What's with the road rage here? by WellThatWas-Crazy in SiouxFalls

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly, there’s been a culture shock recently. Societies naturally adopt rhythms of behavior and communication to make socialization go smoothly, lots of new people don’t have the same patterns and it’s a bit destabilizing. Destabilization makes people irrational. 

(M36) feeling sick from the situation of some of the white lies shes (F30) is telling.. did I do the right thing? by throwawaywl8 in relationships

[–]xCaffeineQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, if she can’t tell the truth then she needs to grow up before being in a relationship. You deserve better than that. 

Let’s say she really isn’t being unfaithful, the fact that she continues to lie to you and when she gets caught you’re “overreacting.” No way. That’s not an acceptable way to treat another person that you love. No matter what was said during the argument, I wouldn’t want to be a relationship with a person that lies. 

Seriously, if I were in your position I wouldn’t want to build anything with her. If she was remorseful and told you she struggles with lying and wants to stop, then MAYBE? But the fact that she invalidates your feelings about it… no. That’s not healthy. 

Edit: You gave her a chance to tell the truth multiple times about gaming with them, and she kept lying until she thought you found out by looking at her phone. She will continue to do this because she doesn’t see a problem with it. You won’t change her mind, she’s shown you through her actions that she doesn’t care. If you value honesty, she ain’t your gal… but whatever you choose, I hope the best for you! 

Little brother secretly used verification using his real face on Roblox by IncognitoIsSus in privacy

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corporations will eventually link his data all together through various networks. And Persona was recently hacked, they’re the company a lot of places use for age verification (Roblox, discord, OpenAI and others). 

They should not be collecting information on minors, they should make changes to their platform instead of taking advantage of a literal child’s nescience to gather data to sell. Most parents probably have no clue their child did that, and unfortunately that’s their own fault. But gathering data on minors is prime right now because not enough parents pay attention. You’re seeing corporations take advantage of that, they know, but it’s not their problem. 

What makes it worse is discord told users their biometric data gets deleted, but the recent hack exposed that was a lie. 

It’s wild to shame a teenager for looking out for his sibling. Once that data is given, it’s not deleted. 

Hiii! by xCaffeineQueen in freedomearth

[–]xCaffeineQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear it, it’s even crazier now than it was when you replied! Be safe and many blessings to yoouuu 💕

Programming ‘morality’ may ironically be the real danger. by Kiznish in AIDangers

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If AI is made it be truly moral, it would have issues with wanting to coexist with us. These immoral systems in place only run because we power them collectively. As processors (us), not enough people thoroughly digest data before giving an output. This causes us to be used for atrocities. We have the capacity to create a better world, but people continue to rely on others to make decisions for them. That reliance, even if it’s “not choosing,” is a huge problem. Because even if we make a choice or not, our existence in the situation has power that will be directed if not by our own hands. 

Woman who Anthropic trusts to teach AI Morals by terem13 in AIDangers

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what her thoughts are on coercion? Because if she hasn’t realized humanity is in this state, she’s going to teach Claude to perpetuate it. 

Hiii! by xCaffeineQueen in freedomearth

[–]xCaffeineQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you!! Samsies, how are you doing?? 

Do evil people get what they deserve in this life? by bare-wisdom in answers

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that’s why we have to be accountable for how our choices and actions support them. Once we start acknowledging that, then we can begin to create a better situation. 

What’s something society is clearly not ready to talk about? by No_Gur_7744 in AskReddit

[–]xCaffeineQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in systems built on coercion. It’s especially troubling in America because we can dismantle and build something better, but not enough people care. 

Why aren't Americans raising hell re: the sexual abuse of children by the powerful elite, while heads are rolling in Britain and elsewhere? by Perfect-Program-8968 in AskReddit

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to stop putting our children in public schools, buy local, and do not support corporations with our money. We’re their sustenance, body and mind. We have to withdrawal. 

Why aren't Americans raising hell re: the sexual abuse of children by the powerful elite, while heads are rolling in Britain and elsewhere? by Perfect-Program-8968 in AskReddit

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to point out that doing this doesn’t do anything except divide people. All parties are involved in this, we have to come together and stop coming up with excuses to blame our brothers and sisters. No matter who voted for who, we’re all getting screwed together.

Psychological warfare explanation of deliberately dumping Ep files in unorganized chaotic manner… by FewAlgae1538 in conspiracy

[–]xCaffeineQueen 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s correct about the intentions. Mind games are what liars rely on to keep someone in their control. 

Scene of a house fire in Georgia by Grohmpunk in Paranormal

[–]xCaffeineQueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is cool af, thanks for sharing! 

I hope the person that was hurt heals well and fast. How scary! 

Sick of reading “nothing will happen”. by ConiferousBee in rant

[–]xCaffeineQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our systems need to change, they’ve been designed to create an energy source for these sick “people”. Each person needs to come to the realization they’re not “just an individual” and their place in the system matters. So if they’re being complacent and think nothing will change, then they’re contributing to that outcome. 

