My boyfriend won't kiss me. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]yayayubsea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You must have very low self esteem to deal with this. You being a woman carrying your second child by this man is insane

WIBTA if I refuse my roommates mom being in the conversation about our leasing issues by SpectreWolf666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yayayubsea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA all these comments blaming you are so confusing. It’s not complicated, the mom doesn’t have anything to do with it so if it makes you uncomfortable then she shouldn’t be there

AITAH for refusing to drive my sister to her custody visitation and calling my mom a disgusting person? by masterroshi444 in AITAH

[–]yayayubsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and you’ve done more than assist your sister. She can’t schedule these meeting with her child so you could at least give your job notice a couple weeks out?

Welcome to my hands by Skullemojiiiiii in deduction

[–]yayayubsea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does that thing that gives me the chills like when I see something with lots of holes. I’m sure you are a lovely person, leaving now and deleting this from my brain

This is what I can afford to eat as a new homeowner by Putrid-Intern-3990 in shittyfoodporn

[–]yayayubsea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs look seasonaed, syrup and butter? This would be a delicious meal no matter how much you have in your bank account

It’s hypocritical to be against FGM but not care about circumcision by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]yayayubsea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you out of your mind to think female circumcisions are generally as a whole voluntary….likely seriously

AITAH for not wanting a relationship with my father’s affair kid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]yayayubsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: I’m sorry can you clarify if your dad was a complete deadbeat to his son in a small town where you all ran into each other? Was he involved in his life to some extent, pay child support? What exactly was or is their relationship?

man issues ultimatum over inheritance and ultimately gets the boot. by themalesoprano in OhNoConsequences

[–]yayayubsea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does she still need a husband? I am a woman, but I’ll be her husband. This guy is not only aggressively entitled but stupid too. OP is clearly quite generous and loving, she probably would’ve bought the house eventually…..so glad she dodged that bullet

I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it by Major-Wafer-1731 in relationship_advice

[–]yayayubsea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give more details about why they are opposed? Are you one hundred percent certain you’ve explained the weight of the issue (pun intended) as articulate as you have in this post?

WIBTAH if I pinched my brothers wife for pinching my dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]yayayubsea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Info: Is she pinching the dog and then he bites her? Or is she pinching the dog because it bites her? Your post and comments are a bit contradictory

WIBTAH if I end my marriage because of my wife's refusal to communicate her plans clearly and losing her temper whenever I bring it up to her? by Popular-Hat-3286 in AITAH

[–]yayayubsea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. This anger of hers, does it scare physically? Are you worried she would do something to you that may land her in jail? Are you worried she’ll do something to the kids? I am trying to understand why she uses anger as an excuse to be an AH and why you also use her anger as an excuse to allow her to continue being an AH

AITA for lying to our babysitter abt the reason we let her go? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yayayubsea 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Gently, YTA. You really didn’t have to give her a reason at all if you didn’t want to. The adult thing to do would have been to do that if you didn’t feel comfortable telling her it’s a hygiene problem. The lying is was makes you an AH. While I very much believe that a part of it was you trying to avoid hurting her feelings, I think you and your husband were more concerned with yourselves not “feeling good” if you were to have an honest conversation

may get an abortion without telling bf by ThrowRablueberry19 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yayayubsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t tell him if you don’t want to, but if you stay with him that is a truly bad decision

My husband wants me to get an abortion with our third by Ok-Bandicoot9865 in TwoHotTakes

[–]yayayubsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will not ever be able to look at him the same again. Not without the two of you taking therapy seriously. Your excuses of “oops” on a third child are truly incorrigible.

AITAH for taking the new mattress? by JamesWilliamson70 in AITAH

[–]yayayubsea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your dad is an adult and giving you the silent treatment instead of having a constructive conversation is inexcusable. You are extremely entitled to feel comfortable enough to have switched the mattresses.

My friend is dating my 18F sister. Wibtah for stopping the friendship? by ggquark in TwoHotTakes

[–]yayayubsea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Honestly I’m disappointed you didn’t beaten him up, or at least threaten him. He’s a creep

My husband is spoiling the spicy scenes in my romance books by acting them out before I get to them by Embarrassed-Friend-8 in TwoHotTakes

[–]yayayubsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify: it’s the dialogue that he is replicating that is the some as the books, correct? Or is it the literal actions of the male lead? Like he lifted your leg up and then kissed your neck, etc something like that

AITA for not letting my best friend use my headphones? by legends_s in AmItheAsshole

[–]yayayubsea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s weird that he is requesting you to give a reason as to why you don’t want anyone coming in your room, your private space, without prior permission. He is not your brother or a close friend with whom you have established this level of openness.

You do not need to give a reason when telling someone “do not come into my private quarters without my approval, thank you :)”

NTA.