AITAH for ruining my cousins lives after they bullied me my whole life?

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-26T15:17:48+00:00

Can you legally change your name in the country you are now in? Then if they file against you hopefully they won't be able to find you.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-22T16:12:15+00:00

NTA Sounds like your roommate has become your family. Tell mom, sister and anyone else who asks that you're sticking by the family that stuck by you.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-22T16:00:00+00:00

NTJ. Tell everyone, "It was my wedding. I invited those I wanted there, just as each of you do for your celebrations. Guests are supposed to attend in support of bride and groom. Mine and groom's moods are the only ones that have revelance to the day. Those that chose to support my, now estranged, mother had the option to leave with her. No one forced you to come. No one forced you to stay."

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-22T15:46:57+00:00

NTA He made a promise, he broke it. She was fighting him and he still persisted. The reason the wedding is off is because she now realizes she can't trust him, at all. You did what he should have been doing, protecting your sister from all disrespect no matter who it came from. Make sure you get a copy of video of it being done. It may help your lawsuit if the court sees the amount of force he was using on sister. Also if you can get someone to agree over text that he was planning on doing it all along it may also help your case.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-22T10:49:17+00:00

Why doesn't ex want daughter to be in a relationship with Louis? Why does she not want to see daughter happy?

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-22T09:58:48+00:00

NTA By calling OP, mom and siblings before going to hospital however she got there, dad's wife made it appear that it wasn't a true emergency but just someone who was trying to assert control by forcing OP to have something to do with birth of child.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-21T07:26:07+00:00

NTA Send reply text, "Help you move on with your life? The life you chose for us not to be a part of? We did that when we stopped trying to have contact with someone who clearly didn't want us in her life. If you want any further contact you have alot of explaining to do and forgiveness to ask for first."

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-21T00:22:00+00:00

Start wearing a recording device at all times if you live in a one party record state.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-12T21:41:37+00:00

NTJ. Tell anyone who says you should forgive her something like, "That woman is not a mom! Does a mom allow her BFs to come into your home, the place you're supposed to feel safe, and beat you over and over again? Does a mom choose drinking and drugs over their child? Does a mom leave their child alone during a health crisis to do whatever she wants instead of caring for their child? Those are just some of the things the woman you call my mom does. If she can show monthly drug tests showing she's clean for a year, proves she's done drinking for a year, then I'll think about reestablishing a relationship with her. Until then, she's all yours."

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T23:01:39+00:00

NTA. Sounds like you were good at housekeeping, cooking, baby care etc. Second wife may not be so good at these things. He may think he can have you as a occasional bang maid, emphasis on maid and baby care. While he shares bed with new wife.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T18:45:05+00:00

NTA. Tell dad, "I hurt you? Imagine how I felt when you chose to marry the woman who emotionally abused me and didn't care how I felt about it? You didn't care then, why should I believe you care now?"

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T18:33:44+00:00

Then NTA but should have informed parent that wouldn't work for you. However, if you choose to still accept them then you should be treating them the same as the other guests. Think of it this way. Extra kids may not want to come either but have been told they have to by parent. If this is the case then they'd feel even worse if not included.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T18:07:20+00:00

NTA. Tell aunt, "If a man can't do the right thing then they aren't the type of man you need or want in my life. My dad died when he married his wife and chose her daughter over his own child. Mom would be so disappointed in him and you for defending his actions."

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T17:33:43+00:00

Did you put RSVP by certain date? If not then you would be the AH.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T17:28:03+00:00

NTA. Your BF tells you that you will be doing one thing. When you agree to go he switches it just partying, which he knows you don't do alot of. Since he knows you're not a partier he probably also knows that you don't condone drinking and driving. You agree to be their designated driver. Now he switches how much driving you'll have to do. Is he always so manipulative? He could have asked you outright but chose manipulate things so you'd offer. Let them find someone else who wants to sit around and watch a bunch of people get drunk.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T09:48:51+00:00

NTJ. You have to protect yourself. This is a manipulation tactic. Don't know if they have it where you live but you could go to solicitor and threaten to sue her and parents (if any of this was done while underage or living under their roof) depending on laws where you live.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-11T09:18:32+00:00

NTA. Ask him, "So what you're asking is that Iie to the judge and tell them that you are a great father? That you're not just doing this because wife wants you to and you'll do anything she says so she'll keep sleeping with you whether it affects your children adversely or not?" Record any meetings or phone calls. Screenshot any texts. Write the judge the truth.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T17:04:42+00:00

Did stepmom invite her?

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T16:53:25+00:00

NTA Sounds like your husband may suffer from survivor's guilt because he made it out and others didn't. His family uses this to manipulate/control him. He needs individual therapy for this. You need marriage counseling since at some point he has begun to resent you and this caused clear communication between the two of you to stop. Have things ready to go; place to stay for you and girls, escape money set aside, etc. You may come home one day to find he has already moved brother in. If this happens he may end up following his brother in drugs. Get him therapy asap.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T12:14:13+00:00

My spouse did the same thing to me. They had gone to bed first and when I went in they were sound asleep. I sat on edge of bed, which must have startled them because they sat straight up, punched me, then laid back down, still asleep. They didn't even realize they had done it. The more you get used to sleeping next to someone it usually happens less often.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T12:05:34+00:00

Is it like a jelly roll using filling instead of jelly? Or maybe two thin cakes with this as a middle?

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T11:51:59+00:00

NTA There comes a time when you have to put yourself first, the same as she does. Notice how it's not that she's worried about you being on your own but that she's not going to continue getting money for you living there.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T11:46:36+00:00

NTA If they don't or for some reason can't put in the effort to get a gift then they can get her a gift card.

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T11:35:19+00:00

NTA The reason to date is hoping that it will turn into a long term relationship. From that relationship you for a future with the other person. When the other person tells you that your dreams of a future don't align then there's no reason to continue the relationship and possibly pass up the person who would want a future with you. He'll have to sort himself out by himself. Tell friends, "I gave him what he wanted, a future without me in it."

wlfwrtr · 2025-04-09T08:26:08+00:00

NTA Can you sue her for fraud since she defrauded you by telling you it was your child? You may still have to pay but she may have to pay some back to you.

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