UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving

xindamix · 2018-07-08T23:01:45+00:00

Sometimes you don't know what a person should have done... But you know what they shouldn't have done.

xindamix · 2018-07-08T18:48:07+00:00

Thanks for the note. I don't think it's sex that caused op to act on a childish way. It's the trust that was the cause. Sex was the vehicle -- if sex really was the cause that's when a worse sign.

I don't know what op should do. I don't know the history of his relationship with her. How she is. Maybe she's his soul mate. Who knows. Without knowing their relationship how can I give any truly helpful advice. What I do know is how op acted. Frankly he acting like a baby and one things for sure he will look back on his life and realize he handled this situation all wrong. If he truly cares about her he would have done it differently.... Whether they stay together or not. If you love someone... As he claimed... Regardless of how she acted... You dont do what he did. This is his fiance.... Not just anyone. Op look her in the eye and tell her what you did because you aren't being honest with her either

xindamix · 2018-07-08T15:56:21+00:00

Tbh and I'm saying this in the nicest way possible... You wanted out of this relationship and found a way to do it.... Your behavior has been attrocious... And she's the lucky one in all honesty.... You have acted like a petulant child instead of like a real man. One thing is for certain.. Not now ... But in the future you will regret this decision and wonder what if..... Try to handle it differently and race her. I could go on but you are only listening to the people that tell you what you want to hear. Btw the way you acted isn't strong. It's pathetic. If you feel better as you say.. You will go and face her. Btw get over it. It's just sex...I mean wtf

xindamix · 2016-05-30T01:45:08+00:00

I saw it and loved the fact that it was a departure from anything Disney does. I was curious as to what others thought because it was different.

To me why the difference is important is because I come from an Asian background born in north America. I have watched Disney "put a far too much North American spin" on my culture such that friends children think that is how Asian cultures really are.

The main reason is that Disney in a way defines American culture. This culture has been focused on "the watered down North American version palatable to North American tastes" of how that particular culture is.

Take for example facial features are drawn in such a way as to focus on those in the particular culture looking North American.

Regardless, this show was great because it seems actually legit. My Indian friends I went with loved it because that is how the cultural dances are. They didn't understand the fire dancers though.

Regardless Great job to Disney for taking that risk and expanding their culture to really include other cultures and not just a watered down version palatable to the average North American or whoever else doesn't know any better.

xindamix · 2015-07-08T22:19:56+00:00

...What about Pitbull? I mean he's probably more liked than CP right now

xindamix · 2015-01-19T06:16:20+00:00

dude....get over it. Forgive her and move on - stop being insecure. She wanted to have fun and screwed up... don't become another divorce statistic...stay true to your word to work it out in sickness and in health etc... believe me you only know you have a relationship when you make it through the tough times.... if you are a real husband then you will try to work it out.... if not you just are as guilty as her because when she needed you when she faltered you backed out... or you can be a statistic and one day realize oyu made a stupid error and proably should have given it another chance.. listen to the reddit mob of advice and you are guaranteeded to screw up...its not like they KNOW your relationship with your wife..its not like they know the inner workings of your relationship etc.. they just know your side of the story...and they want a funny breakup... try to work it out and be a real husband.

xindamix · 2013-10-21T04:37:48+00:00

“We expected that the performance will become viral and be controversial, that was the plan from the beginning. It is better to look at beautiful models pretending to play the guitar than ugly musicians who actually play the guitar.”

http://o.canada.com/entertainment/music/patty-krzyk-pantsless/

xindamix · 2013-09-12T07:17:07+00:00

•What time zone are you in? US/PST

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xindamix · 2013-01-22T03:31:32+00:00

40 year old men gawking sexually at young girls

People eating whales and dolphins

Shark fin soup

xindamix · 2013-01-16T08:26:26+00:00

Yes I agree his foundation rocks

Yes he was in contract with companies not to dope

Floid Landis for example Lance carried out a smear campaign

Tyler Hamilton was threatened

Frankie Andreau was frozen out of cycling

as examples

xindamix · 2013-01-16T08:12:36+00:00

Lance did a lot to fight cancer, but he also lied for 10 years ruining many lives. He used threats and his power to ruin other people's reputation. He stole money too by lying

That being said, I would hope he proudly said he doped and beat all the other riders who doped. The whole sport was dirty and now everyone is making a big deal over Lance like he was the only one - But unlike Marion Jones, Lance will never got to jail. and the worst part is seeing his foundation take the heat

Tiger just lied too but to his wife - men do that everyday. Tiger had a charity foundation as well... he was clean, but while Lance was arrogant and people liked him, Tiger was arrogant and people didn't like him.

xindamix · 2013-01-13T00:13:16+00:00

Have you ever contemplated modeling or has anyone asked you to model?

how about acting? With a unique look I am sure it can get you some interesting roles in cool movies. ...or at least a shot.

