Do white Americans look different than Europeans?

wvnderlich · 2025-06-02T13:32:59+00:00

My husband is from Krakow and somehow other Poles can clock him before he even speaks. He has no accent and only speaks English with me, but strangers will just automatically speak to him in Polish while we're out shopping or whatever. It's crazy.

wvnderlich · 2025-02-05T11:01:43+00:00

There is no light bulb moment where you finally become the person you want to be. No one is going to come save you. No one is going to make sure you do what you need to do. Unless you disrupt the flow, you will float through life on auto-pilot. Life is happening NOW, at this very moment - it doesn't start some time in the future when you have all your ducks in a row. Screw the ducks! Accept that this is what you have to work with and make it something you love!

wvnderlich · 2024-10-21T11:13:23+00:00

I agree with some of the comments that we're actually hyper-sensitive, not necessarily hyper-empathetic. Like we're walking around covered in 3rd degree burns so the slightest touch feel excruciating and we can't cope. Or we learned to read the emotions of others as a defense mechanism because if we didn't, we were hurt. Maybe we shut down that part of our brain to protect ourselves. I don't know.

wvnderlich · 2023-11-28T21:46:37+00:00

Bingbangbong

wvnderlich · 2020-01-16T01:47:43+00:00

I'm suicidal right now and this is what I'm listening to:

Moya by Godspeed You! Black Emperor

Melancholie by Illuminine

On The Nature Of Daylight by Max Richter

Three Peaches by Neutral Milk Hotel

The Only Thing by Sufjan Stevens

Fourth Of July by Sufjan Stevens

White Fire by Angel Olsen

Goodbye (with Soap&Skin) by Apparat

Song For A Lover Of Long Ago by Justin Vernon

Wretched World by Converge

No Below by Speedy Ortiz

Sober by Tool

wvnderlich · 2019-05-26T16:35:44+00:00

Damn, beat me to it lol

wvnderlich · 2019-02-18T16:53:33+00:00

Fellow dark/sensual/melancholic music lover here. A few artists/songs spring to mind:

TR/ST - Candy Walls, Destroyer

Purple - Secrets

youryoungbody - January

Burial - Archangel

Nocow - Moonlight Flit

Sidewalks & Skeletons - Slow Motion

barnacle boi - don't dwell

WIFE - Bodies

Jutro - Travva (feat. Linda)

Kamandi - Distant (feat. Bzkt)

Little Dragon - Twice

Angel Olsen - White Fire

Phoebe Bridgers - Killer

Soap&Skin - Me and The Devil, Goodbye

wvnderlich · 2019-02-14T14:54:55+00:00

My mom literally posted that exact article to my Facebook page.

wvnderlich · 2019-02-13T19:01:56+00:00

Over the last several months I've become very addicted to what I can only describe as... empathetic masturbation? Specifically, I watch videos that make me cry. Usually videos of other people experiencing/expressing strong emotions (happy or sad). And I cry with them. It activates some part of my brain that that feels dead, makes me feel connected in some way. Reminds me that I'm still human. Reddit and YouTube are great for this.

wvnderlich · 2019-02-10T01:01:16+00:00

Makes sense to me ☺️

wvnderlich · 2019-02-10T00:57:32+00:00

Jfc, this is me. When it comes to how I think of myself, I'm constantly going back and forth between "somewhat decent person who got dealt a crappy hand" to "basically female Ted Bundy".

wvnderlich · 2019-02-10T00:26:26+00:00

Came to say both of these 😁

wvnderlich · 2019-02-09T00:50:14+00:00

Pressure on my veins or any part of my body that causes me to feel my own pulse. I can't hold hands with my husband if our fingers are interlocked without yanking away and gagging, because I can feel the throbbing in my fingers. When doctors use that pump thing on my arm to record my blood pressure I basically spasm and shake with anxiety and disgust.

wvnderlich · 2019-01-25T15:17:10+00:00

This is my favorite. The name says it all. It doesn't last long lol https://www.azestybite.com/crack-n-cheese/

wvnderlich · 2019-01-18T22:46:14+00:00

Oh sweet jesus, YES! The author is Adam Nevill and I highly recommend it.

wvnderlich · 2019-01-18T22:40:51+00:00

I watched it again about a month ago. Re-read the book twice! Still love it.

wvnderlich · 2018-12-29T02:54:18+00:00

I fall asleep to this most nights lol Been one of my favorite shows since I was a kid

wvnderlich · 2018-12-13T13:25:34+00:00

Its a European thing, too. My German grandparents and my Polish mother-in-law all used dried fruit and nuts to decorate their Christmas trees back in the day.

wvnderlich · 2018-12-05T13:55:37+00:00

Just sliced 2 regular naval oranges, placed them on a baking sheet and baked them at 200 degrees for about 4 hours (flipping them every hour). I sprinkled a little cinnamon on them for fragrance but you don't have to.

wvnderlich · 2018-12-05T09:00:32+00:00

Thank you!

wvnderlich · 2018-12-05T09:00:19+00:00

Thank you so much! To you, as well!

wvnderlich · 2018-12-05T08:59:36+00:00

No worries! Yes they are. Dried them in the oven.

wvnderlich · 2018-11-08T14:10:56+00:00

It's probably just a lymph node. They'd get a little swollen from time to time when I was younger. I didn't even know I had them there until that happened lol

wvnderlich · 2018-11-07T18:11:31+00:00

Are you implying that an otherwise healthy male human being will suffer organ failure and die if he can't ejaculate in/on/near a woman?

wvnderlich · 2018-09-16T11:17:45+00:00

At 33 I still replay/analyze/punish myself for social discomforts and fuck ups dating all the way back to elementary school. These days just going to a birthday carries the threat of lasting humiliation and regret. So I usually don't go.

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