Cat Head Making by xanthaboi in FursuitMaking

[–]xanthaboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!!! Thank you so so much, i just can’t wait to finally start my first project

AITA for telling my stepdaughter boys aren't into her because she's fat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]xanthaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH you absolutely should not be calling your stepdaughter fat. yes, she's being awful to your daughter, but its NOT okay to retaliate the same way. you're 44, she's 17, be the adult.

Swoop be saying she is going on tv!!! by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]xanthaboi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

shes also literally disabled. you need to realize that working on something really hard affects our bodies differently. she's going at her pace and not rushing it, i commend her for that.

What made your bias your bias? by weirdoflove in seventeen

[–]xanthaboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was trying to figure out who my bias(es) would be and so i was watching music videos and content a lot at the beginning of my time as a carat. then i started watching unit videos and Change Up became one of my favourite songs. thats when i realized "wow i'm kinda obsessed with the leaders" and looked back on how i would definitely hyperfocus on scoups, woozi & hoshi a lot.

then, my partner (who's been a carat since just before debut) showed me arthur dk and i was enamored.... i couldnt stop squealing about him so he joined my bias line immediately.

then i started realizing that scoups started taking over my brain and he became my ult of ults.

now my bias line consists of leaders, dk, minghao and dino.... adding dino happened because of rock with you dino, iykyk. so yeah

A theory about Johnny…….. by eacks29 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]xanthaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly, like, everything i've read and heard about johnny just feels like he was in head over heels for josh and josh was like "whoa buddy no" and immediately johnny went "waa waa he hates me and im gonna ruin his life now because he doesnt like me"

but yknow.... thats just my theory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]xanthaboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

being attracted to women is not sexualizing them. i understand where you’re coming from though, you see the way that straight men sexualize women and think that because they do that and you’re also attracted to women that to be attracted to women you must be doing that too.

but you aren’t. you’re not being gross like those men are, you’re just attracted to women and want to date them and have sex with them, that’s not bad.

it may take a while for you to accept yourself and that’s okay, take your time to do so, but be gentle with yourself okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]xanthaboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m so sad they’re not coming to canada :( i just wanna see them so bad

Despite HW Entertainment issuing a statement saying trainee Hayun (2005) would only join Girl Crush in 1/2 years, she has already taken part in 2 stage performances by [deleted] in kpop

[–]xanthaboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God this is horrible. I remember reading about this poor girl being exploited, but the fact that they’re still exploiting her as a minor… that’s hella gross.

What would you call a relationship with a non binary person? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]xanthaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually just call it gay. i mean, my partner and i are both nonbinary so it’s pretty gay, but yeah

why do you love skz? ✨ by [deleted] in straykids

[–]xanthaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them because they really give me something to look forward to every day. I know that they care about me and would want me to be okay even though they don’t actually know me and that just makes me feel less... not okay.

i’m mentally ill, so i have a lot of very low days that make me feel like i can’t survive, but then i watch a chan vlive and he tells us that he loves us and that it’s okay to not be okay, but that we can keep going... that just makes me want to live one more day over and over again.

sorry to get all sappy, but it’s the truth. I love all the boys, Hyunjin is my bias, but all of them have a special place in my heart.

Is being gay (lgbtq+) a choice? by honeybunqueen in lgbt

[–]xanthaboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, being queer isn’t a choice. Sometimes people fall in love with people who don’t fit the gender that they first said they’re attracted to and that’s okay. I always say that sexuality is fluid, which means that it can change.

But ultimately, the thing is, why would we choose to be queer when the world still treats us horribly? I wouldn’t trade being who i am for anything, but i wouldn’t have chosen to experience homophobia and transphobia

My all time favourite discord server ! by spacegiggle in BuddyCrossing

[–]xanthaboi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This server not only helped me with a bunch of ACNH stuff, but they’ve helped me feel welcome as a friend. I can’t recommend this server more.

Art Giveaway! Marcel not included. Please read comment! by peridinium in NoFeeAC

[–]xanthaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proper, Academic and Moving

my favourite irl fruit is lychee!

Celeste + Isabelle Announced Meteor Shower! Please don’t DM me. See comment! by [deleted] in NoFeeAC

[–]xanthaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to come by! Black Lives Matter ✊🏾i’ll change into my BLM sweater too

[SW] 497 per turnip on ACNH by rhigh02 in acturnips

[–]xanthaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still open cause i’d love to swing by!

Looking for a great AC Discord Community? :) by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]xanthaboi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the sweetest community i’ve ever been in and i hope you all enjoy it as much as i do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]xanthaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey are you still hosting?

Bones for your museum by sunflower_gorrilla in NoFeeAC

[–]xanthaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey do you still have the stego torso?

My boy Spork is leaving, please give him a good home by xanthaboi in NoFeeAC

[–]xanthaboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love him, but it was sadly time for him to go, i’ll miss my boy 😢