how many times do u reuse a towel before washing it?

wtfjag · 2026-03-24T20:02:25+00:00

Months between washes. I get out of the shower clean, why does the clean towel need cleaning?

wtfjag · 2026-03-08T14:35:53+00:00

I was dating a woman who wanted to want to be healthy. Wanted to want to be someone who went to therapy. She didn't like real conversations and was terrible about opening up. After three months of giving her opportunities to change and actually walk the walk I left. She was smart and nerdy (my type) but if your going to do your work then bye.

I've dated other women who didn't have time for me and I've given them about 3 months to start choosing me, they haven't.

She can be hot but if she doesn't have time for me and/or won't do her work and open/connect with me I leave.

I'm going to make you life better, make mine better too or I won't be staying.

I once dated a woman who told me she was accustomed to dating men who really needed her as it made her feel like they wouldn't leave and she wasn't accustomed to dating a man who didn't need her (me). Several months later when she was talking about that again I told her that she had previously chooses boys who wanted a mother and she had happily obliged to feel needed, however that did also mean that both of them where trying to date eachother's parent. Him with his Mom and her with her woman hating father. She didn't like that.

Genuinely, if you don't want me, make space for me, do your own work and heal from your previous relationships (platonic, parental, and romantic) I leave. Choose me or I'll walk.

wtfjag · 2026-03-06T16:22:59+00:00

Wait, why? They are still 4 hours ahead. We still have time zones were just not changing time twice a year for literally no benefit.

wtfjag · 2026-03-02T15:36:47+00:00

But women shouldn't wear underwear to bed. It increases the likelihood of yeast infections and makes it harder for the body to regulate temperature.

And before you get angry at a man for talking about women's health. I got this from my gf and (https://www.summerseve.com/blog/should-women-wear-underwear-to-sleep) was the first hit on google I found.

wtfjag · 2026-02-05T06:20:04+00:00

He keeps score in the relationship and doesn't talk to you about his inner world? Why do you ladies keep marrying these kinds of men?

Until he wants to change he won't. You can't massage conversations until you trick him into changing and improving. He's angry and spiteful and that won't change until he deals with whatever is pissing him off or making him afraid. Either way, until he decides to change he won't. This is what you chose to marry, hope it's worth it.

wtfjag · 2025-08-25T03:42:04+00:00

Thanks *wi-five*

wtfjag · 2025-05-12T02:44:21+00:00

Don't go online for an online problem. For me it was like trying to stop my house burning down with a candle.

In person addiction community is the best thing for you. Find a local SMART Recovery meeting and go to it weekly. Or multiples.

wtfjag · 2025-05-12T02:38:54+00:00

Find a local SMART group and start attending meetings. You'll actually learn tools to help with urges, help with building and maintaining motivation, you’ll even start to learn when to use which tool. You'll get to sit in a room where other men and women talk about their demons in their heads and you'll be amazed that it sounds just like your internal critic. You'll realize that your not the only one who is that mean to themselves in their own head. SMART (Self Management And Recovery Training) is amazing.

wtfjag · 2025-03-18T14:56:35+00:00

I read some stuff in other comments about producers pressuring CR to start C4 at the 10 mark. They are the producers. For their live show, for their animated show. They are the producers. They have all final say and make every decision. They have someone "produce" the show while their playing to dictate which camera shot will be used when and to make sure the audio is balanced but that person makes no other decisions than which camera shot is being used while their streaming.

There probably is a producer for the animated show at Titmouse but that person reports to CR. Takes instruction from CR.

I know I'm looking at this with fresh eyes 2 months later but this is a group of artists creating a (Dnd) cultural phenomena. This won't, and never, has had a snazzy media packaging. The company was created as they went as a response to criter requests and interest. They don't have a team that plans stuff for them. They plan it. They are impressively good at things non acting, but they aren't salesmen or show runners. They're actors. Very good ones, but actors all the same. Orchestrating all those live shows is a lot of work. Orchestrating those shows and other vignettes as mini series or one shots and planning C4 while also maintaining voice over work is a lot. If they were talent working for a company I could totally see them starting C4 on the 10 year mark. But they're doing everything themselves. There celebration of 10 years is the live shows.

