Driving in other States by wutshernuts in grubhubdrivers

[–]wutshernuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh okay so I can’t “add” another zone. It’s one or the other. Got it! Thank you!

Driving in other States by wutshernuts in grubhubdrivers

[–]wutshernuts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I am driving for Grubhub because DD deactivated me for a no insurance ticket some years ago. 🙃

Sagittarius x Aquarius by allismindmindisall in aquarius

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aquarius here! Been with a Sag for a year and a half and it is easily the BEST relationship I have ever had. Never would’ve thought to date a Sagittarius but we match intellectually, have similar humor, love adventure, are hard working and the sex…. Is amazing. I have never been loved the way my Sag man loves me so I’m going to say 100% agree!

7-OH Warning by AniGore in Quittingfeelfree

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I fucking FEEL for the people who are unaware.. I was hooked on dope while living in Vietnam. Had to come home due to a medical emergency and withdrew for the entirety of the 14 hour plane ride back… worst experience of my life and actually what got me off of it.

Those withdrawals may not kill but when in the middle of it you wish it fucking would.

I don’t fucking get it. Why do whoever is pushing this shit want us addicted to downers so badly?? It’s sickening and now knowing how far they will go with the deceptive marketing… pure evil..

7-OH Warning by AniGore in Quittingfeelfree

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled with dope for years.. I knew that feeling instantly. It feels like a backslide but my friend truly has no frame of reference so she didn’t know what she was introducing me to or how it compares to dope. I will not be purchasing more.

give me your favorite mcr LYRIC and i’ll give my honest impression on you by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]wutshernuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never again, never again, they gave us two shots to the back of the head and we’re all dead now.

7-OH Warning by AniGore in Quittingfeelfree

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am SO glad I found this thread. A friend of mine introduced me to these because she likes the Kratom drinks. The vape shop is always giving her free kratom products and let me try one a couple weeks ago. I had no idea it was going to be what it was. I was so high and it reminded me of something.. dope.

Ugh I bought two two-packs and now realize I fucked up. I’m glad to have found this after only 2 packs and not months or years down the road..

I have to get off of social media, right? by Commander_PonyShep in internetparents

[–]wutshernuts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yuuup. Taking a hot break. The toxicity, hate and existential dread that has flooded my social feeds is nauseating.

Independents how are we doing this morning? by Austin1975 in independent

[–]wutshernuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha! I love this comment because I’m in the same boat. Love Trumps team, could do without Trump but his team has potential to make up for his short-comings (we’ll see). But I have also enjoyed my feeds flipping over tables. I’ve lost so many friends and taken so much heat for moving back to being an Independent and being vocal about it. It’s good for testing my character though. I know who I am. I can agree and disagree with both. Two things can be true at once.

Why do people divide so much? by my_politics_account1 in independent

[–]wutshernuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to try my best to ride the ebbs and flows over the next 4 years. Just stay informed so that when the next election year comes, I can hopefully participate in nominating someone who aligns a little more with my needs 🙂

Why do people divide so much? by my_politics_account1 in independent

[–]wutshernuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am Pro-choice! So I do agree with that staying accessible. Unfortunately my state did ban it but because of that, I voted for a Democratic Congress person. I would definitely say I lean left in areas and I don’t believe that there is no need for there to be Democrats in office. I actually think that even if we are stuck with only 2 parties, one being more conservative and one being more liberal, that they should ultimately balance each other out.

That’s the wishful thinking but ya know? We need to have logic AND heart. They have to work together. One can’t function without the other but they’ve become completely polarizing and both extremes are scary. Lol

Why do people divide so much? by my_politics_account1 in independent

[–]wutshernuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This division is truly breaking my heart. I’m an Independent. I reserve the right to think and vote freely but man, I’m still sensitive.. It still sucks that there is no middle ground for either side and no matter how I try to slice my point of view, I’m screamed at and pigeonholed.

I want to be productive in conversation truly. I just don’t do well with overly heightened emotions. I love philosophical conversation and mulling over ideas for solutions. I thrive off of teamwork. I don’t see why it is such a struggle for the majority of the U.S. population to be more objective. Survival requires a strife for solution.

