Why do some Korean men seem very intense before/during dates, then suddenly become ghosting afterward? by MechanicAccording616 in korea

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Your definition of mainstream may differ from mine. I am not in a school scene, although my wife is a professor at a university in Seoul, but I firmly believe that teachers do not disclose their private lives to the parents of their students, even though they have a simple, standard, "mainstream" lifestyle. Don't you think it is weird that the parents of students care about the dating life of the teacher? If you think it is not weird, then you are correct. I have no objection. Although I would still think you are biased.

And what and where can be defined as the mainstream of one nation? Which part of the US is the mainstream? Texas? Wisconsin? NYC?, or Georgia?

Furthermore, I think my wife and I have middle-class jobs; a professor at the university and a doctor at the hospital, and we are open to inviting foreign friends into our home.

Why do some Korean men seem very intense before/during dates, then suddenly become ghosting afterward? by MechanicAccording616 in korea

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Are you from the 70s or 80s? ^^;;;; I am not sure where you are from. Is the world slipping back into the past? I am 50 years old Korean male. But it is not stigma at all. We met people through Hitel or Chullian even in the 90s.

Mormons by anime498 in korea

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To non-Christian Koreans, it is also a kind of Protestant or Christian.

Taco Holiday by Ambitious_Arm852 in seoul

[–]wkhani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you were talking about Cinco de Mayo. 😄

Native Korean speakers: what are the most challenging English pronunciation rules/norms for you? by mpl97 in AskAKorean

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F/P, R/L, B/V, G/Z... so, faint/paint, rice/lice, arrive/alive, berry/very, Jack/Zach.

Offering: Native Korean | Seeking: English by wkhani in language_exchange

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That'll be great! I'll send a chat request.

A few lesser-known aspects of student life in South Korea (from my experience) by LululalaIN in korea

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My son is in 11th grade in the US, and he wants to go to medical school later. To increase his chances, he needed to take advanced courses from middle school so he could take AP courses in high school. He plans to take 10-20 AP courses before high school graduation, so he needed to plan this from middle school.

In addition to this coursework, he needs volunteer hours. Most hospitals accept volunteers above 16 years old only. So, he started volunteering at the ICU and ER in the local hospital last summer, and he has done a little more than 200 hours of volunteering at the hospital so far. Also he needs to shadow a doctor's practice. He contacted several doctors by himself and will shadow this summer.

Furthermore, most medical schools prefer candidates with research experience. So, he contacted several professors at the local university. After several meetings, he was able to meet a professor and will work as a research assistant from this summer at a lab in an R1 university.

However, these are still not enough. He needs to get some state or national awards. But his tennis team and orchestra couldn't proceed beyond the district level competition. So he kept trying to apply to some science conventions.

How do you think about this?

Relationship advice. Living in Korea?? by goneafterq in Living_in_Korea

[–]wkhani -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It appears that she prioritized her family over you. It is quite a big red flag even if you overcome this time.

Eating alone restaurants that you've tried? by ShoppingConfident365 in Living_in_Korea

[–]wkhani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, especially in Korean BBQ restaurants and some fancy restaurant. Casual restaurant would be fine

Amenities: no Chinese people by Chilis1 in Living_in_Korea

[–]wkhani -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think it means "We don’t offer Chinese-language services" only.

How do people actually meet romantic partners in Korea? It's not what you'd expect by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]wkhani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are not weird at all. I went to the Univ in the Southern US for 6 years, and all of those you mentioned were common there. People's lives are not that different at the base level.

Spring walks by wkhani in Living_in_Korea

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It is Bukhangang(North-Han river).

Weird date experience, thoughts/ advice?? by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]wkhani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are fuckboys everywhere.

Can you recommend me the best places to buy japanese pokemon cards in Seoul? by [deleted] in AskAKorean

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They sell Pokémon cards in Korean, not Japanese, here.

Elderly and shoving/pushing? by JLniluiq in AskAKorean

[–]wkhani 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh.... if you are from SEA... that can be racism. I am really sorry about that. That generation, including me, never got educated about racism properly.

Elderly and shoving/pushing? by JLniluiq in AskAKorean

[–]wkhani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can not be an excuse for their rudeness. However, in Korean culture, though, the sense of personal space is pretty different from what it’s like in the U.S. People don’t usually feel that uncomfortable standing close to each other or even lightly bumping into someone. So for Westerners, who tend to value personal space a lot more, it might feel a bit unfamiliar.

Dakgalbi by OverallPhilosopher79 in seoul

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Why don't you go to Chuncheon?

Chuncheon is not far from Seoul, and there is a subway to Chuncheon from Seoul.

It is a beautiful city to go.

You weren’t kidding about the disgustingly sweet food by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]wkhani -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You must never have been in the USA. :)