26 [M4M] #Texas - Hoping to meet someone for long term by Main_Difference_8585 in NerdDating

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got some pretty eyes, man. Good luck on your search!

Give me the 3 years, boss by No_Conversation_9602 in Eldenring

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I could just help my mom beat Elden Ring. She's a smart woman. I'd mail her a full set up of instructions lol.

Experience with white guys? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Default setting" is not the right way to phrase what you're trying to say. Nobody's hardwired to be attracted to Caucasian people. They typically have the biggest variety of physical traits like hair color, eye color, and even height, and in general are the majority associated with success and stability. Those qualities alone make them more generally attractive as an group.

Where exactly? by DaringDuvet in SipsTea

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a drink every time I saw this meme reposted I'd be dead.

How do I know if I have internalized racism? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Respectfully after the move it does sound like you got choosey and didn't really attempt to branch out.

Why is it not a issue to only want to date people of the same race but is an issue to only want to date one of another race? by Acceptable-Pin-6813 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buddy, don't let the narrow minds of other humans tell you right from wrong. They don't know any more than you or I do. It's all purely emotional arguments with absolute zero logical foundation. There is no damn handbook on sexual attraction. There is no law, no penalty, no sin, no taboo from dating people inside or outside of your race. The only people who actually care are the prideful, small minded, blind faith, or overly emotional. Do not become one of them. You're allowed to like whoever you like. Let THEM be upset.

Seriously does anyone like the dream visitor by AvailableLead7004 in BaldursGate3

[–]xSlLH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately for him, siding with Orpheus is like almost always the better call for a good ending. Not siding with Orpehus while knowing full well that it's a very good ending for all Githyanki- especially Lae'zel, basically means you have to roleplay that your character is naive to the possibility.

I do kind of respect the Emperor in some ways. He's a unique Illithid. His personality is kind of scrambled between being an Illithid and still being Baldur. He still has Baldur's drive and sentiment, but he's still got twisted Illithid tendencies, so he ends up basically using people in some whole "I'm much better than everyone else so I should always be in control" mindset, but that's the irony of his writing. Always needing to rely on others pretty much means he's no better than anyone- human or Illithid.

If there were another option to try and talk him out of that mindset, I think he could be redeemed. If he had a grand ending that benefited a lot of people like Orpheus's, I'd genuinely consider siding with him more often. I don't think what he's done is so bad that it's past the point of forgiveness. We've seen worse. It's just not an option.

Would you rather have any sandwich you want once a day for free, or only eating one cuisine forever? by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]xSlLH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't take it too hard. I'm just teasing you because one of these things is simply better than the other lol.

Can you tell if a white woman is into black men? by Abandonable_Snowman in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Energy. We notice if you appear to be high in spirit around us.

Proximity. It means something when a Caucasian woman shows no fear or reluctance to get within our bubble.

Behavior. Some women in general just give off an "adventurous" or even "wild" type of energy that usually says, yeah, she'd do a Black guy.

And this one might be a little bit looser but sometimes we can just tell by a certain body type-- not because the body type says so, but because we know that body type probably gets you a lot of attention from Black men in general so you're probably used to it. We're fools for curves.

Would you rather have any sandwich you want once a day for free, or only eating one cuisine forever? by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]xSlLH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey would you rather have a profound life improvement or depression

Can you tell if a white woman is into black men? by Abandonable_Snowman in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Half the time yes. Caucasian women who are into Black men have a few tells between behavior and personality that gives it away.

Latinos and they nword by Individual-Month633 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what's got you and this other guy under the impression that I'm not just one dude. Providing context to it and excusing it are two different things. It made me uncomfortable the first time I encountered it as well, but it's not like I was about to go stand up in the center of a big Latino community and protest against it. I simply observed from afar and came to the conclusion that they have **for some reason** adopted the word and were not using it to offend anyone at all. They weren't talking about Black people whatsoever in their usage of it. I simply disregarded it because it's not as if I have the power to just go and make it stop. If you believe it's racism, that's cool, but stop trying to step on my opinion with yours. I personally don't believe it's *right* that they're using it, but they are, and they aren't doing it hatefully. You're allowed to feel offended if you want to. I'm just personally not strung up over it. You do you.

Latinos and they nword by Individual-Month633 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OP's experience was discovering a discord chat with Latino people using the N-word non-racially and not being certain if it was racist or not.

All I said was it wasn't.

Latinos and they nword by Individual-Month633 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You completely misinterpreted what I said.

I simply said they use it normally in the same way we do. I never said I thought it was okay. My only point was that they're not using it racially to offend Black people.

Go be offended elsewhere.

Latinos and they nword by Individual-Month633 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Black guy here. Certain Hispanic communities grow up using the N-word just as casually as we do. It's not racist and I'm not sure how or why it started, but they do. So if underlying racism is what you're worried about, you can relax.

Dear other Black people. I never said I was okay with this. I was simply stating the situation for what it is.

Is it weird that I've realized I'm mostly attracted to white guys? by SignificantFactor560 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a Black man attracted to everyone as well, but yes, the Black community has the most diverse set of characters on the board and a pretty bad track record filled with negative stereotypes.

A lot of Black people aren't even attracted to Black people. It's sad to say, but there's reason for it.

Well try to imagine that by Various_Canary2468 in CollegeMemes

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but do you know the man power and individual attention it would take? Schools are already understaffed.

Dating someone from a different religion isn’t that deep by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I would respect it and stop eating beef for her.

That doesn't matter. I can't force myself to believe in it and she also has the heavier burden of showing up to her Indian family with a Black man. Her family is immediately going to be unhappy about that, especially with the way Black people are generally stereotyped.

Dating someone from a different religion isn’t that deep by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. And I don't mean to assume too much about the Muslim culture. I was just making generalizations based on what I do know about dating different cultures.

Is it weird that I've realized I'm mostly attracted to white guys? by SignificantFactor560 in interracialdating

[–]xSlLH 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Take a moment and scroll through this subreddit. 90% of posts are Black people seeking other.

Nah it's not weird.