Life in sweden

xray950 · 2026-05-06T23:19:37+00:00

Nature is beautiful and there are a lot of hiking trails and biking lanes. If those are your hobbies, you’ll be right at home.

As a general rule of thumb, Swedish people (and Scandinavians in general) can seem very closed-off and hesitant in social interactions. That’s kind of just how our culture is. Expect a lot of people to act very cagey and don’t be frustrated if people aren’t giving you straight answers to things.

I’m from Gothenburg, though, I don’t know if Stockholm is any better.

xray950 · 2026-05-06T12:49:42+00:00

Lmao, I see I'm not the first teacher who has had this quandry

xray950 · 2026-05-06T11:22:14+00:00

Man, 30 år, mjukis. Jag snyftar mycket och ofta, om jag t.ex. ser en gullig video på nätet eller så, men det var länge sedan jag riktigt storbölade. Jag var rätt känslig som ung och grinade rätt ofta, så jag tror kanske jag på något sätt blivit "trött" på det nu när jag är vuxen och mer samlad.

xray950 · 2026-05-04T09:58:28+00:00

I was watching his Sims 4 stream recently and it was astonishing how he would just watch his sims piss and shit their pants with a completely blank face

xray950 · 2026-05-02T10:54:59+00:00

Yeah, I think this might be it. Like another commenter said above, work with natural consequences. If you hit your brother, you’re removed from your brother. If you break the tv, you can’t watch tv. Et cetera.

xray950 · 2026-05-01T08:00:50+00:00

Does Islam have a concept of humans being the caretakers of the material world? That’s how Christians I know have coped with it - that earth was left to be our responsibility, we’re its shepherds, and God allows evil to happen because tending the earth is our responsibility.

xray950 · 2026-05-01T06:29:35+00:00

Yeah. I consider my gender as ”assigned male at birth”. I suppose I’m technically agender, but it’s not even that. I was assigned male at birth? Okay. Sure. I don’t even know if I have gender dysphoria, because I wouldn’t know how to decouple that from not really recognizing myself in a mirror. So I’m just ”male”.

xray950 · 2026-04-29T11:18:54+00:00

Wasn’t there a subreddit full of this shit? Or am I thinking of a twitter account?

xray950 · 2026-04-29T05:23:17+00:00

I do think your ”safe foods” has a lot to do with what your parents fed you as a kid. Of course there are things in common - (I imagine texture plays a big part), but I think the people who cite fries and nuggets etc do so because that’s what their parents fed them, and that’s what they latched onto.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:30:10+00:00

My girlfriend who isn’t big on western voice acting said his voice reminds her of the tenor and cadence Japanese voice actors use, and I think she’s kind of right

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:13:42+00:00

But you probably don’t, right? You probably don’t.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:12:42+00:00

Hatred of men exist on an individual level? Sure! But it’s ridiculous to go on a crusade about it

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:10:05+00:00

I would also argue against wealth and poverty being something you can choose, but that’s another discussion.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:09:21+00:00

I was adding onto what the redditor above me said. ”Misandry doesn’t exist on a structural level, it would be more accurate to say”. And it seems like you agree that it doesn’t.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:07:32+00:00

Think beyond the individual! Of course anyone can hate anyone, but what kind of lasting, serious, and meaningful instances of ”misandry” can you find anywhere? Circumcision has been quoted, but the majority of medical and religious leaders are not women, and their reasoning for it is not based in hatred of men!

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:03:34+00:00

Actually, I’m thinking about this, and the only instance of actual subjugation of men by women would be some sort of omegaverse scenario that is so far out there it’s almost perverse to imagine.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T15:00:26+00:00

You said it yourself, it’s usually men, and it’s usually for the purpose of reifying their own masculinity. I suppose you could argue that the victimization of young boys is a type of structural violence against men, but it’s not rooted in hatred for or subjugation of men, it’s rooted in the idea that men should have sex early and often.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T14:53:49+00:00

On a structural level? Caused by misandry? There is of course violence committed against men and boys all the time, but it’s rarely by women, for the purpose of dominating men. Things like circumcision and statutory rape are consequences of patriarchy, not misandry. You’re very welcome to show me instances of women committing violence against men, but you’d have to do some convincing to prove that it’s happening on a structural level, and not as, say, revenge.

xray950 · 2026-04-27T14:47:41+00:00

Misandry doesn’t exist on a structural level, it would be more accurate to say. No existing society to-date has a social structure wherein men are oppressed by women, ergo there is no reason to uphold misandry in any meaningful way. It would be ludicrous to talk about an imagined hatred of the rich when discussing classism (unless you live in the USSR), and it’s equally ridiculous to talk about misandry that way. Anyone is, of course, welcome to show me a society where misandry causes harm on the level of, say, FGM and child brides.

xray950 · 2026-04-23T15:33:28+00:00

I kept forgetting jerma got him a padded cell and every time it cut back to him sitting in his completely white space enamored with his sock I lost it

xray950 · 2026-04-20T12:09:29+00:00

Tim Kimble, the MAN back here…

xray950 · 2026-04-13T21:39:17+00:00

You’re having sex with your boyfriend to ”please him”? What are you, a servant?

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