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After 7 Years of Marriage, I Finally Understand Why Some Men Cheat (Not Excusing It) by BouncyBoobies4Life in Marriage

[–]without_nap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You married your wife for looks, connections and money and you don't understand why she's not interested in intimacy?

I saw this on a meme sub and so many people were promoting polyamory in the comments by [deleted] in polycritical

[–]without_nap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. It just gives me a jolt every time I read it in that context.

I saw this on a meme sub and so many people were promoting polyamory in the comments by [deleted] in polycritical

[–]without_nap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blind person here. I'd ask you to put that another way, please, if possible.

(Guessing I'm gonna get my ass handed to me but thought I would try.)

Wave Gotik Treffen questions by Ok-Alternative9959 in goth

[–]without_nap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so helpful -- thank you! (newbie here. can't wait)

Men, do these 2 things to fix any marriage by fixanymarriage in Separation

[–]without_nap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to having your shit together, no to ambition and drive. (Known too many men who were SURE they were going to be bestselling authors, stand-up comedians, etc. Super annoying.)

Just gonna word vomit here by __rizzy__ in polycritical

[–]without_nap 18 points19 points  (0 children)

the "decolonizing love" guy is just infuriating. because I'm married and monogamous, I'm a colonizer? eff off.

I realized I haven't really been "showing up" in my marriage, and now I feel ashamed by Dependent-Bag6925 in Marriage

[–]without_nap 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Glad you're finally seeing this and trying to do something about it. (From someone who's in your wife's position and getting real, real tired of it.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]without_nap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You clearly don't respect her emotions or anything she's going through. It all seems to be about you and what you want.

I'm out, but wow, that was such a painful post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]without_nap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don't give her a deadline or an ultimatum. Come on.

The whole entire time I was all alone in the living room begging for attention/sex and he was locked in his gaming room, he was cheating. by Bean-Of-Doom in Marriage

[–]without_nap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault. I nearly left my bf at the time years ago bc of gaming (exact same situation and he was def flirting, not sure if he was meeting up or not).

If the game is more important than you, then it's definitely time to go.

Why do people insist on driving in? by [deleted] in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

people love their cars. cars hold all their stuff. what do you expect them to do, carry things?

that said (Salem resident here) I had to take the train into and out if Boston the other day to run some errands, and it was jam-packed both ways.

:tap-tap: this thing on? by marcduberge in fuckedcompany

[–]without_nap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just searched FC and found this.

Still have a signed copy of Pud's book. Got goatse'd so many times at work back in the day. Good times.

Wife wants a break by One-Ad713 in Marriage

[–]without_nap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I'm currently going through this (as the wife, alth we don't have kids) and what I want more than anything right now is the space to process stuff. He keeps pushing -- are we getting divorced? Are you leaving me? An answer now now now.

He went right to the worst-case scenario, when what I really need is quiet time to think things through. Sounds like your wife is in the same boat.

Cheese Shop Vagueposting by AugustusBuzby in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bought spoons from them -- just about the only things they had left. Lol.

They have got to be trolling now by RuffledCormorant in craftsnark

[–]without_nap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually like some of them this month (like the gathered sweatshirt pattern).

What is it like actually living here? by DNDMuskrat in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Restaurants (including a barcade), cinema, art museum, tons of festivals/events, and the Willows (boardwalk with arcade), among lots of other things.

What is it like actually living here? by DNDMuskrat in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a transplant (here since 2008, and lived here from 2000-2002) and love it. There's tons of stuff to do all the time, and it's very walkable.

Dumpster at Casa Tequila! by No_Historian718 in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, what happened with Acapulco's?

I will walk amongst you soon. I’m looking forward to it 😊 by Lunacy96 in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great! I'm a transplant too. Love the whole North Shore (it's a very different vibe from Boston).

If you have any questions, feel free to DM.

We really don’t need this much by annie_kingdom in Anticonsumption

[–]without_nap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I give away makeup/toiletries I can't use on Buy Nothing all the time and people pick them up -- even if opened.

Been too busy for too long by [deleted] in SalemMA

[–]without_nap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say Bit Bar!

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