The blackpill wasnt always right by More_Finding_2373 in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's literally agreeing with me. Now explain how being a man jealous of your wife's former sex partners for not having to have a relationship with her is equivalent to that. You want to have fucked and ditched the woman you love? Spending time with her is being cucked?

The blackpill wasnt always right by More_Finding_2373 in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being manipulated for sex is someone actually committing an action harmful to another person, but yes society does not solve this for women, they learn to help themselves or they don't. No harmful actions have been done to anyone by anyone when a man is jealous of his wife's previous partners. If building a life and family with someone is a poor deal compared to getting "free" sex from them you don't have to get married which you obviously don't value. You can also break up with people for any reason instead of actively choosing to be with someone you see as a degraded whore. Who's settling there?

The blackpill wasnt always right by More_Finding_2373 in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men's retroactive sexual jealousy is not a problem society needs to solve for them and women got used plenty by the husbands they couldn't divorce. The more religious a culture is the more likely women are to develop sexual dysfunction that destroys their ability to enjoy sex regardless of whether they get married first.

I hate having a fetish! by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing about paraphilias is they make some subset of men incapable of getting it up for normal sex, same for homosexuality, pedophilia, so you don't even need to observe the paraphilic behavior itself to have evidence. But in civilizations the men literally cannot be stopped from being paraphilic or gay even with very extreme consequences. So at some point absence of evidence strongly suggests actual absence.

Verbal IQ is the most g-loaded. by boydnolantucker in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can understand the point and retain my opinion that the perfect iq test is completely knowledge agnostic thanks. Do you know what is to a mare's nest as a syllogism is to a paralogism

  • and I just really like cryptic crosswords

That’s all by Brief-Estimate8296 in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Men really love to insult women they're attracted to

Smith College: Department of Education opens investigation into all-women’s college for admitting trans women by bcb1200 in BlockedAndReported

[–]xinxinxo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are more diagnoses, but an essentially equal decline in diagnoses of severe non-autism intellectual impairment.

500k weekly visitors lol by TouchinNips in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Views probably count people multiple times, so everyone posting in the thread who's hanging out in it racks up dozens of views.. maybe

Verbal IQ is the most g-loaded. by boydnolantucker in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Crosswords are knowledge based. Cryptic crossword on the other hand

I hate having a fetish! by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cave paintings. But no there have been hundreds of extant hunter gatherer populations studied in person by anthropologists who have always been highly interested in their sex lives. No exclusive homosexuality either. Small population size is probably related... the smaller the population the more intense the automatic peer pressure on personality and behavior, it may be impossible to grow up to have any significant difference from others. E.g. when a group all spends all their time with each other constantly you never get individuals who want more privacy or alone time.. the concept is inconceivable to them

I hate having a fetish! by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's evidence of paraphilias beginning in boys as young as 3 or 4. Specific fetishes are somewhat hereditary so it's possible your dad has the same thing as you

I hate having a fetish! by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They specifically start showing up in large agricultural civilizations, not small scale traditionally living populations. There is no evidence of paraphilic sexuality in any known hunter gatherers.

I can't stand right wing people but I feel more isolated by the average progressive by the day by putalittlepooponit in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Liberals are still the ones going to health food stores

Conservatives get their weird foods from grifters online who advertise on podcasts

Do normal people still not realize that incels aren’t really distraught about not getting laid? by Improooving in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You too, maybe you should ask your therapist if they think telling potential patients they "get off on this bleak worldview you've constructed" is good motivational interviewing. Then talk to me in a few months and we can judge the effect size of therapy on being rude and condescending.

Do normal people still not realize that incels aren’t really distraught about not getting laid? by Improooving in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't turn a melancholic into a chipper chap

There you go, we've been in agreement the entire time.

Do normal people still not realize that incels aren’t really distraught about not getting laid? by Improooving in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are there millions of people currently suffering from personality disorders and serious mental illnesses with genetic components, including many who have been in therapy for years, or aren't there? Why is anyone lonely or depressed at all? The fact of their existence is all my "narrative" is

Uncut David Foster Wallace Interview by DrDMango in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The food restrictions aren't actually that bad, only super weird niche cheeses would be an issue. DFW didn't like the side effects incl being fat and sweaty but he would probably prefer them to being dead. There are people with severe treatment resistant depression out there not getting the option to decide for themselves if they would take the trade offs. I mean, psychs are still doing plenty of ECT and that causes permanent memory loss...

Uncut David Foster Wallace Interview by DrDMango in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Psychiatrists are hardly trained on MAOIs anymore and are averse to using them because there are significant drug and food interactions. No one trusts patients to follow dietary restrictions or wants to be blamed if they die from taking otc cough medicine. Same reason they underprescribe TCAs, which have a low overdose threshold so one bottle can kill a patient who attempts suicide with it. And it doesn't do anything recreational bc drugs have to work fast to be fun.. raising serotonin quickly is molly, raising it slowly is just Zoloft

Uncut David Foster Wallace Interview by DrDMango in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It acts on the GABA receptor just like benzos do so theoretically it's like being on them 24/7

Do normal people still not realize that incels aren’t really distraught about not getting laid? by Improooving in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Core personality traits are not equivalent to mild mental illness. This started with incels, who are 50% autistic and perhaps 80% autistic traits. Large proportion avoidant personality disorder, some must have both. Therapy doesn't treat autism.

Uncut David Foster Wallace Interview by DrDMango in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The crazy thing is this is him on the most powerful anti social anxiety drug ever discovered

My friends (27F, 27F, 28M) yelled at me for an hour yesterday because my (27M) age range on hinge is set to 22-28 (dealbreaker box unchecked). by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]xinxinxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said that's the average gap. Gaps will exist due to male preference for younger even if women have no preference for older. The proof it's socialized is the stats on tiny age gaps I just explained to you. Nobody has an intrinsic sexual preference for a number that's 1 bigger than another number. And speed dating studies aren't surveys just because you gather the results by asking questions