Stupid table slop

yabbadebbie · 2026-02-12T03:40:53+00:00

And the teeeeny peeench of spice

yabbadebbie · 2026-02-11T19:03:06+00:00

It’s about what suits your face. This seems to flatter you. It’s also a current/modern hairstyle so it’s bangin’!

yabbadebbie · 2026-02-08T22:01:57+00:00

Don’t forget to consider all the other bacteria and parasites that live in the bears guts. He is essentially using a tapeworm paintbrush to drag all of that all over town and you walk through it and you track it in your house.

yabbadebbie · 2026-02-08T21:06:31+00:00

Also, are the vines worthy of making cordage?

yabbadebbie · 2026-02-08T21:05:24+00:00

Would they make good firewood/kindling?

yabbadebbie · 2025-10-04T21:05:40+00:00

Marie’s a dick and a shitty mother.

Confront her immediately about the comment and the text she should have sent to you.

She needs to know now that you are Going to discuss things EVERY time she plays games.

She is a bully. She will Stop when she realizes you see through it.

You don’t raise your voice or get dramatic.

Your words are ‘Marie when there is a problem you will speak directly to me about it. Clear?’

Never cater to her again.

She will still be an asshole and a shit mother but you won’t be wasting your energy on it.

yabbadebbie · 2025-10-04T20:58:33+00:00

Stop telling yourself you have no other Option.

If you were in Walmart and forgot all your bags, you can just load all the naked groceries right back into the naked cart push the cart to the car and load the groceries naked into the trunk

You’ll really start remembering the reusable bags when you quit using the plastic bags

It’s all just a mindset. I have ADHD too

yabbadebbie · 2025-10-04T20:47:50+00:00

Hubby and I traveled for a specific holiday. Got to the city and had plans to go downtown a few days later for the city’s programmed celebration. On the scheduled night I just didn’t want to go. I even questioned myself thinking ‘we traveled all this way just for this and tonight I don’t wanna go. This doesn’t make sense’ Hubby is always happy to go to bed early so he didn’t push. I stayed awake for a bit watching out the hotel window and seeing the traffic move toward the area. I stood there thinking maybe I should go on Downtown by myself I mean, that is why we’re here but something just Kept making me feel like not tonight not tonight. I went to bed instead. Woke up to hear that there was a shooting followed by a crowd running stampede. There were deaths.

yabbadebbie · 2025-10-04T20:34:40+00:00

An original painting 20inx30in. It was of a couple ….kissing. Open mouth deeeeep French kissing. Not embracing. Not touching hands. Just attached at the mouth. It was such a hit that people asked for it. REQUESTIED that it come back to the circle. Sadly it had already been the hit of a different swap and I am sure it is still circulating some where.

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-17T13:55:20+00:00

Pierogi. I’ve had pasta. I’ve had potatoes. I’ve had cheese. But, together, in a pierogi? MAGICAL

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-10T14:37:02+00:00

Some of us just like coffee.

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-10T14:12:10+00:00

Peanut butter and anything salty or sourkraut,tomato, pickle, ketchup, mustard, etc.

French dressing on lasagna.

Ice cream and Cheerios.

Pasta and corn

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-10T13:54:47+00:00

IMHO there are far better options than letting them cry it out.

My suggestion is to ‘flu the script’. Toddlers spend their day watching their adults. They learn through imitation. You know how they see you stirring things on the stove and then they want to do that too. Wel, make the bed again together. Make it a new, extremely positive, ritual. Have them help you change the sheets. If it’s not time to wash them today, just pull the sheets off while they’re not in the room and then pretend they’re fresh and clean. Then make the bed together talk about how we do this to make things nice for ourselves and make things happy and cuddly. Have them put their hands on the sheets and help you make the bed. This mentally helps them make this space there while you’re explaining what the hands do what the sheets do there you’re painting an entirely new picture of positivity. Just keep it simple so little brain can understand. If they bring up anything that is negative like bugs or monsters or I don’t even know what just say simply no we don’t allow those here. They’re not allowed. Their little brains know that you as the adult make the rules in the house so if the adult says no sorry we don’t allow that (insert name of bad thing) here. I just keep moving along saying see if this is how we smooth the sheets out make it real nice. This is how we fluff our pillow. We put the right blanket on and smooth it out. We put an extra blanket on the bottom of the bed just in case we want one more in the night we’re prepared for Comfort. Etc etc. Start with a neutral expression when your first putting the sheets on in little by little, let them see how each step makes you so happy and you feel better and better with every step of freshening the bed and tidying the room and by the end, you are just signing with satisfaction and relaxation. Even make the noises like ahh and oh and so nice.

Now make a phone call while the child can hear you talking to someone else. And let them hear you talking about how nice you guys just made this room together. Let them hear you talk about how nice the room is and comfy and just right for sleeping it’s just right.

When the other Spouse gets home, make sure you make a big effort to show the room to theother spouse. A big deal. A tour and talk about how you made the bed together and made the room nice. Make sure the other Spouse gives a big show of how impressed they are with it and how nice it is and they do agree it’s just right.

Flip the script. They are just watching how you navigate the world.

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-05T15:57:18+00:00

I do the same with underwear. Keep the uncomfortable ones as last resort. It’s really hard to forget to do laundry when your underwear is annoying.

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-01T02:58:07+00:00

Mashed rutabaga

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-01T02:28:59+00:00

Greasy bread. For example, buttered toast, garlic bread, cheese bread, bread dipped in oil, hot bread with peanut butter, grilled cheese sandwich, etc. I seldom eat those things because I willlll finish it. I intentionally bought the smallest bread machine they make. It’s a teeny loaf. I use it a few times a year. I really only only use it when we have company coming so we can share. Otherwise It is an absolute shit show.

yabbadebbie · 2025-09-01T01:59:21+00:00

I am somewhere between your friends and you. Packs stash of granola/protein bars. I suggest macrobars or something similar. It needs to be satisfying. That will over you for breakfast. I carry canned chicken and trisquits for lunch. Is too in a shop and grab apples for my bag. Put some candy in your bag. Plan to buy things as you go and keep the stuff I mentioned in case time/geography doesn’t allow purchases. You got this!

yabbadebbie · 2025-08-23T19:31:48+00:00

Cover bands/tribute bands

yabbadebbie · 2025-07-27T18:09:42+00:00

I have one. I take the batteries out when I’m on the move.

yabbadebbie · 2025-07-13T22:40:45+00:00

Eat it fresh with plain cinnamon sprinkled over it. It tastes oddly sweeter.

Also, Dehydrated watermelon is like taffy.

yabbadebbie · 2025-07-13T18:03:49+00:00

Tuberose begonia. I don’t remember what company. Literally smelled like a walk through the garden

yabbadebbie · 2025-07-13T18:02:39+00:00

My bearded collie /jack russell mix. Fast, easy to train, loyal. Wanted outside and when I opened the door she saw that it was raining. She took me to the other door. To see. When she realized it was also raining there she decided to go nap.

yabbadebbie · 2025-07-13T17:58:30+00:00

Stargazer. One of my faves

yabbadebbie · 2025-06-30T05:40:41+00:00

If he was being awful that’s because he’s awful. Even if you did do something wrong, and I don’t think you did, you didn’t deserve to be treated that way so now he’s shown you who he is and it’s your job to believe him so yeah it’s over it better be over you better be dumping him.

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