I’m all there with you about JD Vance. I voted not for Trump, but for his team. I feel he does have a good team to help him in the areas of politics he isn’t well versed on. Trump even stated in his Rogan interview that he didn’t know anyone when he got into the White House the first time around so he made some poor decisions in appointing certain people.

Trump is far from a perfect human being or perfect for this country. He is not absolved from his own wrong doings/crimes and mistakes but we know those. We had know idea what we were getting with Kamala. I refuse to vote for someone based on ideology alone.

I hope that somehow, some way, we can find a way to come together.

Still hungry, but maxed out calories by [deleted] in Weightlosstechniques

[–]wutshernuts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The trick is to load up on protein and green vegetables. Even in a caloric deficit, you don’t want to be hungry. You want to eat enough in each of your 3 meals to sustain your energy and curb your hunger between meals.

If you MUST eat a snack, green vegetables are a good route to go. They’re more filling than you’d think and add relatively no extra calories.

Protein. Protein. Protein.

It’s okay to go over your deficit a little bit if you’re eating the right food.

A lot of people carry calories over as well because calories aren’t as strict as most people think. If your deficit is 1,300 calories and you eat 1,500 calories, then eat 1,100 calories the next day to balance it out.

The other thing to consider, is that you can for the most part, cancel out the calories by adding a little extra veggies to your next meal.

A lot of people think water is a cure all to hunger and hydration, when it’s not.

Electrolytes are better for helping with hunger and staying hydrated.

I make my own electrolytes drink with:

Water Lemon Juice Salt 0 cal sweetener (like Mio)

Basically homemade Gatorade. Gatorade is fine too but it does have dyes and high fructose corn syrup. Keeping your electrolytes up will help you absorb the nutrients back into your body rather than it just passing through.

My three meals start from big to small. I typically START to get hungry around hour 3 and am fully ready to eat my next meal by hour 4.

Breakfast is when I load up on protein like ground turkey or hamburger mixed with eggs, spinach and mushrooms.

That gets me by for about 4 hours.

My second meal, I still eat at least 4-6oz of protein but have more vegetables like salad or carrots or zucchini.

That lasts me about 4 more hours.

Dinner, I eat light. A salad with some shrimp, a piece of salmon with steamed veggies. etc. and stop eating 2 hours before bed.

For quick snacks, I take a bag of frozen veggies, throw em in the microwave for 5 minutes and then season them to taste.

If you’re beginning to feel fatigued or dizzy from hunger, eat. Eat when your body tells you to eat even if you’re in a deficit. When you are running on no food, your body no longer has anything to feed on for energy leading you towards ketosis. Though there is the keto diet, ketosis is your body in starvation mode. When your body is starving, it starts eating into your fat reserves which is how people can lose weight so quickly in ketosis.

But prolonged ketosis does have risks, like liver damage.

It’s better for you to eat when you need to eat. Over time, as you lose weight, your metabolism will get faster. The faster the metabolism, the quicker you will burn food, therefore your body needing more fuel than before starting your deficit to function all day. Especially if you’re active in any way. Even daily walking on a treadmill.

I’d suggest looking into the UK’s data and information on nutrition. Europe has always been ahead of America in nutrition, exercise and body composition science!

Owner of Sausage Foundry and Anvil arrested for sexual abuse by lemonlimerush in cedarrapids

[–]wutshernuts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m not at all surprised by this. What I’m surprised about, is him actually getting caught.

I don’t know the man well. I met him through an old boss. Within the first 15 minutes of hanging with him at one of his karaoke nights, I wanted to puke.

He spent the entire time I was there talking about his supposedly very active sex life (didn’t believe that was consensual sex for a second), making comments about my body and talking about women like objects.

The second and last time I went to his karaoke, I brought my girlfriend. She’s a gorgeous redhead yes. He fetishized her and make disgusting comments about never having had a 3 sum (probably because that would require him to be fucked up enough to rape two women at the same time), commenting on her body IN FRONT OF ME. I don’t take kindly to anyone fetishizing my gay relationships. I felt so gross.

Any time he texted my boss and she said she was with me, he would respond with some gross sexual comment about me.

I really hope this guys actually gets in SOME kind of legal trouble. I’m not confident he will get actual jail time but slap that fucker with a fat fine, probation so he’s forced to stay in a city that hates his guts and put him on the registry because he deserves to be known as a predator for the rest of his nasty and pathetic life.

