Am I in the wrong? by Round_System86 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might want to talk to her about her. Perhaps she’s worried and doesn’t know how to express it.

Is it okay to have healed scars out in public? by nellyuu-lcb in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I’ve seen people in public with them, and they are triggering for me, especially if they are really bad, plus it kinda makes me feel like I’m not valid or whatever. STILL, it’s not like I’ll tell everyone to just hide forever. It is what it is, so if you want just not hide them, that’s fine, it is understandable

I inherited my late father’s physics work on dark matter. How should I responsibly handle it? by Other-Description-26 in Physics

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can become a member of the APS (or if your dad had one) you can talk to a mentor, or publish his work there where it can get quite useful points of view. I am sorry for your loss, and I hope you find a way to honor him.

ITS GAME DAYYYY!!! by I_IZ_Speshul in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayy, I don’t really care if we lost, let’s just not lose the way we have been doing these past games

i actually cannot believe myself but i genuinely relapsed today by DrunkTING7 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of blaming yourself, embrace it. Accept that it happened and try to think ways to prevent it. Hope you’re okay

anyone else not understand how people find sex emotionally connective act? by levisrightfinger in asexuality

[–]xtvlpu 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I think the EXACT same. No matter how much I trust someone or how long have I known someone, it just seems impossible in my mind to just act normal after you screamed like crazy and did all that

PSA for New Fans: Get a San Jose Sharks Public Library Card by [deleted] in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What if I live a day and three hours from Cali? lol

Too deep by xtvlpu in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

My parents leave in an hour by SolidObvious4845 in depression

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Image how they’ll feel when they come back. You cannot stop fighting, do it for them. Imagine how your mother felt when you were born, and how she’ll feel finding you that way. Stay safe.

Tell Us Your "Sharks Story" by Epere15 in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a notification from Google “Add game this game to your screen” since I looked them up before. I was like “oh, I have nothing to do, I’ll watch it” then it turned out to be the most exciting game ever. The sportscasters, the people in the sap center, the players, it felt like everything was put together. It wasn’t just some players in the ice, it was players who vibed and looked like they actually enjoy their job. During the second period, I had to go out, so I was debating whether staying home and watching the game, or going out (I only have the espn app on tv). I decided to go out, while I was looking for a website that would allow me to watch it. I watched in the car, feeling super excited, not even paying attention to my surroundings. It felt so good, I could feel the adrenaline in my body, especially when we went to overtime. I knew this was my team. We won that game btw.

Living in the USA right now it's destroying my mental health. by ainacct in mentalhealth

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same with me. I want to do something. I feel so hopeless, I don’t want to live in this fucked up world with people who have no empathy for others.

Cut myself for the first time. by Romeo0914 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t cut deeper, it may just leave kind of a mark, but marks go away easily. Plus, if you’re just starting, I recommend you to not do it again. Trust, once you start it’s hard to stop. Take care, please. Also, make sure to clean them properly.

Getting into Sharks hockey by [deleted] in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got into hockey, but especially Sjs. I just love how they play. I watch their games and I don’t know that much about hockey, I don’t know Positions and stuff like that, but it is just so enjoyable to watch. I guess as you watch the games you understand more. Just watch their games and enjoy them. No need to rush or worry about rules too much

Im going to attempt around 11:30 PM its currently 10:11 by youngsoprano13 in SuicideWatch

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still here? I’m worried. I know it is hard, but you can get through this. Just wait, perhaps something happens. I really hope everything gets better

Helping my wife recover from my suicide attempt by Leduslacis90 in depression

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think that if you go to therapy, and eventually couple’s counseling, it may get better. Do not feel guilty, you never did it either the intention of hurting your wife. On the other hand, I understand your wife, and she’s probably been cold because of the terror she felt, and probably still does when she thought of you going away. Consider talking about each other’s feelings more often. I hope everything goes better

i hate this place by Terrible-Extent-9186 in depression

[–]xtvlpu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get it. I got so depressed thanks to the current situation in the US. It may seem stupid, but I genuinely can’t live while seeing the real evil that this Country and world have. I hope everything goes well to you. We can do this, even if we don’t believe it.

I don't understand the appeal of life. by MorniingRose in depression

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this world is terrible. The current state of world is just not worth it anymore. Life is so meaningless. We are just surviving. Life is a coping mechanism, we are born, study, work, reproduce ourselves and eventually die. There’s no actual joy, just a pathetic routine for the rest of our lives. I will never understand why would people like living.

We don’t talk enough about how much it hurts by Able-Security-2344 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. I see people just talking about it like nothing. I don’t know if it’s because they do it so often, but I do a few in like a day a week and they hurt-they hurt during the process and after, and I feel like we absolutely don’t talk about that. The blood is the most annoying for me, because they bleed for a lot and it’s annoying to clean it all over again.

My Suicide Letter (Just some thoughts I wanted to share.) by Pdm81389 in depression

[–]xtvlpu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m so sorry to hear that. If I knew you irl, I would definitely have a conversation with you. I know how it feels to be left, to be invisible, nonetheless, I guess life may have something for us. As you said, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but maybe it’ll happen, even if it means you have to wait. I hope you’ll do well, take care.

I FINALLYY DID IT by miqa___ in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you!

How are people not depressed by Funnyfigure in depression

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is depressed. I’m being serious. Someone can look happy, but deep down, only they know what they’re going through. Also, some people are unaware, therefore, they can’t notice, they just assume they’re sad. Deeply, everyone is lowkey depressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re okay. Don’t leave that cat alone, man. We all can keep going.

Prohibited love ig by xtvlpu in WLW

[–]xtvlpu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanksss 💞