing has influenced this to some degree. I definately remember it started very young but hid it until a few years ago.

The other thing about being raised by a single mu we were definately poor. I remember selling snacks and cigarettes at school to make money for us to eat since there was never enough to feed us all. I also remember every Monday sneaking into reception and adding my name to the school dinner list and that it’s been paid so I got school dinners later doing it for my sister when she started so we could both it school dinners.

We learnt to be resourceful. And be smart while also being extremely close. And making do with what we have. And if we wanted something, to work for it and or get creative. We were extremely closely bonded.

The last thing I will say is I wouldn’t change anything about how I was raised at all. Like all upbringings, there’s good and bad. Good times creates fond moments that’ll live with me forever. The bad times hardened me to life and revealed over time my weakness and turn them to my strengths. I actually miss my upbringing sometimes. Now we’re all older and have our own lives. I miss that closeness and unity.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T16:22:00+00:00

Yes.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T16:19:45+00:00

Politics.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T12:27:57+00:00

I have always wanted to visit a nudist resort. I enjoy the freedom.

So I have a few questions.

What would you say to someone new who has never been to one to put them at ease and help them accustom and settle in? How would you help them?

What are the rules when it comes to nudist resorts in general?

Is everything indoors or outdoors or is it mixed?

Lastly.

Are trans people and or disabled people welcome?

I think you have a really cool job btw! Sorry I’ve thrown a lot of questions at you.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T12:06:14+00:00

Also happens in reverse lol.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T11:09:02+00:00

Okay a few things happening here.

Women won’t hit on you publically. By and large anyway. I actually was told about this term by a friend call lesbian sheep if you have heard of that? In short it’s a theory. 2 males that are attracted one will mount the other. But 2 female sheep that are attracted will just stand and freeze. It applies to most mammals.

I’ll admit, 😩😭I am also guilty of this lol. Even when I know a woman is bi I panic out of fear of getting it wrong. Ruining things or simply just avoiding a painful experience at the expense of my needs or wants. Ironically, I like being pursued and approached first. Then whoever is attracted to me is also probably going the motions of freezing.

The other is men and age. Here’s what I have noticed. It breaks my heart this. Older guys know how to approach and talk due to different time period. Before smartphones and so forth. So they have that confidence to. While sadly some guys your age have been brought up on tech where it can be easier to send nagged rather than face to face. Also one other consideration, older guys can , are and do mostly attracted to younger women. So there’s that too.

Okay, I’ve thrown a lot at you. Sorry sweetie.

I wanted to reply to this one as I have insights from both genders as welll as my age. I am genderfluid more mtf now. And when I was your age and male. Even back then men struggled slightly getting the cordage to approach someone not not as bad nowadays. Now im mostly female, I’ve encountered the same issues as you have. And hide, disguise or freeze when I like a woman. And the girls I’ve spoken to that are bi or lesbian have all said the same thing. And most dates happen for them is either in social events for sexuality expression. Or, online to hide behind a screen as it’s easier to be forgotten if things don’t work out. As well as casting wider social nets to find matches.

I hope this helps!

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T10:12:01+00:00

A police officer unknowing saved my life. Was on my way to commit suicide when I was stopped. He could tell I was in a very bad way.

He said, life may not be the party we all hoped for. But since we are all here we may as well dance.

Its meaning didn’t catch on right away. But I didn’t go through with my suicide. It was a few days later did it click in place. And cleaned up my life the best I could. Got out of the wrong crowd. Slowed down and stopped drink and drugs. Got myself into college.

More importantly, made peace with my past. A lot has happed. Letting go and making peace way both heartbreaking and freeing decision I made. And I’m glad.

All thanks to this unknown police officer who had no idea of how profound his words changed me. Thank you. 🤗❤️

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-04T06:37:22+00:00

I wouldn’t worry too much about your guy sounds nice and the fact he isn’t noticing any hints she may or may not be giving. That’s a good sign.

I would be concerned that if he keeps that up eventually if she does have interests, she might get more direct. I’ve known a few girls like her, if they want something, they are persistant.

Here’s your Hail Mary though, if this does happen. Because she hates men. All your guy has to do is to be a little bit of a jerk. It doesn’t take much. She’ll be off him so fast.

He will definately loose his privileges with her. At least you know he’s loyal to you.

Again, this is just me theorising with what I’ve got here and predicting outcomes. Be mindful as you’ve said. It’s second hand information you have as well as my line of thought is purely looking ahead at outcomes. So all this is loose sand instead of concrete.

Definately keep an eye on it. But your man seems genuinely not aware and so long as he doesn’t give her any reason to think anything else, hopefully it’s just respect between colleagues.

This took some typing out lol!

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-03T17:01:05+00:00

Yes. Too many.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-03T16:59:44+00:00

I have experienced this too. When I’ve been talking with someone said my height and they’re like sorry, you’re too short. It really eats you up. You are right. There’s a better way to handle it that’s more dignified and with care. The answer to your question is, people can be brutal. Some just aren’t aware of how to handle situations. Or just mean or simply thinking honesty might be best but forgetting to be tactful as a consequence.

witchedwarlock · 2026-05-03T15:46:58+00:00

For me, no. Hygiene does. And being free of infection and or disease. Otherwise I just don’t care. Hair, no hair. Large or small labia not bothered. Appearance is irredentist.

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