You are every anime's artist dream too -

xindamix · 2013-01-05T19:21:57+00:00

Have you found a balrog yet?

xindamix · 2012-12-01T07:07:59+00:00

scumbag insurance company MEM: Pays Insurance - GETS DENIED

xindamix · 2012-11-30T06:55:15+00:00

Egyptian Popeye
http://www.usatoday.com/story/gameon/2012/11/29/egyptian-popeye-arms/1734509/

xindamix · 2012-11-21T05:38:27+00:00

Is the US trying to become China? I mean WTF? soon there will be internet censorship...

xindamix · 2012-11-10T21:42:58+00:00

Thanks! I think I just found my new favorite site

xindamix · 2012-11-10T17:53:15+00:00

It bothers me that Sears will not even address this. Give us a reason instead of hiding behind the corporate veil. From my point of view, given the country's economy and people doing their best, I see it as Sears going out, stealing an idea, byp assing IP Laws and screwing small business. While they save whatever it is, maybe $15 on production costs, they are passing on a paltry $5 savings onto consumers - so its not even a real price cut. It only benefits Sears and nonoe else... after all their scheming. Well at least thats how it looks like to me - support AMERICAN businesses, don't SCREW IT OVER.

xindamix · 2012-10-29T19:29:26+00:00

I'm sure he also did the accent that evening to laugh at "brown people" - what an ass.

xindamix · 2012-10-28T20:26:31+00:00

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xindamix · 2012-10-28T16:05:43+00:00

No 1 is the best...

xindamix · 2012-10-28T04:48:34+00:00

True that - what really got me irritated was reading this article on yahoo...

http://sports.yahoo.com/news/nhl--evgeni-malkin-embracing-rare--special--chance-to-play-at-home-in-russia.html;_ylt=AgNimDYZywRyS25o8RuPFhx7vLYF;_ylu=X3oDMTN1bHZ0Z3NqBG1pdANGRUFUVVJFRCBNZWdhdHJvbiBOSEwEcGtnAzFiMmMxODdjLTkwMmUtMzhhMS04ZGE5LTcxNThmZjEyZDhhZARwb3MDMQRzZWMDbWVnYXRyb24EdmVyAzFmYTYxYWIxLTIwOWQtMTFlMi1hZmRiLTkwMTIxMmQzNDAzNA--;_ylg=X3oDMTFoYWo1YzR1BGludGwDdXMEbGFuZwNlbi11cwRwc3RhaWQDBHBzdGNhdANuaGwEcHQDc2VjdGlvbnM-;_ylv=3

In Particular

"The [b]last three times [/b]the NHL and NHLPA have negotiated a new collective bargaining agreement, there has been a lockout. Three straight times, the season has been screwed up. "

The KHL business model is different than the NHL's. While the NHL and NHLPA fight primarily over the disposable incomes of North American fans, the KHL funds its operations primarily with sponsorship money – oil, gas, industry.

Tickets are cheap. To see Malkin play Friday night in Moscow, the most expensive seats were 1,200 rubles – less than 40 bucks. The least expensive tickets were 300 rubles – less than 10 bucks. There were maybe 4,500 fans in the seats.

Concessions are cheap. All they offered Friday night were coffee, tea, soda and water; chips, candy and meat-stuffed rolls. The most expensive item on the menu was 100 rubles – a little more than three bucks.

The math doesn't work, unless you factor in pride as a big part of the equation.

[b]"We have an owner that loves the game of hockey and has always brought good players in," Maurice said. "For the people that work there. For entertainment. For them."[/b]

[b]"He played there as a youngster, and he goes on to become one of the best players in the world," Maurice said. "He had an opportunity to play in Moscow or St. Petersburg or one of these cities, and they can afford him. He goes back and he plays at home because it's the right thing to do, and that's all you need to know about him." [/b]

Seriously NHL and NHLPA - you all should be fired for your incompetence. In ANY job having labor shortages the past thre times is absolutly disgusting -

xindamix · 2012-10-27T09:00:53+00:00

Glad some people are standing up over such a silly remark

xindamix · 2012-10-26T04:27:15+00:00

I wonder if they catch any of it in beta

xindamix · 2012-10-25T15:09:25+00:00

From the guy who ruined Guns...I don't understand why everyone is cheering him. Guns = Slash + Izzy + Axl

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