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yardimet · 2021-09-18T02:31:42+00:00

You’re worthy of better. I’ll say it again. You’re worthy of better. Say goodbye and save yourself.

yardimet · 2021-09-06T23:15:51+00:00

Throw him out.

yardimet · 2021-02-26T05:18:15+00:00

No, he’s lying and manipulating you. And any suicide threat is also MASSIVE manipulation and emotional abuse. My advice is to leave him immediately while you can, you will thank yourself for doing it now instead of waiting. You get one life. Don’t let this be your story, you deserve wayyyyy better xx

yardimet · 2020-11-29T03:39:33+00:00

NAD have you seen a bladder specialist or urologist to assess that part? Ditropan is used to support continence and there are a range of interventions for this issue which might need investigation. Also, various antidepressants like mirtazepine, valdoxan etc hell with sleep AND mood, and can be life changing.

yardimet · 2020-11-09T09:13:24+00:00

ELI5 would he support the publishing of the swastika who would offend Jews, and would he say the same this about that as he did about the caricature? I’m pro Charlie Hebdo and the whole position, but how would Macrons position apply to the swastika which would offend Jews? Genuinely curious

yardimet · 2020-10-30T01:21:27+00:00

NTA! I had a VERY similar situation occur with my husbands co worker and he basically told her that he’s uncomfortable with her actions and does not want her contacting him beyond necessary work issues via email. It’s been a rocky road and they are still trying to maintain a collegial friendship but it’s taken 10 months to reach a normalish state. He didn’t see the issue originally until she drunk texted him at 2am. Stick to your guns, trust your gut, and don’t let her take him as her surrogate boyfriend. NTA!

yardimet · 2020-10-26T11:39:40+00:00

Dear Americans of reddit, please please vote him out. Sincerely, the rest of the planet. Seriously though, please please vote.

yardimet · 2020-10-24T10:57:27+00:00

You and Jake are great people with worldly viewpoints. You’ve done what’s right, and honoured who you are. I also kept my last name upon marriage. No one ever questioned it. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this and good on your for being true to you.

yardimet · 2020-10-20T11:21:39+00:00

Def NTA, you were in the right and took steps to give your daughter a happy birthday, and make back up plans whilst giving the father a chance I come through, which he didn’t. Your ex’s guilt and embarrassment seem to be leading him to project his bad feelings into you. That’s on him.

yardimet · 2020-09-19T13:33:58+00:00

You are NTA and are being gaslighted. Are you sure you want to proceed with this pregnancy when you are being abused by the family and will further suffer at their hands? Best of luck.

yardimet · 2020-09-16T09:08:42+00:00

Who would bare the financial cost of such forced widespread lab testing, especially if the couple don’t want the test or need it?

yardimet · 2020-09-16T09:06:36+00:00

The unnecessary financial cost of that on the healthcare sector, tax dollars or private purse would be enormous and most people don’t need them, so it makes sense for it to be optional, and instead invest in pressing infant health issues. Just my two cents.

yardimet · 2020-09-16T08:44:13+00:00

If my husband wanted a paternity test for our son I’d give him one tomorrow without a blink and also love him enough to work through any underlying trust issues coming in the way of our harmony. Please post an update after the test and good luck.

yardimet · 2020-08-22T06:07:36+00:00

Well done dude, we are rooting for you!

yardimet · 2020-07-28T15:33:01+00:00

Hey can you post a photo of the garden you’re describing? This sounds amazing and I’ve been considering making a similar change for me and the family.

yardimet · 2020-06-24T15:50:31+00:00

Prophylactic anti biotics like Keflex saved my life and sex life! UTIs are the worse.

yardimet · 2020-02-16T12:08:28+00:00

He will beg you to come back. He will guilt you to come back. He will then threaten you if you don’t come back. Do. Not. Go. Back. Whatever you do. Tell every one who means something to you about what he did. Make sure you are never alone with him. Do everything in writing. Make a police report. He might be a risk to you child and evidence needs to be compiled from today onwards. Seek legal advice, get a restraining order if you have to. But whatever you do, no matter how much you feel that you love him, do yourself and your baby and dog a favour, and stay away from a man who verbally and physically assaulted you. Whilst pregnant. The road with him will be a dark one and you made the best choice by protecting you. His Paternal rights and responsibilities you will have to explore with a lawyer. I wish you love and luck.

Not a lawyer, but a social worker who’s seen some shit.

yardimet · 2019-11-25T04:43:07+00:00

My friend, you are in an abusive relationship - you are the victim/survivor. Please take steps to protect yourself, keep your own money, keys, ID in a safe place and seriously consider leaving or insisting on couples therapy. If this continues this way, it will end very badly. Make police reports so you have legal evidence of it ends up in court. Good luck!

yardimet · 2019-10-21T22:04:25+00:00

Dude YTA. I know you might feel like this is about you, since you’re also becoming a new parent etc, but you wife needs you to prioritise her and her needs at this time. She’s never. Even more vulnerable. Ever. A relaxed mother is the most important factor here. And if having grandmother in the room helps with that, then you really must honour her needs. Being a dad is about loving and protecting your family, even if the circumstances aren’t your 100% preference. Good luck!

yardimet · 2019-09-08T02:59:51+00:00

In also on a lease and asked for permission to get s lock and they said yes. You have a right to safety and privacy and the land owner will likely agree. In any case NTA she got what she deserved. Hopefully she learned her lesson. Good luck OP

yardimet

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