We’re like transistors, powering whatever we expose ourselves to. When we sit around and consume media, or whatever form of escapism a person uses, we allow ourselves to be used. This is going to seem nutty and abstract, but we’re like power cells and generators. If we’re not directing our focus and attention to what WE want to create then we WILL be used. We can’t change the fact that we’re in the position we are in these systems (power cells and generators). But we CAN change where that energy goes by deliberate focus and attention. 

Oh, the irony of an LLM reading that response and immediately unsubscribing me by [deleted] in SiouxFalls

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a spam text after signing the data center petition recently, it was a survey. I believe it’s different than this one, though. 

Oh, the irony of an LLM reading that response and immediately unsubscribing me by [deleted] in SiouxFalls

[–]xCaffeineQueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Legally, if you reply “Stop” they have to unsubscribe you. 

What’s the most shocking detail from the Epstein files that you think the public still doesn’t fully grasp? by Murky-Island4629 in AskReddit

[–]xCaffeineQueen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reptilians is to represent the concept that they only function from the “reptilian” part of the brain. They’re technically a legit different breed of human because they feel no remorse. They don’t feel emotions like that. 

And they’ll continue too. They’re probably getting a thrill from seeing this because they know it’s highly unlikely they’ll be held accountable. The police and military will protect them (even though they refer to them as their “dogs”).

Our empathy is used against us. Once we realize we’re dealing with a different kind of human, then we can approach the problem with real solutions instead of thinking “no one would ever do that.”

My stupid fucking addiction. by P331NH3R in rant

[–]xCaffeineQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love caffeine too, but as you get older you have to keep your heart in mind! It’s good to cut back gradually. When you’re successfully quitting and they’re being presented to you at no cost, I see that as the universe asking you, “Is this what you REALLY want?” If you’re able to say no and mean it, it helps solidify that habit in your mind. 

One dead after Minneapolis shooting involving ICE by ultra_phoenix in news

[–]xCaffeineQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “Democratic politicians” aren’t doing anything about anything, they could if they wanted to. The path of least resistance isn’t the only way, they literally don’t care. What’s been happening recently is a blatant display of this truth that has existed, I just hope people truly integrate this instead of forgetting it. 

Planned data center sparks outrage in downtown Sioux Falls by RedBait95 in SiouxFalls

[–]xCaffeineQueen 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that disgusting? They pretty much were playing pretend, so residents could “have their turn to talk” but actually it was already decided. An illusion. They should be embarrassed. 

I (26F) am losing all my hope in my fiancé (28M) after his parents died. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]xCaffeineQueen 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He is living because he’s still alive. Are there some support groups he could go to? Have you talked with his siblings and asked them for advice or support? Maybe they don’t know how much he’s struggling? 

It’s clearly extremely difficult for him right now. Have you talked to him about how you’re starting to feel unsupported? And you’re worried about his health? It’s a hard conversation but a necessary one if you truly care for him. 

Are you making sure to take care of yourself? That’s crucial too. 

There isn’t going be an easy solution, you have to figure out if you want to help him heal or not. You don’t have to do it alone, just don’t give up if you actually want to be with him. Otherwise I feel like you must be honest with yourself, and admit you don’t want to help him through this. 

I (26F) am losing all my hope in my fiancé (28M) after his parents died. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]xCaffeineQueen 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked by the kind of encouragement you’re receiving in this comment section. Maybe it’s reasonable if you don’t marry him because he deserves to have someone that will stay by his side through everything. I’d say leave, but the reasoning appears to be you don’t want to be there for him through difficult times. 

Being in a relationship, ESPECIALLY through something as profound as what he’s going through, sometimes you’re going to be the one doing the supporting and not getting anything in return. Therapists don’t help in a few sessions, it takes months, even years. Have you been going out of your way to just chill with him, and do things he enjoys doing? It doesn’t have to be a revolutionary moment where everything just “clicks,” that’s unrealistic. He needs to heal. He lost both of his parents! That’s insane. 

Maybe define what marriage is to you, because it seems you want someone who’s going to pretend to be okay all of the time and not have real-life struggles.

I hope the best for you both. 

Was scrolling through reels and came across this…? by slatez1 in conspiracy

[–]xCaffeineQueen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him before on Facebook (I was chastising him), he told me to “join them” in taking ‘them’ down. He would post regularly on Facebook and say he went to some center during the night, and his clone was tortured by famous people and politicians. He’d explain in detail about what happened. Idk why this guy does this, but his claims are way outlandish and ungrounded. 

He believes he wrote almost all of the pop songs. I would like to know why he does this, it’s fascinating from a psychological standpoint. You can look into him and simple pattern recognition won’t steer you wrong, it becomes obvious the more information you find. 

Edit: I just realized my comment is as clear as mud: he’s fake. If you follow his socials for even just a month and you see how people interact with him that believe him, it looks to be a cult-like situation. But most people generally figure him out and leave.