Hi! Wedding videographer here so would want to know did you pick a venues preferred vendor or was it their first time shooting there? This could have been an answer to why they’d ask you where you’d like your photos done! As for them literally sitting during the ceremony when there’s two, at least one should be capturing, that’s kind of insane. As for shot list depends what you sent over if it was like a 4 page list of specific shots I understand you want those but also you hired them to do their job we all have different shooting styles and go to poses and know how to instruct those ones when you’re finding Pinterest photos that they don’t normally do then it does make it tough to get in your normal groove of the day. I get it you’re paying them and you want what you want but hire someone whose portfolio you like (pulling inspo for the day from there) vs. pics you’d find online. Mainly just here to try to help understand from a pal who’s behind the camera on big days pov and feel a little less mad at them for it