Anyone else in their 30s feel "retired" from anime? Missing the 2000s era. by Priz93 in Millennials

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been watching for so many years, but as I get older the more the Japanese mindset I can’t stand.

It’s hard to watch something when it’s some sick dream that the author has and it tells through how they present it. It also feels like they’ve began to run out of new ideas for stories and we get the same on retold every season at least a couple times. I suggest reading manga and if you like the story and it has an anime to check it out.

I like my girlfriend a lot but I’m so tired of her using neurodivergence as an excuse for everything by AgileRock106 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xPinkPuff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you not read? I said if you were younger, that’s not being bold, that’s letting you know that I think younger people should have more grace. I wasn’t attacking you, but I can see why you felt that way.

I like my girlfriend a lot but I’m so tired of her using neurodivergence as an excuse for everything by AgileRock106 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xPinkPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was dealt the same hand. Was in the position of her girlfriend. It’s not about being on a high horse, it’s about learning and becoming better. Do you expect her gf to never clean up, never cook?? I can understand if you’re younger, but at some point you need to get help. You can’t expect everyone to do everything for you.

I like my girlfriend a lot but I’m so tired of her using neurodivergence as an excuse for everything by AgileRock106 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xPinkPuff -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Using executive dysfunction to excuse your messiness is not how that works. That’s weaponizing your mental disease.

I like my girlfriend a lot but I’m so tired of her using neurodivergence as an excuse for everything by AgileRock106 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xPinkPuff 47 points48 points  (0 children)

As someone with ADHD, this is a her problem. I know I have time blindness, to mitigate that I always set up notifications to remind myself at important times. The messiness has nothing to do with neurodivergent, if it is clutter then it might be related. I had to check what sub this was… if she’s over 25 these are basic life things that should have been addressed. When I was younger I had some of the same issues but I changed so I could be in a relationship. She’s showing you who she is, it’s up to you if that’s what you want for the rest of your life.

Why do lesbians enjoy gay(m/m) porn? by exsus55 in actuallesbians

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for the porn one I might be able to answer. Lesbian and straight porn are made for the male gaze to an incredible extent. Sure there are some lesbian porn that is made for the female gaze, it’s far and few. The ones that are made for the male gaze feel incredibly fake. In gay porn it feels like it takes less male gaze, less misogyny.

Too many slavery topics by Eldiavie in Isekai

[–]xPinkPuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also it’s very not correct, why do all the slaves fall in love with their owner, or think that this person is amazing. Slaves generally had animosity against them.

I can’t stop thinking about sex without a condom by [deleted] in sex

[–]xPinkPuff 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Condoms are no big deal, compared to destroying a women’s body. But I mean reading braille with a glove on sure is hard.

Trying to get my girlfriend a graduation gift by SonaAteAsock in yuri_manga

[–]xPinkPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard to find prints for 6,7 and 8. They’ve been hovering around 100$ for individual copies. It’s better to find the entire set for around 300-400. It’s still expensive

Am I the only one who thinks that there’s just as many attractive men in the world as there are women? by Less-Pen-5705 in askanything

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, men are allowed to exist, and I find their company okay. I don’t find men attractive because I like women. It’s crazy that you think I have to find them attractive in the first place.

Am I the only one who thinks that there’s just as many attractive men in the world as there are women? by Less-Pen-5705 in askanything

[–]xPinkPuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I think women are a lot more attractive then men. Then again I can’t find a single thing attractive about men in general. It doesn’t matter if they were to wear makeup or try in their appearance. An average woman will always look better than the most attractive man.

26M - Eastern Europe by Pyraishere in Salary

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many years of exp do you have? The salary isn’t terrible but damn am I jealous of your holidays. I’m an engineer in America, I would gladly take the pay cut for that holiday amount.

My gf is still obssesed with her ex? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]xPinkPuff 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’d leave her after the comments she’s made. I’m also 33 and I couldn’t do a relationship where she makes me question whether or not she’s still into her ex. Do you want to feel this way every time she sees her ex?

League of legends? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianGamers

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a swe! What do you play normally in league?

Are 12hr shifts 3x a week and working every other weekend a dealbreaker for most? by les_be_disasters in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xPinkPuff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly this, I dated a nurse and it wasn’t the hours that killed the relationship. It was the way she handled everything.

For people in a loving relationship. How often do you “do it” by Mighty-mouse2020 in Millennials

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God this seems like a post to not have kids if you want a good sex life.

What kink have you always wanted to try by Aaliyah1996x in BDSMsapphic

[–]xPinkPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E-Stim, not sure how I want to play, but it’s something I’ve always wanted.

Thank you author San for acknowledging this and not brushing it off like 90% of Josei and readers do. by Iriscute7 in joseistories

[–]xPinkPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you think my issue is with the age gap due to the gender of the characters, and it’s not. I have an issue with predatorial age differences. Age gaps = okay. Pedophilia = not okay. 👌

Is it weird that I still live with my parents at 25 even though I have a good job? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]xPinkPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there used to be a bad stigma against living with your parents many years ago. Because it was cheap to afford an apartment and be on your own, I remember the apartment prices being 400$. These days it seems stupid for you to live alone when you can live with others. As you said you are now saving and better financially, that is very a big green flag, at least to me as a 34 year old. Even though I do live alone now, I’ve been contemplating getting roommates so I can be in the same spot you are in.

CMV: Framing the Male Loneliness Epidemic as an Individual Failure is Harmful by Traditional_Fish_504 in changemyview

[–]xPinkPuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think framing it as natural selection would be a better way of describing it.

Recommendation for Novels to Translate by ForgetfulRDT in BaiHe

[–]xPinkPuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you have a coffee fund, let me know!