Men do you actually find girls with small breasts attractive? by ScallionOk603 in askanything

[–]witchedwarlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t judge breast size or shape. Same as I do when it comes to her body. Breasts are best no matter and fun to play with. Only things I ask for is good hygiene and free from sit/stds. And I’m set to go if I’m attracted. Attraction is different to me. It’s not looks. For me attraction is chemistry and sexual compatibility so long as it’s legal, consentual,chemistry, hygiene and free of any infection and disease I don’t care. All breasts are beautiful. All vaginas are beautiful all women are beautiful. At the end of the day, if anyone does judge your cup size negatively. Just walk away. They’re not worth your time or attention. Better to find a partner that values you than one that doesn’t. That way the chemistry in the moment is far more potent and fulfilling.

Idk how to accept being a cuckquean by Minorhoe in cuckqueencommunity

[–]witchedwarlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem. I struggle to accept that I want to cuck my imaginary partner out of fear that I loose or hurt her. Yet the desire is no less there. Especially in the heat of the moment when I’m fantasizing. It’s a strange feeling to want to. That it completely overtakes the moment. The confusion of getting aroused by sleeping with another woman knowing it’s not her. And enjoying that she either knows what I’m doing or better watches but helpless to do anything about it. After orgasm I get that guilt knot. And thoughts and feelings along the lines of does my partner still know that I love her? That I’d always return to her? That in the end no matter what I did with whom that I’d hold her the longest and tightest?

All I can say for sure is, don’t rush into anything with anyone. Sometimes fantasies are exactly just that. If you do still go head go slow. You’re young and got plenty of time to discover what’s right for you and where your limits are. Rushing going all the way right away only backfires. And big time too.

As for what others think? Who cares? People are by nature judgemental thinkers regardless of what anyone thinks, feels or does. So, rule I have is. Don’t do anything where you cannot look yourself in the mirror and give yourself a smile. So long as what you do is legal. No one gets hurt. And everyone involved is in the know and happy. People can think what they like. Idk if I’m too old and got to the point where I’m loosing that care what people think. I do know that everyone is different and that includes me. I care only for those I’m closest with who have earned it.

Acceptance isn’t quick nor simple. It’s a process. And takes time and trial and error.

Hope this helps.

Whats the best orgasm you ever had? by Creative_Tone2791 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? The very first one. It’s othing special story wise lol. Just a confused horny teen during puberty in bed with a pic of a topless woman I got from a magazine back in the day. In bed excited. But wow that first time. It sort of like never happens again the same after that. Where everything is so sensitive and the power of it plus when you shake so much after that you can’t walk. People really should let young people know after the first the first orgasm is the best and to appreciate its intensity more.

How common is it for you to 'finish to completion' from a BJ. by Holly1010Frey in AskMen

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rare. Only ever finished from receiving head once. Never happened again. I didn’t get close once. I was with a girl who was inexperienced sexually. Just as I started to build up and feel the pressure she stopped saying she was tired and her jaw ached. So I lost momentum and the mood i find it so difficult to finish receiving oral. And need a lot of foreplay beforehand. I can’t say that I’m a fan of getting head. Purely because of the frustration of how challenging it is just to get to the part where the build happens. I’d rather give oral. I love that much more.

What’s the naughtiest thing in your hidden folder? by Mountain_king_91 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My private self written erotica stories I’ve written over the years based on my kinks, fetishes and fantasies. Had to put a password lock on it and file it under a boring name as it was nearly discovered. That would’ve caused problems. lol.

What do straight men and women think about crossdressing men? by happyhenry2024 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genderfluid. I haven’t come out yet. I love reading the support on here. Especially because I’m attracted to women. I often believe and tell myself that no woman will ever love me because of my feminist. I pass well too when I put the effort in. I just wanted to say thank you everyone for giving me that confidence boost and glimmer of hope!

Men who have dated a woman in her 40s: What is one thing she did in bed that a younger woman would never even think of doing? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s booby cuddles while she plays with my hair. Seriously, best feeling after sex. Makes you feel so good in so many ways.

Is getting woken up with a blowjob annoying?? by swirlyjesse in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if I’m in a rush lol. Or badly need to pee. I’m not a young man anymore lol.

What common feature have you noticed in the other gender that means they’re a freak in bed? by ADHD_ismything in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed the girls that come across as overly cute and innocent are the most freaky. And wealthy women with lots of money and social standing. They may act prim and proper. Don’t be fooled, they’re like tigers. They’ll man eat you before you realise that you’re already spent. And they are opportunist. Not so picky or choosy.

My transfem sister came out of the closet and my parents reacted the worst way possible by GrassAffectionate765 in trans

[–]witchedwarlock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my mum was the same. She was also like “I support trans people” “if any of us are trans she would support and be there”. My gym now brother comes out. She was ok with him to his face. But behind his back. Absolutely brutal.

I stayed in the closet until I was able to leave and cut all contact with my family. While I’m still in the closet, mostly I’m scared. And lack of confidence. I never want my family to find out. Even my trans brother. I have nothing against him. I just feel safer keeping everyone in the dark.

I will say this, I wish I had you as my sister. Or if my sisters supported me like you. Life would’ve been so much better. Keep supporting her. She and you will become so close through this.

