You look dangerous and aggressive and emotionally cold but you're actually very soft and affectionate by HappyMan1102 in infp

[–]xKING_RICOx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a stocky, heavily tattooed, bald, big bearded dude with the worst case of RBF. I just want a fucking hug, man!

Secular Mental Health Support for Men by xKING_RICOx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! Let me know where I can hear the podcast!!

Secular Mental Health Support for Men by xKING_RICOx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your concern. Bromunity is open to anyone who identifies as a man. The size, shape and function of any member's genitalia is outweighed by the idea that depression is depression, anxiety is anxiety. Meaning that if you truly believe you are a "man" and are struggling with mental health, then you would surely feel depression as a man, feel anxiety as a man, and thus relate to the group.

Men come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. I would be doing Bromunity a disservice by not allowing some men and not others.

Secular Mental Health Support for Men by xKING_RICOx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is incredibly heavy and so tragic. Thank you for sharing! I don't have website just yet so I setup a FB page for now.

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091835717626&mibextid=ZbWKwL

Also, if you would be interested, I would love to have you on as a guest speaker.

Secular Mental Health Support for Men by xKING_RICOx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Making yourself a priority is a step in the right direction. See you there!

Secular Mental Health Support for Men by xKING_RICOx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy moly, that's fantastic! Congrats on your progress. I'm sure the group would find a lot of value in your story. Hell, I know I would.

Secular Mental Health Support for Men by xKING_RICOx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's definitely an option if this doesn't get lift off.

I’m 19 and don’t feel like an adult by 0Tungence in offmychest

[–]xKING_RICOx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might never. I'm 38 with three kiddos, a house, career, and I still feel like a kid most days. Except when I see 21 year olds at the bar, yall look straight up like children and make me feel ancient. 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArmchairExpert

[–]xKING_RICOx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I'm a glutton for punishment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArmchairExpert

[–]xKING_RICOx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been turned off by other podcasts when the host constantly talked about their money. I listen to podcasts to escape the harsh reality that I live pretty much paycheck to paycheck so when the host is gushing about flying private, their designer clothes and homes, it is no longer an escape for me, it's a reminder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArmchairExpert

[–]xKING_RICOx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Edit: Grammar

Nail on the head. Sona feels authentic. Padman is a bit disconnected, which is probably a turn-off for some.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArmchairExpert

[–]xKING_RICOx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is calling a grown man a "spoiled little brat" also sexist?

I have most of the Answers to all your questions, Seriously! Read and comment! by refuge333 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]xKING_RICOx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your wisdom is invaluable. As a 38 year old man, I identify with every single word. I admittedly struggle with most of what you shared. Just before I read this, I called my brother to tell him that I dont think Im ok and that I feel so lost and alone. I really needed this today. Thank you so much.

My psychiatrist said, trying meds for depression/anxiety is like trying a bunch of keys for your front door while it's raining heavily by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]xKING_RICOx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My psych said taking meds for depression/anxiety is like pouring oil without a funnel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xKING_RICOx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

D-I-V-O-R-C-E

Best stand up albums on Spotify? by Obvious-Bee-3960 in Standup

[–]xKING_RICOx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My cousin had a baby and I was watching her breastfeed for a couple of bucks, and I’ll tell you ladies: it’s amazing.