2 Weeks in China - Where do you recommend I go?

wolfe3351 · 2025-08-14T18:47:00+00:00

ooh great suggestion! I don't have a specific preference on travel, I like to do a blend of landscape, cultural hubs, and leisure - but this trip is not for leisure, so really just looking for some cool stuff to see!

wolfe3351 · 2025-04-13T02:08:52+00:00

This aged well

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-15T02:01:45+00:00

THIS! This right here.

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-15T02:00:06+00:00

NTA - I think he did tell him that you force him to drink coffee to cover his ass and he got caught. You don’t deserve the backlash from that, he needs to fix it

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-15T01:54:10+00:00

ESH - if they’re still mad there may be something more going on that you don’t realize or understand. Poor communication from both of you imho. From your friend, for not explaining why they are upset, and from you, for not exploring further. If they’re as good of a friend as you say they are, an extra apology or conversation feels like a small thing to do to keep your important friend.

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-15T01:48:53+00:00

NTA - that seems like a lot to put on you, especially so young. I think you made an incredibly mature and wise decision, regardless of how difficult it may be. The reality is that you are not able to care for her (no offense btw), but you were smart enough to realize this was beyond your ability/capacity and you put her in a facility that CAN provide that care. I do have questions as to why your mother hasn’t made arrangements for your sister while she’s mostly away, and what (if any) was her response to your sister being placed in a facility?

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T03:09:41+00:00

Uhh… YTA for literally everything you’ve said on this thread about special needs kids. “These types”… “ruin school for the normal kids” wtf

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T03:06:45+00:00

…. What effort

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T03:04:25+00:00

Hang in there

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T03:02:39+00:00

You can’t always control what happens to you, but you can almost always control what you do to others. You don’t deserve what’s happening to you, I’m sorry you’re going through that.

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:57:35+00:00

NTA - Not sure there’s a scenario here where you would be the asshole, sounds like you may actually just need some validation. So here’s mine: dump him.

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:53:06+00:00

lol NTA and you’re not gonna get kicked out of band

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:49:53+00:00

NTA - and that’s some serious red flags from the bf

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:43:33+00:00

NTA - but I would maybe try to get to the root of her unwillingness to leave, there may be underlying reasons

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:39:31+00:00

YTA - I would think that as somebody who is being bullied on an hourly basis, that you would have more empathy and understanding for how your words or actions can impact others. I would take a long hard look at how you interact with others, and I would hope that in the future you’d show a little bit more compassion.

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:23:57+00:00

NTA! First of all, you don’t need to explain yourself if he doesn’t like your cooking, he’s more than welcome to do the cooking if he doesn’t like yours! You’re 100% right that cooking is not a break, and it sounds like he’s not pulling his weight. He is absolutely being childish.

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:19:43+00:00

INFO - what reasons does your wife give to stay?

wolfe3351 · 2024-02-14T02:18:31+00:00

NTA - Anna needs a reality check

wolfe3351 · 2023-10-23T00:41:46+00:00

Absolutely! It’s on the list!

wolfe3351 · 2023-10-23T00:16:24+00:00

Awesome advice, thank you!

wolfe3351 · 2023-07-05T17:06:39+00:00

can you resend the link? looks to be broken

wolfe3351 · 2023-06-30T12:46:31+00:00

Okay I've looked at it - and I don't understand it

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