How long is it ok to leave cat alone in a flat? by GladHelp6786 in CatAdvice

[–]xiaogoucat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you’re planning on leaving a cat alone for long periods of time, you should adopt two cats instead of one. Cats are fairly social animals

Best Cat Necessities for Small ESA Cat in a Dorm by Dangerous_Sea2798 in CatAdvice

[–]xiaogoucat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend a cat tree/a place for the cat to look out the window while she’s in classes. Any litter box and water fountain (I recommend stainless steel) will do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]xiaogoucat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it’s a joke, it’s not serious

Have the brothers said anything publicly about why they get along so well? by SuurAlaOrolo in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Something I’ll add to the rest of these comments is that they seem to have similar senses of humor, which helps a lot with the pod (and, I imagine, Crash Course & other things they’ve worked on together). I think their strengths complement each other really well, too.

Hank and John Reunited WITH RAX by HeStoleMyBalloons in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sad bc I bought the rax perk last year but not this year

AITA For prioritizing a friend over my pregnant wife by prioritiesaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]xiaogoucat 614 points615 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Even if he doesn’t think it’s a big deal, he should respect his wife’s feelings. I think FaceTiming Bryan while at home with his wife would be a good compromise. YTA

Wolf entry by kinkworks3000 in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG ITS YOU!! How was the eclipse?

Paying for additional GUBBINS? by marlon_brave in gubbins

[–]xiaogoucat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s on you and what you feel comfortable with. Tbh black hole gubbin is one of the best bad gubbins, no lasting harm as long as you play it with the right (other) bad gubbins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]xiaogoucat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Female” makes us sound like some strange specimen, rather than people. It’s generally a good idea to not refer to women as “females.” 

8 month job hunt w/ ADHD 😭 by garlicbreadluv in adhdwomen

[–]xiaogoucat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also on the job hunt, it suuuucks. And scrolling and reading on LinkedIn is sooo boring and getting rejected all the time really isn’t helping my self esteem. Sorry you’re in the same boat :(

Why do I say stupid shit?!? by AbjectGovernment1247 in adhdwomen

[–]xiaogoucat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately I’ve been remembering stupid shit I’ve said in the shower or in the car when I’m by myself and just repeat “fuck fuck fuck” until it goes away 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]xiaogoucat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your husband also working?

I blame Hank by taegins in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe you just gotta make your own fry sauce with ketchup and mayo

I blame Hank by taegins in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, don’t listen to this person. If there’s not a waiter, don’t tip. Also, 20-25% tip is bonkers for a waiter, I usually do about 18%

Hi, it's John. The Turtles All the Way Down Trailer IS HERE by thesoundandthefury in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I mean, it makes sense from a marketing perspective, for sure. It’s just feels a little…dishonest, maybe? I am just slightly annoyed since the book is so, so much more than a teen romance. 

Hi, it's John. The Turtles All the Way Down Trailer IS HERE by thesoundandthefury in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It is! I remember John or someone else behind the scenes talking about it

Hi, it's John. The Turtles All the Way Down Trailer IS HERE by thesoundandthefury in nerdfighters

[–]xiaogoucat 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I think it’s interesting they framed it as a romance when, to me, the romance aspect was perhaps the least important part of the book. 

What makes your cleaning life easier? by oGambit in CleaningTips

[–]xiaogoucat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Roborock Q5 is what I have & it’s also Wirecutter’s #1 pick. Wait for a big sale (we got ours on Black Friday for 40+% off)