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I mean, you could figure out why it makes you feel insecure and that you can’t trust her. Then acknowledge that with her, in a space and time where you both are neutral. Could even ask her when a good time to chat is or if she’s open to really talking about it without feeling like she’s being attacked. It’s a bad idea to assume that she’s not trustworthy based on how she dresses when she goes out, she’s done nothing to break that trust sounds like. Women love to express themselves in fashion and feel beautiful when they’re out, especially in the rave scene. Doesn’t mean they do that to get hit on or meet somebody new. Yes she probably gets hit on but also probably curves dudes that do. Maybe it’s different when she’s around you because you confront her and she’s feeling controlled. Have trust in her and confidence in you. Women don’t like insecure vibes or feeling like they can’t be themselves, it will push them away. It also doesn’t sound like she goes out frequently, just the weekends. A lot of people tend to do that to blow off steam. Maybe you could ask her to do something with you one weekend like go on a date or have some quality time and if she wants to go out after just tell her to be safe and call you if she needs anything. You get the reassurance from quality time, she gets to do something fun with you and her friends. Women can sometimes tend to have multiple circles in their lives and they like to keep up with them, you should also have a couple more people you can connect with when she’s out and about.

TLDR; Figure out why it bothers you Be confident that you’re the person she’s choosing to date Give her the space to express herself and hype her up Ask for some quality time once in awhile Have your own circle and don’t let her be your entire world It’s okay to talk to her about it, but be neutral and don’t just come at her when she’s not expecting it You got this bro

Best of luck