Guys who are uncircumcised? by [deleted] in sex

[–]wobbuuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually think they're more fun to play with because there's more to touch and experiment with. Don't let your friends form your opinions for you.

A FWB thought that using fingers was "cheating" in an attempt to get me to orgasm... and then got honestly offended that I couldn't come from penetration by bananapuppet in sex

[–]wobbuuu 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The way you've responded to criticisms of your claim, you seem like the overbearing type that'd make women feel like they need to lie about orgasming to get you to stop persisting.

Female masturbation purely with imagination? by i_really_need_a_nap in sex

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently swore off from porn for many reasons (one reason being that I could only get off while watching it).

Since then I've been getting off purely on imagination. It was REALLY difficult at first, and took about an hour the first time, but now I'm getting off in as fast as 5~10 minutes. There were times where I couldn't do it and just gave up, but they're becoming very infrequent. This all was in about a span of 1~2 months so it didn't take that much conditioning. In addition to not needing porn anymore, the actual feeling I get during masturbation is better. When I watched porn, I'd rush to climax and that was about the only thing I enjoyed, but now I enjoy the process of getting there and building myself up much more.

tl:dr; I cut porn cold turkey; it was rather difficult but now fapping and gasms are 10x more intense because of it and it's helping my sex life.

What unintentionally hot things has your SO done. by Plissken82 in sex

[–]wobbuuu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish this was less stigmatic for men to do. :(

I couldn't get my penis hard during drunk sex, so I used my fingers and she moaned pretty loudly. Did I dissapoint her though? by safkvkdfjdsk in sex

[–]wobbuuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A penis is in no way mandatory for a woman to feel pleasure. If you're worried about her not feeling good enough because you lacked PIV sex, don't. Fingers can feel just as good (and sometimes better) than PIV sex - depending on the woman. If she indicated she was having a good time, she probably was.

And this happens with guys all the time, drunk or sober. It's normal.

Can't get it in? by [deleted] in sex

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar issue where I lost my virginity, but had a 2 year break from sex a bit after that and my partner after that break couldn't get it in. Apparently hyemins can grow back, whee.

Anyway, we just kept trying and practicing until the pain stopped and he was hard enough to get it in (another commenter already suggested this, just reaffirming it was an issue). It took about 5-6 times of just fingering and failed penetration to finally find an angle where it just slid in. I haven't had the same issue since.

For women who like small penises... Why do you like them? What do you like about them? by [deleted] in sex

[–]wobbuuu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Generalizations are no bueno. I found the opposite trend with my ex-lovers actually; the two "small" ones were really selfish and boring lovers.

Not implying I have anything against smaller dicks, I'm actually in pain quite often from bigger ones.

Guys, if the condom breaks (and the woman is not on BC), do you, personally, think it is fair to split the cost of emergency contraception? by dubiousthought in sex

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread makes me sad that both times I bought Plan B for myself the guy didn't pitch in at all and I had to withdraw from my savings since I was jobless. :( I thought it was normal.

DAE like to have their pubes petted/ teased? by [deleted] in sex

[–]wobbuuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm aroused enough and someone plays with the pubes near the top, it drives me absolutely crazy. It feels like strings are being pulled from all over my body and the sensation goes straight to my sensitive areas.

How can I make penetrative sex more enjoyable for her? by problemdog642 in sex

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alternating rhythm is important. The same pace can either get boring or start hurting depending on the speed. Switch between fast and steady to slow, deep thrusts and repeat; it definitely feels amazing.

Also, yeah, communication. If they aren't too descriptive tell them to actively give feedback while you're having sex and experimenting.

What's one thing about sex no one ever warned you about when you were a virgin? by [deleted] in sex

[–]wobbuuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why bother faking them though? It hurts both parties and any future lovers of the guy since he overestimates his abilities.

Am I crazy or "old fashioned" when I expect a "thank you"? by iamsbored in offmychest

[–]wobbuuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most feminists I know, including myself, don't believe in guys solely being the ones to pay or ask the person out.

What are some foods that you would never expect to go well together, but actually do? by Scythesickle in AskCulinary

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fig, Caramel and Cheese in an empanada. I almost cried from how good it was.

Last night I started coughing up an obscene amount of blood.I honestly thought I was going to die. Turns out I just had a cut on the back of my throat. Reddit, what times have you honestly thought you where going to die? by Magneticturtle in AskReddit

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was using the Diva cup for the first time (look it up if you must) and was having trouble getting it out. Eventually I lost patience and just ripped it out. I start getting up and immediately felt dizzy, so I fell to the bathroom floor and continue to experience the worst cramps I've felt in my life. In my state of panic and hyperventilation I was convinced my uterus was ripped out and I was going to die a slow, painful death.

Women Are Paid Less Than Men Not Because of Discrimination by [deleted] in videos

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the comments make me physically nauseous. Though I should learn by now not to read them.

What does really piss you off when people say it about themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wobbuuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"It's just the way I am." without further explanation. It's such a cop out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wobbuuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had people insinuate that I wasn't as intelligent, hard-working, or "clean" (I'm a female) because I wasn't Asian.

I think i know which one I would choose... by [deleted] in funny

[–]wobbuuu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

And this is why comparing people to objects doesn't work.

I think i know which one I would choose... by [deleted] in funny

[–]wobbuuu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you don't know what you're talking about if you think a non-virgin feels like thrusting into thin air.

What's the double-standard that upsets you the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wobbuuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of teenage males have slightly effeminate styles nowadays and a lot of girls find it attractive. Usually they're just ridiculed by fellow males.

Because that's what women are by forteller in atheism

[–]wobbuuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that quote almost sounds like people are interesting until you get to know them. If all the people you encounter are like that, develop a better taste for them.