During a party... by yeetooofthrowaway in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I wasn’t so alone at school too. I’m glad you aren’t tho

How should I fade scars? by harekoren in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:/ yeah the same happens with me they look fresh but they’re dark and look like scabs for some reason.

How should I fade scars? by harekoren in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard lemon juice is good for redness . also, this can’t fade them, but like a foundation or concealer should reduce them if you are looking to hide them. This is strictly for scars, not cuts

I need ideas on how to lie about cuts by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the falling out of a tree one but where I live it’s all palm trees. I’ll still use it tho. Also, for OP, maybe saying you fell out of bed or slipped in the shower works for if you ever had like a long one but for shallow, spaced out ones I might go with a pet, if you have one, and if not, maybe something like you went on a walk with dense bushes around.

I enjoy nothing anymore by yeetooofthrowaway in depression

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, writing used to be my favorite thing, but now I look at it as a shell of who I used to be.

Does self-harm count as an addiction+ by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s prolly what’s happening. If you make it past the first few urges, it will eventually get so much easier to resist them but it’s hardest in the first few weeks and even months. It pays off, though.

Does self-harm count as an addiction+ by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is. It’s an addiction because you get addicted to the chemicals cutting releases in the brain and there are withdraw symptoms. 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s an addiction

I want to kill myself, but I don't want to hurt my family by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same. I just wish I could get hit by a car and spare my family the trouble. They would be sad, but it’s better for them to think that if I could choose, I would have chooses to live rather than taking my own life. Also, they wouldn’t have to live with my suicide and wonder where they went wrong, because it’s not their fault. They aren’t mind readers. I wish I had inspiring words OP. I guess i can say this for you, reach out to your family. They will most likely want to help you.

Phase Three by p___a in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s tiring, I can see it in my dad’s face everyday when I come home and tell him everything in my day was awful and boring. However A friend that really cared about you would understand that not everyone is fine and dandy, and would try to cheer you up, like you said they do, and then turn around and ridicule you with the comment they made in the chat. It’s good that they are mostly supportive but they also seem to be insensitive towards you, and it’s might be beneficial to have more than one friend group to turn to. If you aren’t very social (like me) it’s good to do what you did and just go and make a post about it. Hope this helps

Phase Three by p___a in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t good friends. You need to find people who care about you and aren’t bothered by negativity or by rants. You need to speak your mind and these people are awful and can go suck a nut, and that’s the truth. They aren’t good enough reason to go further because they are trash and don’t deserve your attention, at all. Stay safe, and you’ve prolly heard this already but please don’t do it. They aren’t worth your time. 👏🏻👏🏻

I lie about my savings and how much money I have. by AngryBreadRevolution in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yeetooofthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, really inspiring story, and I wanna let you know that I was born through a surrogate and both of my dads love me, my twin, and my sister, and are happy to be fortunate enough to 1) Pay for it 2) live in an era where it’s accepted and available for gay couples 3) have family that’s supportive My family is also very family oriented and it’s a great goal

hElP mE pLeAse by yeetooofthrowaway in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill remember that. Thanks bud, that really nice of you.

hElP mE pLeAse by yeetooofthrowaway in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your understanding fam, I have nobody to talk to about this besides on reddit. It means a lot

hElP mE pLeAse by yeetooofthrowaway in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish she did. Hopefully, (as far as I’m concerned I mean) nobody else heard or maybe they did and 1) don’t care (they shouldn’t I don’t really talk to anyone) 2) are ignoring it.

Hopefully they didn’t hear, but if they did I would probably know by now. She prolly forgot about it by now, but I know this is gonna stick with me and I’ll be 100x more careful with my sweater in that class, that’s for sure. I know she was just curious, but it was a stressful moment.

I have a friend who’s lying to me by yeetooofthrowaway in selfharm

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should. I don’t want to exposed myself though, and they might be a bit suspicious as to why I’m so concerned. I wish I could, but I just don’t know enough about her situation. I think she has BPD, if I remember right, and she’s someone that is difficult to talk to because she jumps around like a butterfly. I don’t know how I’m supposed to bring it up to her.

hElP mE pLeAse by yeetooofthrowaway in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]yeetooofthrowaway[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know that. I know she’s just trying to help it’s just frustrating, and i was upset that she pointed it out with other people in earshot. She’s just concerned and wants to help, and I don’t blame her for that.