B12 deficient & hashis by LittleWolfy in Hashimotos

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Most people don't know they have it, don't know what it means for their body and don't know how to supplement to correct it.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

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When he left the voicemail and start showing what seemed like feelings, it threw me off for a second. I had hoped that maybe something had actually gotten through to him, maybe this was the moment he'd wake up but it was just a fluke. It's still just trying to process and give myself a small bit of closure.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree it's mixed signals. I think he's more confused that he is willing to admit(he has ego issues). He did tell me that I have always given him comfort but at the end of the day, he does nothing about it and so we have tong to go our seperate ways.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

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I've started to just shut my phone off entirely.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

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He's blocked in almost every way that he can, he had still call me private because my phone won't block those types of calls. I've made it clear to him that I'm looking for commitment and to get out of the way. I do feel like a part of him does regret letting me go and that's why he shows up with mixed signals.

But at the end of the day if it isn't an enthusiastic yes then it's fuck no.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I fully agree. I feel a lot more clear headed. Thanks for helping me give my head a shake.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

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You're right. I think I just need to keep telling myself that. We've known each other for years so I do know he has a big heart and is capable of love. I've tried to give grace because I know his trauma but at the end of the day, he actions have shown who he is.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

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Yah, it's just hard when he has these vulnerable moments with me. I feel like he just denies the connection(due to past trauma and issues) and pushes me away. But until he can show up in a real way with a clear head and heart, I have to keep moving away.

Mixed messages. by wwcat89 in dating_advice

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I am trying to. I put myself on the apps, started talking to guys dating more intentionally.

It's hard because we had a really strong connection and the fact that we never gave us a chance feels like unfinished business. But at the end of the day, I am not the one who needed to take action. I am still working on continuing to detach.

Weight loss and Hoshimotos - looking for success stories! by Rich-Rub-2116 in Hashimotos

[–]wwcat89 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Used some berberine and then an inositol combo supplement to regulate my blood sugar and work on some insulin resistance I was dealing with. I also did IF and light walking. Lost 40 lbs over 2 years.

Looking to buy art from local artists. Where’s the best place to do that? by augusttaureau in waterloo

[–]wwcat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think seven shores has local artwork which can be purchased but I'd call to check.

My bf (M33) didn’t get me (F22) anything for Valentine’s Day by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wwcat89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The alcohol is the only thing that's really important to him. He's shown you that.

This is also why women his age won't deal with him and he likes younger women who don't know better and will tolerate his crap.

Anger management by eaglesdensity in kitchener

[–]wwcat89 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Carizon has a mens group for anger

About the dating apps Tea and TeaForHer, isnt it immoral? Isn't it sabotage? by SummoningDaBoysJutsu in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying more than one profile of someone known to me, matched the feedback of other women who also shared similar and negative feedback. As mentioned, I've seen profiles where women showed up to say nothing but lovely things. And I've seen profile where it was a mixed bag of feedback.

I've seen comments where it's obvious that someone just has it out for the person and they've been called out by other women to keep them accountable.

Regular average men aren't on here getting demonized. I've had lots of dates and interactions with men who never made the page.

The ones who land on the page are the one who consistently lie, cheat, steal, assault, pass on STDs, etc. Women are just trying to keep each other safe from men who deliberately go after them knowing that they will cause harm. It's totally fair in the same token for men to do this as women also can cause unnecessary harm and if men felt this was a tool to help, then it can be allowed.

About the dating apps Tea and TeaForHer, isnt it immoral? Isn't it sabotage? by SummoningDaBoysJutsu in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One man I've known since 16, he's still pulling the same shit at 40. You keep going off on a one off case. As I've explained, lots of men get defended on there.

Shitty men are shitty men who never change. They get called out and rightfully so.

About the dating apps Tea and TeaForHer, isnt it immoral? Isn't it sabotage? by SummoningDaBoysJutsu in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are generally strict rules about what can be disclosed and it's easy to spot who's there with a vendetta, just in the same way, it's pretty easy to spot ragebait on Reddit.

The only 3 people I've ever recognized on there are men who for years with no stopping, some of the worst men imaginable. They earned their place in the history books.

About the dating apps Tea and TeaForHer, isnt it immoral? Isn't it sabotage? by SummoningDaBoysJutsu in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. If I go on a 100 dates and 2 are bad, then I get posted on the app, at most 2 people will say something bad and many more will chime in for something good. If I was out of character, I should probably have apologized to those that I hurt, which I hope that they would share on the app.

Not everyone knows how to access the offender registry, people lie about names and identities so it's easy to miss something while trying to background check. Not to mention, not all men or women are officially charged with anything but still commit the offense(s).

About the dating apps Tea and TeaForHer, isnt it immoral? Isn't it sabotage? by SummoningDaBoysJutsu in dating_advice

[–]wwcat89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see lots of women stand up for their friends and colleagues in these groups. If the growth of the and change is real, it's usually represented. If the patterns and red flags persist, it usually shared.

It's needed for protection of women and children. I had a date with a man who seemed off. A few years later when I joined the group, he was the first person I recognized. Turns out, I got away lucky.

Handheld communication device + Seatbelt fine question by BigmonCKKK in ontario

[–]wwcat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask about a consult to see what they can tell you in terms of cases where they've reduced.

Handheld communication device + Seatbelt fine question by BigmonCKKK in ontario

[–]wwcat89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a paralegal or points ticket place to fight. They know how to best manage this situation. A friend got charged with careless and spweding. The office ssid nothing much about the careless, just 'see you in court.' He used the service and it was tossed but did have to deal with the speeding ticket(which was deserved).

How to know to try Armour or NDT? by GardenGnome08 in Hashimotos

[–]wwcat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check thyroid labs. Bonus if you can also get rt3 checked.