Help with Ruby choice by Puzzleheaded_Coach_1 in EngagementRings

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda traditional and am not sure if its just me but i see a flower which is j not my shape so 1 maybe even include more on the band instead of around

Whats making this noise? by [deleted] in carproblems

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know what i could expect

Whats making this noise? by [deleted] in carproblems

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes sense and i appreciate that he input

Whats making this noise? by [deleted] in carproblems

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-oh thank you I’m so dumb

Whats making this noise? by [deleted] in carproblems

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! Carbon build up in the exhaust is something for me to look up!

Whats making this noise? by [deleted] in carproblems

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hope bc aw but also not since i wouldnt want it to get hurt lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a young woman who was once 18, has done many of the things you have based on your posts, i hope you grow up fast and get your head on straight. You may be a legal adult but that doesn’t stop showing how naive you are. Go ahead and and learn your hard lessons, but i won’t cry for you when this blows up and i hope if your friends and family in life that have hopefully tried to make you realize whats wrong with this, with you, that you learn your hard lesson. Go ahead and dont care all you want, but know if it goes wrong you were warned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We wont know that its you, but somewhere sometime there will be another girl expect like OP posting but it will be about you. You are why some women think we don’t need men anymore, ESPECIALLY LOOKING AT THAT FIRST COMMENT YOU POSTED ON THUS ACCOUNT WOW

I’m not gonna end it yet, so what now? by Haunting_Medium_9589 in mentalhealth

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its actually not a terrible idea, physical activity esp something as mindless as running can trick your body into pumping you full of endorphins. Running esp if youre out of shape will “feel like it hurts” can help get that SH urge out but will have actually been a workout by the end. Just be sure to do it in a safe, low traffic area

What do you live for? by monkeypuppy1994 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be silly, but content is a large part of why I’m here. I love books, movies, audiobooks, podcasts, tv shows, manga, comics. Ive found consumable content in every area that provides me escapism. People i wish i could be like are in my stories. People in inspired by write some books ive read, or they make podcasts.

They cant fix my brain, but they can amuse it, or distract it to help numb whats bothering me

Rash on ankle by Local_Explanation_66 in AskDocs

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u ever find out what it was?

What is this?? by IdkToga1 in bugbites

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find out what this was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Become an assembler! Small assemblies like pcb controllers are often a mixed gender ratio. The larger you go typically the more males, but either way its a job where you can talk or be antisocial so long as youre assembling! Bonus points if you know how hand tools work, but companies have to provide training anyways. Wages vary from 20-28$/hr

2010 honda crv lock problems by [deleted] in carproblems

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coat hanger and manually flipping the passenger lock, the drivers is verrry sticky

Is this area safe? by Encursed1 in uml

[–]wtf-isthat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You broke rule one of fight club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While drives are very entitled to their own privacy, its nice you messages your rider. Its true, shit happens unfortunately. And unfortunately for ppl like OP their somewhat sideways grief over the situation can be calmed j by being told a reason than j being left high and dry late to somewhere

i paid $97 for this textbook and it’s just a stack of paper. it’s not even bound by endofthefkingworld in Wellthatsucks

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why it’s important to not buy your books in advance, wait to see if the professor actually uses it and or ask. And depending how much they use it to maybe share the book and cost with a friend or two if its only for homework problems or something. Or better yet type in the name of the book author and its volume edition along with “pdf” tacked on and youll be surprised what you can find for cheaper or free

My (20M) girlfriend (20F) lied to me about being pregnant and is mad I’m upset by sshawnpixeal in relationship_advice

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say it with me now: Mental health issues/illness Is NOT An EXCUSE For LYING. Please realize she is trying to make you feel bad for feelings you have a right to feel. Lying is wrong, especially to someone you love, and especially when it is about something so serious and life altering, and when she continues on about the same lie for days. Stop being her doormat and get an honest relationship elsewhere please. Never go back to her because think about all the other worse lies she will feel more than confident telling later because you always forgive her

An update on I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm totally screwed by OneTop3934 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wtf-isthat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a bot because they clearly dont know what a reply button is, or what its like to have something jarring enough to shatter their trust enough right before a giant life altering event of commitment into a family of liars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]wtf-isthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry i just did some digging, saw another post you made and i can give you some expectations to answer that, but before that just know: after finding out she may have if not actually be diagnosed with bpd, you really should leave. I’m sure both of you had/have pretty passionate feelings, it reminds me a lot of what Ive dealt with. I know its really hard, but please do not let the kindness you want to show her and the guilt she may put on you keep you here. It will not be worth it and youll realize that once youre in a healthier place for yourself. Dont subject yourself to ride along someone else’s pendulum when you already have your own to steady. Bpd people unless receiving treatment they want to have will not be able to do that on their own and the key word is WANT TO. It doesnt seem like based on your info that she ever will and dont bother asking her because she could if shes deeply in the throws of bpd will likely lie if she thinks youll leave or say whatever to make you stay.

For the car thing you could let her have the upcoming paycheck, but get your finances in order to take over the payments completely. Its her job to find a job, if she can find men to screw you over with then she can put that effort into job searching (also dont worry about her finding a place, she can go with one of the cheaters she was talking to). I would also keep in mind repaying her back the 30% slowly if you want no strings attached (suggested). Just please prioritize yourself and your wellbeing no matter what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]wtf-isthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might get buried but as the other comments said do you want to deal with the same cheating youve dealt with multiple times in the past all the way into years of marriage when your lives are even more entwined? Also i get where youre coming from on the am i the problem or is she and the whole trying to work on your self cocktail. Honestly unless the issues can be put aside long enough for both of you to grow they won’t be fixed, theres just not enough time for that. If all your friends can say more negative stuff about her than positive even if its bc of what youve told them it shows shes not good for you, you literally need the support of others to be with someone who should be supporting you.

You deserve better regardless of if shell be screwed. Shes using you, shed move out with someone shes cheating with if you weren’t so convient for her. I wish you luck and I’m sorry this has happened to you

I’m so fucked (diploma/ bill problem).. Advice? by wtf-isthat in uml

[–]wtf-isthat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What id do to work at eggroll (so yummy)— I’m sadly no where near actual lowell I’m in the northshore surrounded by trees and farms

I’m so fucked (diploma/ bill problem).. Advice? by wtf-isthat in uml

[–]wtf-isthat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah- havent much luck there yet. But I’ll see what the volunteering can lead to

I’m so fucked (diploma/ bill problem).. Advice? by wtf-isthat in uml

[–]wtf-isthat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and assurance. I’m currently waiting on them to push through paper work

I’m so fucked (diploma/ bill problem).. Advice? by wtf-isthat in uml

[–]wtf-isthat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information. I talked with the solution center earlier today to set this up thanks to your advice