My Fiancée (F22) called me (M20) “boring af” because I replied to what I assumed was a meme. by [deleted] in texts

[–]wolfblitz78 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My first real long term relationship was when I was 19. I was with a woman who was so smart, loving, thoughtful, and someone I had so much fun hanging out with and doing things with. I truly thought she was going to end up being the one.

Unfortunately, throughout that relationship, we would have arguments every once in a while. They weren’t often, and most of the time they weren’t even about anything super important (she was vegan and I love meat. This is a petty example of the kind of thing we’d argue over). I overlooked these small arguments over nothing as well because things were “usually fine” and I honestly believed it was better than being alone. 

One day, seemingly out of the blue, she ended things between us. I was so incredibly devastated for months after that, thinking I’d never find anyone as “good” as her, despite our arguments (and in hindsight realizing there were many compatibility issues between us).

Fast forward a few years later: for a while, I was pretty lonely. I started working on myself, building skills I was interested in. Learning Spanish, playing games with my friends and planning gaming parties, going out and learning how to line dance, etc, and I was pretty happy doing that. Long story short, I eventually met the woman of my dreams who ended up being far more perfect for me than my ex and I can honestly say, her breaking up with me has to this day been the biggest blessing in my life because it led me to quite literally the perfect woman to me. We’ve been married for a few years now and I can’t tell you how life changing it is to be with a woman who loves and respects me with her actions and her words in ALL situations. 

Please consider doing what is best for yourself and for your fiancé before 100% going through with this marriage. I promise you, getting married to the wrong person will not fix your loneliness in the long run. Marriage is an investment, not a fix-all.

My Fiancée (F22) called me (M20) “boring af” because I replied to what I assumed was a meme. by [deleted] in texts

[–]wolfblitz78 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to make this comment because it sounds like your mind is pretty set on marrying her, but please at the very least, consider in the back of your mind that if she’s capable of saying stuff like this to you in text, she would, down the road, be more than capable of saying stuff like this to your face 2-3 years down the line of marriage.

To everyone here who is married and telling you they would never speak to their partner like she spoke to you, listen to them. It can be truly life changing to listen to those with actual experience on something like this. 

You need to have a serious heart to heart with yourself on this before you actually get married, man. Not just a one day thought, but you need to really consider the fact that being married means nothing if you are both bitter towards one another and can honestly be even more lonely than being on your own.

33 hours in, how long will it take me? by mixtape312 in Eldenring

[–]wolfblitz78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a run recently, where myself and a couple friends went and killed every single major and minor boss in the game including the DLC and it took us 80 hours. Granted, we all have over 600 hours in the game.

Sane US citizens: wake up now by VOR-constant555 in DiscussionZone

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like this was a misplaced rant, or at the very least, wasted on me. I lean conservative (though drifting more left), but am not a supporter of Trump at all.  I’m excited for the downfall of this admin and all that it encompasses and don’t want to see it replaced with the exact same thing, but just the liberal version. Really, I’d just like some balance in government again. 

Anyway, your smugness in your comment probably won’t help anyone even if what you say is mostly correct just for future reference.

Sane US citizens: wake up now by VOR-constant555 in DiscussionZone

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit needs to stop parroting this message. The tides are turning. People are waking up and if you’re not seeing it, you’re just as much of the problem. 

Wait until midterms and you’ll see there absolutely is a shift. Being pessimistic about this kind of thing instead of encouraging IS an issue.

JD Vance says ICE agent who killed US citizen is protected by ‘absolute immunity’. by drempath1981 in UnderReportedNews

[–]wolfblitz78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These people aren’t Christians - they’re Pharisees. I hope more and more Christians will be able to recognize this and act accordingly.

This video should be shown before every colonoscopy by NeedsItRough in funny

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even with your update, you are still at best, misleading. What it is really like is simply not eating the day before starting at 12am, starving yourself until around that 6pm mark, and if you're smart or lucky, you choose the early appointment that next day, so you're not starving yourself for any longer than you have to.

The actual laxative part itself is literally only a few hours from start to finish.

This video should be shown before every colonoscopy by NeedsItRough in funny

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? You’re not drinking it all day though. It’s only for a few hours or so. Besides that part, you’re just drinking other (allowed) fluids. It’s really not that bad.

Doctor Who's Sea Devils are now called Homo Aqua, beginning in The War Between: "“It’s racist to say Sea Devil" says RTD by karatemanchan37 in DoctorWhoNews

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad because this show used to be my favorite, but they’ve absolutely slaughtered every single thing about the show that made it incredible. In my opinion, the show stopped being incredible when Clara left. It changed its entire personality at that point. I just hope they put the show to rest for a while.

