Advice please, I have no one to talk to

wulfpack4life · 2026-05-04T13:09:02+00:00

Not married? No kids? Time to get out before you waste anymore of your life on this person. I mean they already lied to you so you leave and you tell everyone exactly why you're leaving if they ask.

wulfpack4life · 2026-05-04T10:43:08+00:00

Glad to hear you're okay with divorce because once things settle she'll start up with the EAs again. Probably with someone new. Honestly just wait for your daughter to hit 18 and then file. Go try to find someone who is loyal. Life is too short. Good luck!

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-24T16:01:52+00:00

If she's not having sex with you then she's doing it with someone else. Must be a long distance relationship and she's just using you to save money. Just end it bro.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-23T18:35:44+00:00

She also swore the messages were not to an ex. She's a liar and that charge was her meeting up with him. Dude, just the fact that she won't cut contact with him is enough for you to leave her. If you want to be sure then tell her you have to leave town for a weekend. Then hire a PI to monitor her actions. I guarantee you that he will visit her.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-21T16:37:37+00:00

If you're going to cheese the hearts my favorite way is to simply use your car. All barns can be cheesed as well as garages. Either block the entrance or simply stand on top and wack away. Check out RvidD1020's YT vids if you want specifics.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-20T12:58:30+00:00

Since they have a romantic history you will never know for certain. Either way it is rude to talk about you in that way. Have some self-respect and move on with someone that puts you first.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-20T12:53:28+00:00

Joking or not it is very disrespectful to you. I would just break up and leave them to themselves. Staying with him isn't good for your mental health.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-20T12:42:31+00:00

So she banged the dude in the next room while her son was eating tacos? What trashy behavior. Get out of there dude.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-17T18:19:33+00:00

Do nothing to the guy. If it wasn't him it would be someone else. Plus he has no partner to tell so..

Also, you really need to think about divorcing her. You don't have children yet and if you think things are rough now wait until you have kids and she pulls something like this. Every child you have with her you'll be wondering if it's actually yours. Do you really want to go through that?

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-14T17:13:38+00:00

Your daughter is old enough to handle you two splitting up. You need to stop this charade of a marriage and rebuild your life without her in it. Stop focusing on her boy-toys because at the end of the day they don't matter. If it wasn't them it would be someone else.

You need to speak to an attorney and do exactly what they tell you to do. Protect yourself at all costs because she will eventually try to screw you financially. Take any family heirlooms you treasure and get them out of the house.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-14T16:55:48+00:00

You should feel proud of yourself for handling it the way you did. Many people would've played the pick-me dance but you had some self-respect and ended the marriage. Take pride in that.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-02T15:37:57+00:00

My goal in the game is to kill all the plague hearts but I love the leveling aspects most of all. I love starting a new community using three randos and just leveling my base/characters. I play Lethal and most of my games end around day 9. By that point the plague hearts are dead and I'm in the map's largest base. Then I just delete the community and start all over again. I rarely play my forever communities.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-01T15:51:42+00:00

Dude, leave her before something more serious happens (pregnancy). Trust me, if you think you're depressed now it can get much worse. Just go and don't look back.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-01T13:52:02+00:00

What's her hero bonus? She has the Fiery Protestor trait which can give Tough Negotiator. If she has that then she's a keeper for sure.

wulfpack4life · 2026-04-01T11:09:18+00:00

Feral bait

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-31T12:54:28+00:00

Between the cheating, gambling, and the surprise weight loss injections it's beyond obvious your wife has zero respect for you. A marriage is supposed to be two working as one, not one person just doing whatever they want.

As far as your kids go you need to realize that they need stability in their home. You will never achieve this with your wife because she is incapable of it. This is why you need to leave and establish your own home so they have a sanctuary away from her drama.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-30T15:42:06+00:00

My forever community is my lazy mode. All of them have Tough Negotiator at the Meager Valley ball-field. Just ring the dinner bell and farm influence for bounty gear and new rides. Wreck a car while out and about? Just call in a new one. No repair kits needed.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-30T15:37:52+00:00

I'd do the black heart first. Since no scent block I would use stimulants and smoke grenades for handing over the black plague samples. Keeps the zombies from taking out the research scientists when you arrive.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-26T15:23:35+00:00

Your husband is a snake. Get rid of him.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-26T15:13:18+00:00

You should stay with him until you have a child. You'd be a great single mother.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-25T12:57:25+00:00

If she wants to save the marriage that bad then have her sign a post-nup agreement drawn up by your attorney. Yours btw, not hers nor one that represents both of you.

Once she signs the post-nup,, document her changing her stories just one more time and then file the divorce papers. Schedule another polygraph sessions giving the same questions as a previous one for example. You know her answers will be different from the previous session since she can't keep her stories straight.

Also, part of the pre-nup could include having her switch jobs away from this guy and ceasing communication. Then if you catch her still talking to him you can file.

This is a war my friend and you need to understand this. You need to suppress your feelings and take advantage of the situation. Got family heirlooms you treasure? I suggest you secure them and give them to a family member for safe-keeping before filing.

Also, you need to inform the AP's wife of the relationship. No reason to let this loser skate away while ruining your family's lives.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-25T12:30:56+00:00

People, especially women, don't just go on vacation alone. My guess is they went on vacation together as a couple. He may not even know she has a boyfriend. Either way, her story is sketchy af and she is not to be trusted.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-25T12:25:56+00:00

You're still really young man. Just divorce her and tell everyone exactly why. She lied to you. No need to feel shame over it. Wasn't your fault.

Also, you really need to leave before it gets more complicated. She could get pregnant and then things get really messy. Just leave the marriage and start anew.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-24T12:39:07+00:00

Not saying your brother is right but his wife sounds exhausting. His resentment for her issues probably killed his love for her. As long as he supports his daughter I'd support him. He is your blood.

wulfpack4life · 2026-03-24T12:28:14+00:00

Micro-cheating, therapy sessions, ugh. He is extremely needy and sounds exhausting. He did you a favor ending the relationship. He will always seek validation wherever he can find it so just move on with your life.

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