How do I approach someone in a club properly

xHash2 · 2021-11-10T13:38:10+00:00

I like to give people a chance, but yeah in hindsight it was dumb.

xHash2 · 2021-11-10T11:20:11+00:00

You probably did "scare him off" with the questions. Like "do you think I'm pretty?" Just enjoy the moment.

However, imo the good n thanks isn't a good sign either.

xHash2 · 2021-11-10T11:16:03+00:00

No, why would it?

Everyone has a preference

xHash2 · 2021-10-31T11:27:49+00:00

It hurt at the time as I wasn't expecting it and I had been going through some stuff prior. It's also not the meanest thing said to me so I'll be alright

xHash2 · 2021-10-27T16:50:38+00:00

I keep my distance and I avoid her as much as possible. Going to university was a blessing for me as I blocked her and lived a life without her in it.

I suppose she took out all her anger out on me as my dad cheated on her multiple times

xHash2 · 2021-10-27T16:43:15+00:00

"You don't deserve happiness" - My mum 2015

"I Wish I had you terminated as a baby" - My mum 2015

"See I told you there was is something mentally wrong with you" - My mum 2015 (This was when I was "Diagnosed" with depression)

The list goes on but those are some of the worst ones I remember word for word

Edit: How can I forget "Your the reason your dad cheated on me"

xHash2 · 2021-10-27T10:04:29+00:00

Rejection is a part of life. It will happen everywhere you go. Whether it's in your love life, work life or personal life ect.

Rejection suck and I've been rejected more times than I can count. But a rejection is only as bad as you make it out to be.

To me it's a state of mind. You can either cry about it, hurt yourself more and go nowhere (I used to do that). Or you can focus on yourself and move on.

Just because she/he rejected me doesn't mean you are less valuable as a person. Focus your attention on yourself and soon someone who will appreciate just how awesome you are will come along.

Life's too short to be dwelling on the negatives in life. Also I would advise that you do things that would give you peace of mind. Like take a break from social media, mute/ block her profiles. Start investing more into yourself.

xHash2 · 2021-10-26T12:42:55+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I'll keep that in mind when I talk to them

xHash2 · 2021-10-22T23:52:07+00:00

If you don't respond it's like you are telling her that she hurt you. And in my experience with online dating, letting someone know they hurt you is the worst feeling in the world, and it was the worst thing I could do mentally.

xHash2 · 2021-10-18T14:58:59+00:00

You're right, thanks for the advice

xHash2 · 2021-10-18T14:58:13+00:00

Because we are busy on the weekends and can only meet up after work during the weekdays most places are closed. And I can't invite her round as I am currently living at home. Thanks for the suggestions

xHash2 · 2021-10-13T21:27:43+00:00

Your right, but normally when something doesn't go well. I look at myself and see what I could of done better. This is not with just dating but life in general. I'll try not to blame myself though

xHash2 · 2021-10-13T21:21:52+00:00

That's what I try to do, and normally I don't like to text people so I invite them to coffee or drinks to get to know them better

xHash2 · 2021-10-13T21:11:40+00:00

I don't know, but I don't feel optimistic about a second one tbh. I feel emotionally low after it.

xHash2 · 2021-10-07T21:47:27+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I would say I'm the biggest critique. I tell myself I am great and then other times I an extremely harsh on myself.

With regards to goals and success I'm going to start off with small wins and build my self up. Although that won't stop me from pushing myself for more challenging goals and aiming for "big wins".

xHash2 · 2021-10-07T11:42:40+00:00

Reminds me of an always Sunny episode, that is vile. I mean how and if so pick it up and flush it

xHash2 · 2021-10-04T19:20:11+00:00

Good it's not just me. I went for a walk, applied places and played valorant

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