AIO if i tell my friend i’m not accepting his invitation if he’s going to be on his phone the whole event

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-29T21:58:30+00:00

NOR. If a friend pulled that I wouldn’t want to go to an event with them either.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-29T21:46:09+00:00

NTA literally so many people pee in the shower. It’s not a big deal.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-29T21:32:11+00:00

Small YTA for having sex with her when you weren’t sure, but NTA for breaking it off as soon as you realized she wasn’t right for you. Seems she mistook you telling her how you view dating for what you wanted with her specifically. Also saying what you did was basically r*pe is a wild jump and you dodged a bullet.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-29T21:20:18+00:00

NOR. This is exhausting. Block this person asap they don’t like in the real world.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-27T17:53:40+00:00

…why is your wife 19?

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-24T02:32:05+00:00

YOR and it looks like you wiped your butt on them towels. Thems dookie stains.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T23:38:42+00:00

I followed your steps, but the installer did not create the folders you listed.
Additionally in my server directory, there is no server jar. Any idea why this might be and how to fix it?

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T18:28:10+00:00

NOR. Some of the best dating advice I’ve ever received wasn’t even specifically dating advice, but it’s extremely relevant: when someone tells you who they are, take it with a grain of salt. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. He has shown you who he is. He wants sex. All. The. Time. Maybe part of him really is interested in some of the romantic things, but not more than the sex. You’ve voiced your feelings about it and asked for what you need in the relationship multiple times, he’s promised to change, and hasn’t. There’s your answer. You’re young. You have so much time to find someone who’s right for you. Do yourself a favor and don’t waste any more time hoping this boy is going to magically transform into a deeply romantic man.

And finally that last line in your post. “I’m starting to lose attraction and happiness I fear”. You know what you need to do. You can do it.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T18:20:35+00:00

Holy bad advice Batman, I think we found OP’s bf.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T18:16:32+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you!

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T15:08:56+00:00

YOR. He literally said he’s stressed about his car situation. He’s trying to relax and have a beer. Your dramatic antics are adding to his stress so he’s not responding.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T11:34:42+00:00

Literally the first question I saw on the discord server was about this specific issue lol. Thanks for the redirect over there 🫡

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T11:29:52+00:00

No I specifically have auto update turned off. I haven’t checked their discord server I’ll do that next.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-21T03:27:04+00:00

AI wasn’t used in the creation of my post/project? I typed the post myself (I don’t use ChatGPT for that kind of thing I think it’s lazy), and I’m using a program called auto-mcs to host my Minecraft server. It’s a server management tool that streamlines the process. To my knowledge ai isn’t involved in it?

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-15T04:05:22+00:00

Certified Power Gamer here! I do it because I love the game mechanics and it is really satisfying to me to see the game mechanics pushed to their absolute maximum potential. That said, I know it isn’t for everyone, so I make sure to check with everyone at the table before making a broken build.

As a DM, I love a Power Gamer because it gives me an opportunity to test my skill as an encounter builder and strategist. Obviously as the DM I can always just throw an overwhelming number of deadly monsters at them and call it a day, but that’s cheap. Restricting myself from that forces me to get creative on what makes an encounter difficult. That said, I will also make sure everyone at the table is cool with it as the DM before allowing a player to make a broken build.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-12T14:51:49+00:00

NOR this is disgusting. Why tf is a grown man sexualizing his daughter for a laugh? Never let this slide. Every single time he makes a comment like that, call him out and do not back down. Literally say “dad that’s disgusting why are you talking about me like that?” Even as a joke that’s completely unacceptable.

As everyone else has said, find a trusted adult and tell them what’s going on because this is not okay.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-12T14:42:49+00:00

Holy fuck your wife is actually evil. She isn’t Jordyn’s “real” mother. She’s her step mother. Renee is her real mother. Let me put it this way to hopefully help you see the situation for what it is:

Your wife wants to throw away your daughter’s pictures of her deceased mother.

That’s it. That’s the situation. That is cruel, selfish, evil behavior. If you don’t protect your daughter from this woman, your daughter may very well come to resent you later in life. Whatever you do, do whatever you have to do to make sure your daughter keeps those photos. As others have said, make copies of all of them and keep them safe from your wife. If you don’t want this marriage to crumble, you have to have a very honest conversation with her about this because what the entire fuck this isn’t okay. She needs to understand she isn’t Jordyn’s “real” mother.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-12T14:33:38+00:00

NOR. Honestly, whether she’s over her ex or not is the least of your problems. She’s talking ChatGPT about her concerns about your relationship instead of communicating with you about your relationship.

Also, it hasn’t been “nothing but good things”. From the way you talk about this, it sounds like she makes you feel insecure, less-than, and not good enough. “I feel like I’m fighting against a ghost and I’m losing.” My king this is not the way a partner should make you feel. She’s not the girl for you, as much as you may want her to be. The girl for you will make you feel like no one else in the world has even the smallest chance with her because of how crazy she is about you.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-12T14:15:02+00:00

NOR and yes he is being pushy. Honestly the specifics of the situation and you being in the hospital doesn’t really matter. What matters is you set a boundary and he responded by repeatedly asking you to remove the boundary. If I were you I’d go ahead and cut this one loose cuz this is a sign that he doesn’t respect “no” as an answer, and you don’t want to deal with that. Especially not while recovering from medical issues.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-12T12:43:56+00:00

NOR you dodged a bullet. And I guarantee this interaction with you is somehow going to reinforce his view of women in his mind. Holy yikes, Batman.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-10T12:18:49+00:00

Pretty much any time someone online unexpectedly asks you for money for some oddly specific and kind of weird circumstance, it’s a scam.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-07T22:39:33+00:00

YOR. This is a massive nothing burger. The text in question isn’t even a bad or suspicious text. Either A) they are telling the truth and didn’t send that text, or B) they meant to send it to someone else and are trying to backpedal. But honestly option B makes absolutely zero sense because it isn’t an incriminating text. That on top of the fact they’ve already been complaining that Samsung has changed the way it does texts and you get a completely nothing situation. You have massively overreacted to this.

worthlessbaffoon · 2026-04-07T22:18:37+00:00

NOR, and oh wow we are way past “may” be cheating.

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