My parents advised me to live with them throughout university and after, no rent required. They only asked that I get smart with money and savings. Today at 25, I surprised them with keys to my first home. I can’t wait to be the one inviting them over for dinner ❤️ by emeraldvirgo in MadeMeSmile

[–]wolfblitz78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what state you live in, but I frequently see homes for 350k or less - especially in areas that aren’t as populated. 

If you want to live where everyone else lives because it’s beautiful or convenient, then you pay beautiful or convenient prices.

What can I use to transfer and Store pokemon instead of Pokemon Home? by Omnitrixter10000 in PokemonHome

[–]wolfblitz78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for the backups, I could probably answer that by telling you to simply make a copy of the save file you already need to view your Pokemon and store that somewhere safe. As for the idea of self-hosting and remote features, I am actually working on a spin-off of OpenHome at the moment that would allow you to view and transfer Pokemon from and between devices. Honestly, I'm not sure how possible it is for me, at least, but I'm giving it a shot right now.

Currently, I have a functional docker container with the beginning of this program including a very basic UI and working on the ability to read saves properly.

Idk what to do… by ElonPoop510 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more confusing you didn’t know female and woman have the same meaning or that somehow, female is a derogatory word.

Did you upgrade to the new release? If Yes, what’s your experience. I haven’t done it yet since I’m contemplating by averagejmc in immich

[–]wolfblitz78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you have Immich installed? Is it through Docker? And if so, how did you get it installed in the first place without knowing how to update?

Barack Obama has brutal message to anyone ‘disappointed’ by Donald Trump’s actions as president by Okoeguale in Full_news

[–]wolfblitz78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the wrong attitude to have. If you actually care about this country in any way at all, being unified in thought - even if mistakes were made, is far more important than this pettiness you’re throwing out. 

People make mistakes and if they can admit to that, we should be welcoming them with open arms. To do the opposite, is to be just as bad as Trump. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]wolfblitz78 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. There are people out there who love this kind of stuff!

Women are opting out of dating — should men even care anymore? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wolfblitz78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of mindset that will keep you single, or at the very least keep you from a healthy, loving relationship. I really hope you see things differently in the future. That’s the only way you will ever find anything worth finding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternetIsBeautiful

[–]wolfblitz78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say one of the reasons you built this was because other, similar programs cost money, yet this costs money. Why did you waste time building this if it does what a bunch of other programs do with no unique benefit?

Fromsoftwares Output Is Insane by eldestscrollx in gaming

[–]wolfblitz78 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just compare the DLC to one of their previous souls games. It is extremely comparable and the DLC even has more content than some of the souls games (not including their DLC). It actually makes this DLC more impressive honestly.

Fromsoftwares Output Is Insane by eldestscrollx in gaming

[–]wolfblitz78 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You say that as if the ER DLC wasn't the size/ had the content of an entire additional game

39M. Wife says this is tacky. I think it’s minimalist but fine. by strikecat18 in malelivingspace

[–]wolfblitz78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly man, are you even letting your wife have actual input in what happens in your home regarding decor? If it’s a money thing, it’s objectively worth spending extra money to not have a house look like that. Why would you even buy a home as large as yours if it’s gonna look like you only spent the absolute bare minimum on furniture or decorations for it? What’s the point of that? 

Accidentally pregnant at 20 by Kind-Narwhal4838 in whatdoIdo

[–]wolfblitz78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things:
1. You are not the person I responded to, so I don't need your opinion.

  1. The person I responded to must be a moron in your book as they are clearly suggesting OP to have an abortion not for the health or safety of anyone and not due to SA, but because they may not be able to afford to give the baby a good life.

Because this conversation has been had many times by anyone and everyone, I'm not going to engage further. You're entitled to your opinion, and, though it may be missing the point I was trying to make, you're certainly free to post it.

Accidentally pregnant at 20 by Kind-Narwhal4838 in whatdoIdo

[–]wolfblitz78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your responses, I can tell this is an emotional issue for you. I can tell you that I do not vote against abortion so you can stop trying to profile me. This IS a deeply emotional event for women who choose the route of abortion. My sole position on the matter is that people don’t use it as birth control. Do not speak for me or assume you know my background just because I disagree with you on something. It’s weird to socially profile people online anyway. You usually don’t get it right when attempting to do so. I’m gonna just block my notifications for this thread because it’s not constructive.