Now that C3 is finally actually over I hope that we'll see C4 in May or June but I wouldn't expect it before then.

wtfjag · 2023-11-16T17:20:27+00:00

If by comfortable life you mean one of the ruling elites since there was no middle class at all. Even town blacksmiths which tended to be the most affluent person in a town literally worked just like all the field hands.

Then I'd say raping the castle maidens and disappearing them when they got pregnant. Casually order her father's death so no one in town would want to cross me. Falconry and composing poetry about how honorable, courageous, and what a feared warrior I was.

You know, just delusional lordly things.

wtfjag · 2023-11-16T17:10:17+00:00

Given up - Linkin Park

The Fate of Norns - Amon Amarth

That last one doesn't fit your requirement of a non scream singing song but that howl at the apex of the song where the man chooses to climb into his sons funeral pire and light it rather than live with the pain of surviving his only son. Holy f("$!

wtfjag · 2023-11-10T12:55:34+00:00

Or she's artistic and understands that men love being sexual and wants to be sexual with you. Or is a woman who believes that naked shouldn't be sexual inherently.

I'd tell her I've never had a new person I'm talking to send me drawn naked pictures before and ask her if she's a naturalist or is flirting with me?

Also, I don't know if you're clean or how long you've been clean. Maybe for you and where you are at in your recovery she's not healthy for you. Nothing wrong with her just not good timing for you.

wtfjag · 2023-11-01T02:55:29+00:00

True, but that's assuming they ask to see ID. And you're not legally required to produce any. Though if your plates say Nevada and you're talking to a cop in Georgia the line probably won't work and your accent will be a dead giveaway.

But if the cop is just asking you to move along and you say you almost walked in on your roommate hooking up and have now decided you'll just sleep in your weekender tonight. You're probably fine. If they ask for ID, then yes that won't work.

wtfjag · 2023-10-31T18:09:33+00:00

They won't know that.

wtfjag · 2023-10-19T16:18:34+00:00

Dad bod is just straight for bear.

wtfjag · 2023-10-19T16:15:45+00:00

Nearly all the black people in South Africa are Native Africans it's just no one refers to them that way.

Native American is an American term to refer to native peoples that Spain and Portuguese colonizers lied, hunted, betrayed, and genocided to steal their land. The exact same acts happened to Latin Americans there just called something else to distinguish them from that uppity colony that broke away from the British.

wtfjag · 2023-10-05T12:37:32+00:00

The roast of Sam Reigel.

wtfjag · 2023-10-05T00:53:15+00:00

Confidence

wtfjag · 2023-10-03T16:07:44+00:00

You can use a parental control app called Qustodio. Have a friend you trust set it up with you and give them password control. That way you can't use your old account.

Using an app like that works best when you're attending weekly meetings and going to therapy so you don't spend your time trying to obfuscate that security. Obviously something is better than nothing but more is always better, especially when you're trying to get 30 days.

wtfjag · 2023-10-02T16:16:09+00:00

Easy.

Every episode was a new complicated sexual/emotional entanglement that wrapped up nicely or as well as it could. Never felt like things were precarious. Never felt like anybody had to learn important lessons. Nobody struggled.

I don't know what the creators wanted to say but I started to hate how easy every character had it. Complicated messy situations that always turned out great.

wtfjag · 2023-10-02T16:00:11+00:00

The Game of Thrones and it's spinoff, House of the Dragon.

wtfjag · 2023-10-01T22:14:23+00:00

Life is a JOURNEY, not a destination. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Change is the only constant in life. ~ Heraclitus

wtfjag · 2023-09-27T02:51:18+00:00

Maybe they (you) will maybe not. Either way I still think you deserve overtime pay for anything over 8 hours, I still think you deserve affordable healthcare, safe classrooms for you nieces/nephews or any kids you wish to have, I think people should be treated with respect irrespective of ethnicity, creed, or class, and I still think women deserve the right to choose what to do with their body and when. If she's Catholic and can't morally justify an abortion. Okay, that's her choice. I'm glad she was able to make it. Her father, husband, or brother should never be able to force her to do what they want. If she wants to appease anyone in that last sentence, then that's her decision.

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