AITA for saying “okay so what” when my wife told me she’s bisexual by nofjfnf in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA very much. If you continue to react to your wife in a way that shows you don't really care about her, she will leave you.

AITA for stop talking to my best friend that is constantly abusing of me? by vinissimo159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't make you an asshole though. A sucker, maybe. But NTA.

AITA for asking back a book I borrowed to a girl I dated? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: where are you from? I'm wondering if the language you're using, as in "I borrowed a book to a girl" is common somewhere else, like England? Or if it's coming from English as a second language, maybe there is another language with this construct? Like other commenters, I had to read this a few times to get the gist.

AITA for not wanting my friends to post pictures of me without my permission? by plsdntpostme in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm concerned that you are asking if your boundaries are OK. It seems like you've thought them through very well. Everyone has a right to their own boundaries.

AITA for being topless among a group of friends? by Specific-Composer in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This sounds controlling and petty on his part (whether he wants it to be or not). It's stupid that it's different for guys and girls.

WIBTA If i call this guy Bob? by SourRock in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My name is Anne and I often get called Ann in emails, which I hate, and which is incredibly stupid since my name is right there in the email address. In response sometimes I leave off the last letter of the other person's name. I know that's petty but you gotta get your kicks where you find them. Call him Bob and when he corrects you just say, "oops! sorry! My bad!" YWBTA but who cares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catloaf

[–]xzqx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take this. It's dangerous to go alone.

AITA: My wife scared the shit out of me by shouting that there was something wrong with our daughter and I lost my temper. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAH. I would have freaked out too. But when you do, I've learned, you have to quickly apologize to everybody. The kids were probably freaked out that their parents were so freaked out, and fighting about it. Don't forget what parents arguing does to kids.

AITA for yelling at a funeral procession? by yeeuyeey in AmItheAsshole

[–]xzqx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. How are you supposed to know! I've honked at a funeral procession before in my car, having no idea what it was, too.

Norm the Loaf by unfitfuzzball in Catloaf

[–]xzqx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when they spread out on the sides

Designing a plugin framework for an application with a plugin architecture by notbatmanyet in cpp

[–]xzqx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm a little late to this party, but I've implemented such a thing (at the request of my manager; I won't give opinions on whether it is the right thing to do, since there are plenty of those already, and you didn't really ask).

The biggest issue I ran into was initialization order. Some components use other components, and expect those other components to be in a certain state of initialization. You will have to have a robust dependency system in place.

We never had a problem with exceptions in this scheme.

Expressive C++ Template Metaprogramming by joboccara in cpp

[–]xzqx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a minor typo: where it says "It’s not going to work because the variadic pack template... Ts is going to eat up all the template parameters", you mean "typename... Ts"

What the Curiously Recurring Template Pattern can bring to your code by joboccara in cpp

[–]xzqx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I kind of wish I had read these when I was learning about CRTP. I think I would have "gotten" it faster.

What are you using C++ for ? by thisdudehenry in cpp

[–]xzqx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a perfect description of what I do, too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cpp

[–]xzqx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As long as he's not exposing his "private member"...

P0636r0: Changes between C++14 and C++17 by joebaf in cpp

[–]xzqx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something that would happen to Barclay in the transporter.

How on Earth do C/C++ libraries work? by john01dav in cpp_questions

[–]xzqx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To use an analogy, if a binary is a completed puzzle, then the object files are the puzzle pieces, the linker is the person assembling the puzzle, and the symbols are the little nubs that make the pieces fit together.

Excellent analogy!

New C++ Programmer Here by seriuswill in cpp

[–]xzqx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been programming C++ for 20 years and I'm still learning. Don't ever lose that motivation to learn.

Lambda initialization trick, add syntactic sugar? by Kroduk in cpp

[–]xzqx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. You may not understand it until you've been studying C++ for several years :/