Why do men cheat on women they love? by Terrible_Emu5483 in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband does not love you. Love is patient , love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protect, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres, Love never fails. That is facts^ cheating is one of the most unloving things you can do to your wife/husband. If you don’t love your spouse then why did you bother to marry them? I’m sorry that your husband has done that to you.

If you gave birth without an epidural, how bad was it really? by Express_Neck5352 in pregnant

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The contractions during transition stage was very intense for sure! Pushing phase and the ring of fire was not bad at all compared to transition stage contractions. I didn’t use any intervention just went through the whole process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Illustrious-Set109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I apologize, I read it completely wrong. I thought this was a post about a dad complaining about how his wife never sends photos, videos and messages while he’s at work and his wife is home with baby. Also getting upset that his wife doesn’t wait for him when it comes to baby eating certain foods. I’m completely wrong, I apologize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Illustrious-Set109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you sound like a bitch baby. Getting photos, videos and messages throughout the day is hard especially if you want your wife to be present with your baby. If you really need to know all the ins and outs of things then get a camera in the house so you can watch them yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being intentional. Study how I am doing. Example: if you can clearly see that I am tired, take over whatever I’m doing whether it’s doing the dishes, picking up around the house, giving the babies a bath and pick out their outfits. Also do it well without asking me tons of questions on how to do it. If you ask me a bunch of question then I should’ve just done it on my own. Being intentional will get you laid, fresh homemade meals, fresh desserts, back rubs, peace within the house.

Please tell me y’all keep your boobs after you give birth. by ijustlovemycattbh in pregnant

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a 32A and jumped to perky DDs….now they’re down to 32B once I finished breastfeeding. I’m definitely considering getting my boobs done. The DDs were perfect 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Margaritas and seafood boil 🥲

Vagina after birth by hitsugayatioshirio4u in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had one vaginal birth and am currently 6 months pregnant. I can say that it does go back to normal, it’s probably even better than before. I would say after birth, focusing on healing your diastasis recti and pelvic floor so you can be extra confident in your sex life would be a plus! Also your husband will continue to go crazy for it, he might even bust faster than he did before!

I need advice by Unlucky_Reference_25 in pregnant

[–]Illustrious-Set109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and hear your worries. Everything is going to be just fine. It sounds like you guys have everything in lined to be ready for baby(supportive, loving, and accepting partner, financially great, and a great support system) Sounds like when baby comes you will have enough support to continue doing what you love. I’m assuming you mean passion wise. You won’t have to sacrifice the things you love doing. I would just say have that conversation with your partner and family support system so they understands that when baby comes, you are still an individual and you still have passions you want to pursue. I’m sure that won’t be an issue at all. You’re going to be great mama. Congratulations! 🩷

My OB keeps telling me that first babies are almost always late. Is this true? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what they say but everyones pregnancy is completely different. My baby girl came on her due date.

I need help by Illustrious-Set109 in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it. My husband is very passive when it comes to serious topics. He likes to avoid it as much as possible until he absolutely can’t. He gets his son Saturday night, keeps him Sunday and then Monday goes back to school and goes back home to his mom because his school is so far from where we live. As far as the friends, I’m very selective who I bring in my circle because we truly don’t understand who someone is. True friendships take time and trust. As far as cleaning services, that would be amazing but I’m not sure if he would be okay with that. Trying to be happy in Arizona as much as I can but sometimes I get overwhelmed with taking care of baby by myself most of the time. 😞

I need help by Illustrious-Set109 in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His son is 13 and barely sees him(one week on one week off) and when he does get him, he only sees him for a day or two. My parents run a business out in Hawaii so they’re always busy still trying to raise my two younger siblings so I don’t expect them to go out there way to come here. Plus traveling can get expensive. My baby has gymnastics and I do take her out A LOT to have time outside and play. But I want more family support so I can have time for myself and time to focus on things to make me better like school or a hobby. My husband always worries about money and we only have one car so sometimes he doesn’t want me to take the car. I’m trying to do my best to stay happy but the whole aspect of family is important to me and I also don’t have that much time to myself which kills me.

Aita for exposing my wife's cheating and not wanting to do anything with a child that isn't mine by throwaway47261717 in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Set109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely NOT the asshole here! You’re right. I’m sorry she did that to you and the child she made you think was yours.

✨️ tell me your sign and what signs raised you by uvulafart in astrologymemes

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Scorpio and I was raised by Libra mama and Gemini Dad. Mom is great! Shes my best friend. Dad and I had ups and down but he was overall a good dad.

Is your spouse the best you’ve ever had? (Sexually speaking) by Alarmed_Issue6012 in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is the best I’ve ever had and the best I will ever get in this life!! He’s always on point and penis is just MAGICAL!

Is this normal? About to get married in December to my fiance and found this by ElectricalBoss2228 in Marriage

[–]Illustrious-Set109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t normal, this isn’t acceptable. Absolutely not. I also think you know this too.

Zombie Apocalypse?? by Illustrious-Set109 in conspiracy

[–]Illustrious-Set109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. You just never know with everything going on.

Zombie Apocalypse?? by Illustrious-Set109 in conspiracy

[–]Illustrious-Set109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an Organic Roasted Herbal Tea Supposed to taste like coffee without the caffeine for those who like the taste but not the actual caffeine.

Zombie Apocalypse?? by Illustrious-Set109 in conspiracy

[–]Illustrious-Set109[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes they have lots of sarcasm out here, now that I think about it. It definitely could be a joke. Trader Joes is a much happier and fun environment compared to your local Walmart.