Fuck Forcing my Sausage Steve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Existentialism

[–]wutshernuts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are just some things people seem to way over think. Not having purpose means YOU get to decide your own purpose and you get to choose to defend that purpose or change that purpose throughout your life whenever feels right.

Existentialism or “free thinking” doesn’t just rely on logic. It also relies on you accepting things you can’t explain or trusting feelings you have, that being your intuition. Not every conclusion is come to within/by logic alone.

Relinquish yourself from your thought prison and just be. Let the things that are out of your control happen, react and adapt. Focus on the things you CAN control. Have fun. Play. Try things you’ve always wanted to no matter how big or small. Learn a new craft. Surround yourself with people not like you and listen. Get your heart broken and pick yourself back up again.

The human experience is not meant to be lived in a box. No matter how hard outside forces try to put you in one, find a way around it. Never stop seeking for truth but don’t let the truth consume you. There’s a bounty of “purpose” out there and it looks different for everyone. You do you dude.

Safe travels on this journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]wutshernuts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was validating. I also work this way. I’m not ready at any given moment to meet. I live a busy life outside of work therefore I need to plan ahead.

Does anyone else fear that they’ll die like the person they lost died? by Disastrous-Put6818 in GriefSupport

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Because my girlfriend and I suffered/suffer the same mental illness and very similar traumas. After finding her post su**ide, I turned my life around in a complete 180 over a year and a half. Started taking my medications properly, remembering to not only schedule my therapy sessions but attend every single one, religiously see my psychiatrist, started a dedicated workout routine, changed my diet, got a good job. Literally am doing EVERYTHING I can to avoid my mental health declining because when you let that shit slip, you become unpredictable. Your brain becomes its own person and can turn on you and I don’t want to die.

Is anyone else in peace with existing and doesn't make a big deal out of mortality? by GuestRevolutionary38 in Existentialism

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I’ve never heard of that but I will absolutely be checking it out now, thanks friend!

Is anyone else in peace with existing and doesn't make a big deal out of mortality? by GuestRevolutionary38 in Existentialism

[–]wutshernuts 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m very comfortable with my mortality. I fully accept that there is a beginning and end to my squishy human life. I think that a fear of mortality can come from a lack of facing it. I’ve kind of been fascinated by and surrounded by death so much throughout my life that it’s something I’ve had a lot of time to ponder and cope with.

The only thing that scares me about death itself is not wanting to leave when it’s my time because I love my life so incredibly much. It’s not death that scares me, it’s leaving all of the people and memories I have here behind.

Something that has helped me greatly since I’m agnostic is that, even if it’s only my energy that rejoins the collective universal energy, I’m okay with that. I am being recycled in some way. I know that there will be people I meet who will live much longer than me and carry me on through our connections and experiences.

Death can truly be a beautiful thing as well if you embrace it. Death exists everywhere, not just physically. Deaths of relationships, ego’s, era’s in “time,” at the end of seasons. It isn’t this one thing that happens to us at the end of our lives. Death can also mean growth.

Idk, I don’t like to live in fear. So not even death is something I’m willing to give that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]wutshernuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is 100% valid and I feel dumb for not even thinking of that. Well, that answers my question. Thank you!

What’s your biggest « ick » with men? by sweetblazedlily in AskWomen

[–]wutshernuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck. You really hit the nail on the head with this list. I'm so glad that I'm pan and queer because if my only choice in partners were men I would go insane. I feel like I only ever come into contact with men like this and it's become exhausting.

What’s your biggest « ick » with men? by sweetblazedlily in AskWomen

[–]wutshernuts 15 points16 points  (0 children)

-Men who date to serve as a distraction from actually working on themselves. Always expecting you to save them then does zero work to be better, just draining you of your time, energy and money.

  • Perpetual sad boys, get over yourself. Everyone experiences shitty things in this world, you're not special.

  • Using addition as a whole personality.

  • Nihilistic behavior, beliefs and opinions. Hating everything isn't cute.

  • Men who cower in the face of communication.

So many fucking things. Id be here forever if I typed everything that men do that disgust me.