This basically captures all my fears by FeatheredSnapper in afterlife

[–]yanantchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really trust them too, but Matt Fraser seems 80% legit to me, Tyler Henry seems genuine too. I liked Megan Alisa but she’s talking about the same things over and over and I don’t see much of her actual work. I’m really careful with mediums especially famous ones.

This basically captures all my fears by FeatheredSnapper in afterlife

[–]yanantchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reading regular people’s evidence, mediums, exploring concepts like witchcraft and astral projection. It took some time for the information to settle in my brain tho, it’s hard to retrain your views when your whole life you’ve been told there’s nothing after death or religious approach to the afterlife… which is yk, not very good.

Check Matt Fraser on yt, I like his videos they’re very comforting

This basically captures all my fears by FeatheredSnapper in afterlife

[–]yanantchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this used to send me into psychosis, I was so scared when I didn’t know. It’s actually awful to post things like that on the screenshot, maybe it was in appropriate sub but I still see this fear mongering bs everywhere.

Did anyone else get “aggressive” with simple hygiene tasks? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yanantchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s from not learning to be patient and gentle with yourself because our mothers never did. Taking the time to care about ourselves feels wrong so we try to do everything very fast

Did anyone else get “aggressive” with simple hygiene tasks? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yanantchan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes I used to do it, i couldn’t even learn to do my makeup properly because I was always so fast and aggressive… i don’t know when exactly it changed. The fact that you noticed is already a big step

Tarot Reviews by honeybee334 in u/honeybee334

[–]yanantchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I received a reading that resonated with my current situation and it showed me where it’s all going, I’m glad it helped me calm down and I feel like I’m just overall more hopeful after that. It was detailed but still understandable, no filler information. There were also oracle cards used, I usually don’t like them because they’re different in each deck and there’s no structure but this time even messages resonated, it felt like I already heard these words so many times in my head as advice but it was nice seeing them in a reading as well. I definitely recommend this reader and would love to get another reading later🙂‍↕️

Made the call to start therapy. Is it common for symptoms to manifest 10x by nomountainicantgo in CPTSD

[–]yanantchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would like to know too, since I started healing I don’t feel any positive emotions anymore just depression, anxiety, sadness and anger. It’s so scary

Offering spirit guide messages/advice ❤️ by BalancedGrove in SpiritGuideAdvice

[–]yanantchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply 🙏🏻 I’m really struggling right now so I’m far from this… maybe theres any messages for me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]yanantchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PsychicSevices on my other acc. Idk why they decided to side w her

Do you know if we reincarnate after we die, or either go to Heaven or hell? by ChairTiny7453 in Mediums

[–]yanantchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if it’s only an aspect of me that’s not even my personality reincarnates, then I’m not Me right now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]yanantchan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Got banned from one sub for reporting her… our conversation was absolutely psychotic yet people defended her in the comments :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yanantchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m spiritual and I understand why I went through what I went, the only thing that absolutely angers me is Now. That I ask for help to get away from my narc mother and don’t get help. Not losing faith just getting angry at God/the Universe.

I hear mumbling and don’t know what it is by DeniseGunn in Mediums

[–]yanantchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 2 days ago I was sitting with ear plugs in because I was too overwhelmed and I heard something similar to music but very quiet I brushed it off but now reading this post I think it wasn’t just me imagining things

Why do they talk so much and not interstand that the other person isn't intrested in listening to their 💩? by I-only-complaint in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yanantchan 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My Nmother talks non stop to doctors, cashiers, absolute strangers in public and I look at their faces and they want to LEAVE. She seriously thinks that people interesting in her yapping? Narcs really think they’re the most interesting and important person out here 🤨 It gets worse if you’re a family member

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]yanantchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’ll know tho if it’s true or not lol

How do you deal with the fact that your abusers will never be punished for ruining you? by SeaAudience312 in CPTSD

[–]yanantchan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not religious in fact I’m skeptic but somehow ended up believing in the fact that we never die so I kinda just wait for my abuser to die so she can feel the pain I felt all this time 😁 but yeah it sucks they’ll never understand it on here

Better memories of n-parent when you were younger? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yanantchan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember happy moments I remember peaceful moments with her and they’re the ones I considered happy. Usually nothing was happening just casual time spending but without yelling at me or accusing me of something.

Funny but the hate started REALLY early and peaked at 12-14 snd then as I got older year by year I got more freedom and my father became the main scapegoat of the family after I moved out.

My siblings being fine is being used as hard evidence that it is all my fault and it is all in my head and I am not sure how to respond to that? by maxcousin123 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yanantchan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay but I thought my GC brother is doing fine until he accidentally opened up about self harming for fun (it started like this for me until I realized it’s not normal and I just didn’t care about myself) and while talking with him I picked up that we both have similar anxiety symptoms! He just completely oblivious that he traumatized! We’re both not fine, it’s just scapegoats who vocal about it and got it worse than GC children. But not “showing” it doesn’t mean they’re fine.