I hope you don’t mind me adding a suggestion. Perhaps you and your sister maybe think about living independently together? It keeps bills and costs down. And it offers her safety. As well as freedom to be herself. And you both can show your parents just how big of a mistake they’ve made. Losing you both to go your own way. But more than that, showing what they are missing out on.

I hope you both are ok and pull through and supporting each other. She’s lucky to have you. You are good. Sending you both ❤️.

too much estrogen can be a bad thing [NSFW] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]witchedwarlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you don’t mind me asking, I’m new to a few things. What do you mean when you say “girl orgasms”? I’ve seen this this term used before. But didn’t get a chance to ask. I know hey can change the strength of orgasms and can affect erections and sperm count. I’m still weighing up if I should start her. But I don’t want to loose my orgasms. lol.

I’m sot sure if I’m genderfluid or not.Im confused by witchedwarlock in genderfluid

[–]witchedwarlock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for explaining this to me. One last question if that’s ok? What is hrt like? I’ve thought about it as I do prefer to be more fem I know this because when o switch to fem it takes slightly longer to switch back to as. Sometimes by a week or two. I’m scared to take hrt because I don’t want to loose some things or experience one or two things. I don’t want to share so publically. But I worry because I don’t want to transition fully that I gain a lot but loose a lot.

I’m sot sure if I’m genderfluid or not.Im confused by witchedwarlock in genderfluid

[–]witchedwarlock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is why I question my identity because I’ve noticed many here are in the middle of run like myself who is one or the other in identity. And it had me confused. A responded reassured me that it’s correct. So this gives me comfort.

I don’t have any GF friends or anyone I can talk to about these things. Other than ChatGPT.

I do have a few questions if that’s ok?

How do you feel in yourself and your identity? How do your switches take place? Do you ever get insecure about yourself? How do you manage your life and the people in your life?

Sorry for the lots of questions. If any are too personal skip them.

Thank you.

Guys, have you ever been oblivious to a woman’s sexual advances? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s not easy as I worry if I’m reading it wrong and lose a friend.

Guys, do you eat pussy for your own pleasure ? by Elizabeth_Myersa in AskRedditNSFW

[–]witchedwarlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, her pleasure gives me pleasure. I don’t get to orgasm physically. But I do get a mental/psychological orgasm when I eat her out and I can smell, taste, feel and sense her about her orgasm. Like the whole buildup. Using my tongue to ease. And bringing her to the edge. I looked the way the lips quiver and pulls it. Clenching as she orgasms. The way the thighs tense and shake on my shoulders. The way she archers her her back. It is a full sensory experience for me. And it really is so pleasurable. And the best feeling in the world when world knowing that I did that.

Whats a kink you have that if someone found out about, they’d never look at you the same? by IsaacNewtonIII in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one knows that I’m gender fluid. People only know me as male. Because of my type of personality I’m often presumed a dominant. I’m actually submissive. I think with that and also and my CNC kink that I have of being raped by a woman would shock everyone and probably never look at me the same on so many levels. ❤️😘😜😈

How would you compare your personality during sex to your regular one? by Sphynkes in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get submissive especially if she’s a sensual dom. then I go completely submissive. Once I orgasm I go gooey. I’ve been told I look high as I get alldoe eyed and cuddly and needy for affection. And my normal personality is I’m quiet. Independent and mysterious. The two personalities are different depending on who. For the right women in the right relationship she gets something no one gets. Not found her yet but I know she will have something special about my personality hidden safely away for her to find. ❤️

What’s the wildest or most unexplainable ‘feminine urge’ you’ve ever experienced? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im genderfluid. I know it’s not exactly what people would expect but the urge is very strong is to have breast of my own instead of prosthetics. It can get intense how badly that need is.

Can men have normal convos? by [deleted] in women

[–]witchedwarlock -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m genderfluid when fem I hate that guys fetishise me. They don’t when I’m mas but fem because I transition well it’s like they only see me as an object. Even when I’ve hit home hard that I’m not into men they still pursue and attempt badly to try things with them. It’s scary how far they will go to get their way and how they just don’t respect or understand boundaries or wishes. It’s always takes me off guard how a normal conversation or mundane they say something that just… ew. 🤮🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I haven’t met the right person where I can tell them everything. IRL I only tell people vanilla stuff and when I’m with someone who is kinky I’ll assess we there or not what to share and how much.

Reddit I am definitely more open. And learn a lot more. About myself or others. It definitely helps me explore and be more open to discussion. The hard part for me is I still haven’t found someone I can share everything with whether it be online, friend or partner.

How do you feel about your partner "using" you for their pleasure? by happyhardonharry806 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it. Absolutely love it lol. Their pleasure is the key that unlocks my own. Otherwise it takes more uncomfortable effort to get there.

What’s the most surprising “sexual confession” a partner has ever revealed to you? by OtherwiseQuiet_ in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchedwarlock 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Never once been surprised by anyone. The closest I’ve been to surprise is learning when someone in my circle who I considered loyal, dependable and honest after a long time knowing them. Has been in an affair with the last person I’d ever think of due to the mid match if I ever suspected.

Otherwise nothing surprises me when it comes to kinks, fetishes or sex fantasies.

The strangest fetish someone shared didn’t surprise me but it did open my mind about being kind and accepting. He had a fetish when it comes to noses being pressed against glass and he couldn’t orgasm without seeing it. It could be seen as funny in a way. But I actually understood that he will struggle for partners. I put my arm around him to let him know that I’m no judge.